My libido has seriously been in overdrive these past few days. I have a very high libido normaly, but I can control it.

This is something else completely. I am in actual factual physical agony from lack of sex. Not that I have ever in my life gotten much sex, and I've certianly gone longer than the current two months before.

I can't stand it anymore. I need to know how to make it stop.

And before anyone makes one of the two obvious comments:

1. Already tried that, a lot. A LOT. Useless.

2a. I can't go screw some chick, I have a girlfriend. She's away at college so I don't get to see her much. I. Do. Not. Cheat.

2b. Even if I did, it takes me months of hard work to get a woman interested in me.

yikes. so no masturbation and no sex. exercise? just running and running until you collapse?

So how hard would it be for you to go see your woman? And if you're in physical pain, I doubt boning is going to help much.

Geez, you think two months is long, go a year and a half. Done it. Almost there again for that matter..

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

yikes. so no masturbation and no sex. exercise? just running and running until you collapse?

See #1

quote:Originally posted by Soda_Can_Sniper:

Geez, you think two months is long, go a year and a half. Done it. Almost there again for that matter..

Been there, it's just 2 months currently.

female in COLLEGE + MONTHS in a row without seeing her = 0% chance the relationship survives.

=/

get addicted to something.

Interesting theory. But over the past 5 years we've broken up 3 times, but every time we run into each other we end up back together.

Last time we were apart for about 2 years. We'd both been through another relationship during that time. We get back in contact, and I learn that she'll be back in town in a few weeks, so we decide to do the just friends thing. We hung out for an hour or two, and literaly the very minute we had the house to ourselves the clothes came off. In fact, I'd give it 15 seconds after we were alone.

So yeah, even if I did break up with her, we'd just get back together the next time we saw each other.

[This message has been edited by Prometheus (edited 10-29-2006).]

Go out dancing and get freaky.

Just flirt a little more, it's natural, innocent and will alleviate some of your tension.

Maybe its not sex, well not just orgasm (or jackin off woulda done it), that you really want. Might be more of the closeness with someone, just touching them and gettin a response. So actually just going out to a club and dancing might actually be a decent idea.

There just may be some merit to that. But, given how much I would have to drink in order to be able to dance, I might as well buy a bus ticket to visit my girlfriend.

Point stands, meet new girls, flirt a little.

Dear Dirty Dog,

You horrrrny puppy! Have you ever worked your Manly Tool without any direct physical contact from your hand? No hand manipulation at all?

???...

quote:Originally posted by Prometheus:

I. Do. Not. Cheat.

Finally, someone else with some fucking integrity. Righteousness, represent.

As for the sex drive issue...excersize is actually a really good one. It'll flush your hormones and tire you out, etc. I mean, you can be distracted by thoughts of sex if you're on your 26th mile on the stationary bike. Breathing will be enough of an issue.

This method worked for me for months in pretty much the same situation. 25km per day on the bikes. It takes a lot of time and energy, both of which are the things you need to get rid of.

quote:Originally posted by Shodan's Own:

Finally, someone else with some fucking integrity. Righteousness, represent.

Quoted for truth. (Y)

Mosh pit. I don't mean getting close to girls...I mean going absolutely mental...keeps me sane-ish. It's a great way to blow off steam, and it helps with stress etc.

If you've already broken up three times, what makes you think this is going to last, honestly? I know you say you keep ending up together again, but is that how you want to live the rest of your life? Personally, I perfer much less drama than that. Find the TRUE girl of your dreams. If this was your dream girl, she (or you) would never break up. As to how to find the right one? You'll know the moment she stands in front of you. That's what happened to me. I had to go through a lot of hassle go get her (and she had to go through even more to get me) but it's all worth it!

Opiates. the bane of all sex drive.



or whatever he said:

quote:Originally posted by senorfrog:

Maybe its not sex, well not just orgasm (or jackin off woulda done it), that you really want. Might be more of the closeness with someone, just touching them and gettin a response. So actually just going out to a club and dancing might actually be a decent idea.

Lift weights, run, take up painting or something. Find a hobby. Or, break up with her and go fuck someone else.