I want someone, but since the last few months have really fucked me up, 1 relationship over and another girl that I'm really close to doesn't see me like that anymore. I want her so bad...and I know she doesn't want me, so I'm trying to get over her, but I can't even find anyone else moderately attractive, nevermind loving them.

Help? Advice?

Oh, the thing that makes it worse is that she keeps telling me she loves me, and that I'm perfect for her, and that she still thinks I'm attractive, but she doesn't feel the same.

What

The

Fuck?

I'm posting here because I feel advice from the girls may help...

Give yourself time to get over it. Focus on other things and hang out with friends when you can. Eventually (usually when you're least expecting it) you will meet someone who interests you and who you find attractive.

My advice, hmm.

Take a break and pick up a hobby. Bury yourself in it for a while, until you're over these girls.

quote:Originally posted by Fletcher:

Oh, the thing that makes it worse is that she keeps telling me she loves me, and that I'm perfect for her, and that she still thinks I'm attractive, but she doesn't feel the same.

What

The

Fuck?

I'm posting here because I feel advice from the girls may help...

Let her go. Talk like that is fluff (imo).

quote:Originally posted by Fletcher:

Oh, the thing that makes it worse is that she keeps telling me she loves me, and that I'm perfect for her, and that she still thinks I'm attractive, but she doesn't feel the same.

What

The

Fuck?

I'm posting here because I feel advice from the girls may help...

Sounds like she doesnt want you, but she still wants you to want her.

If you find another girl, chances are she'll get jealous and try and get you to like her again. And even if she doesnt, you're better off moving on.

I think you need to set the foundation of your relationship. I've never been in this situation but it's best to say you have my number, and if you want to take me somewhere call me.

I think it's pretty simple and sweet.

It's easy.

We've all felt the same way about women we break up with. No matter how life-ending it seems and horrible it is that you broke up with your girlfriend, things always get better.

You may not ever forget about them, which I still think about my girlfriends from a long time ago...

None the less, things always get better. There are more amazing women that come along months down the road, if not weeks. It's happen to me 5 or 6 fold.

What to do until then? Pick up a hobby, get outside, do shit for yourself. You need time for yourself to heal and forget that women aren't everything in the world.

Good luck.

quote:Originally posted by Fletcher:

Oh, the thing that makes it worse is that she keeps telling me she loves me, and that I'm perfect for her, and that she still thinks I'm attractive, but she doesn't feel the same.

What

The

Fuck?

I'm posting here because I feel advice from the girls may help...

Grow some balls and break this into her face:

1) Sledge hammer (oops, no wait, this is for Bad Ideas forum)

"Stop wasting my time! You either love me or you don't, so don't tell me lame bullshit of "OMG how I love you but I don't feel the saaaame anymore (raise hands and wiggle patheticly). Make up your mind, because I WON'T be waiting you to FUCKING GROW UP!!"

In was in a similar situation, and those words left the bitch crying for weeks. Then she began calling me every so, texting, etc... I just wouldn't reply, neither talk to her at school. It worked! I got her back! The thing is I really hated her after all the shit she'd put me through, so I told her in the end that "she was boring me and I wouldn't date a wart-infested teen whore" (She wasn't all that, but SNAP! Suddenly the guy who loved you has embarrased you in front of a big school crowd).

I loved her, and hurted me like mad, but when you play with me you can expect psychopathic changes of mood! One day I love you, the next day that you frown, you're a whore! Wheee!

She's a cunt, rape her.

Alright don't rape her, but god damn, take that ^ guy's advice. Or something.

Fucking bitch is playing with your heart man.

Taking his advice^^^^



Read the topic i made on...

'How to get over a girl.'

I started listening to pink, kelly clarkson and Madonna...it seems to help...

^ ...

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...How?

I hate pink >_< Fucking pretentious whore. And why won't Madonna die already. Seriously. I'm serious! I'll kill her myself!

Kelly Clarkson is orright. A product of a glorified karaoke machine, but still, orright. Kinda hideous though.

Sorry! off topic.

/hungover

Yeah it's ok now...I've decided to be an arsehole and go out with her best friend...since hse likes me. I've even started getting the "hey you phittie =]" again when she comes online...game on.