There's this girl that I had like an obsessive crush on almost a year ago, but it still hasn't died out completely. We had a bit of a thing going on, but the farthest we ever went was some make-out sessions and an unfinished handjob. Actually it was kinda funny how that happened... We had a bit to drink and were in her bed on a saturday afternoon and we were just messing around, and she started to stroke it, but it hurt because it was too dry. She kept appologizing for hurting me. It was cute. Fuck I miss her...

SO ANYWAY, whenever I happen to be in her area, I will go out my way (up to 4-8 blocks at most) to drive by her apartment just to see if she's there.

Also, I go to events where I'm pretty sure she'll be (ex: Major drum n bass events or certain raves...)

But in those cases I actually approach her and we end up hanging out and she usually seems pleasantly surprised to see me...

So... creepy stalker? Or are these things somewhat normal?

Sounds kinda creepy stalker to me if you drive out of your way just to see if shes home.

No, because she wants to see you. If she wants to see you, then you're not stalking her. Pretty simple logic huh?

I have aq uestion...what you are fucking playing at??! Fuck driving past her flat.

Get in your car, turn up on her doorstep, take her for nice meal and fuck her brains out? And then post pics .

What part of that don't you understand?

[This message has been edited by jackketch (edited 10-29-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Get in your car, turn up on her doorstep, take her for nice meal and fuck her brains out?

What part of that don't you understand?

I would absolutely love to... but I have a feeling that she doesn't feel the same way for me as she used to.

Plus she kinda has a boyfriend...

So what man, what's the harm in trying? And what's the point of driving past if you're not actually going to knock on her door? Think about it!

quote:Originally posted by stab:

So what man, what's the harm in trying? And what's the point of driving past if you're not actually going to knock on her door? Think about it!

Well.. she wants to hang out again sometime soon. So we'll see what happens then I guess. It's just kinda awkward because I don't know where she's at in all of this.

I really thought I would get flamed after I mentioned she had a boyfriend...

well, if you're really attracted to her, then just call her up or actually knock on her door the next time.

um, she has a boyfriend. stop "accidentally" bumping into her. that's fine like the first time, but after that when you see her it should be mutually planned.

Yeah, she has a boyfriend, STEP BACK

And just recently you were talking about how you missed ms. mullato...what's with all the missing old girls? It's probably just a symptom of current girls being lame. I used to miss my ex when there were no awesome girls around. Though that was quickly solved by talking to her.

Women need an ego boost...most likely she loves the attention which helps reaffirm in her mind that she is infact the true ruler of the world and the clit commander...

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

There's this girl that I had like an obsessive crush on almost a year ago, but it still hasn't died out completely. We had a bit of a thing going on, but the farthest we ever went was some make-out sessions and an unfinished handjob. Actually it was kinda funny how that happened... We had a bit to drink and were in her bed on a saturday afternoon and we were just messing around, and she started to stroke it, but it hurt because it was too dry. She kept appologizing for hurting me. It was cute. Fuck I miss her...

SO ANYWAY, whenever I happen to be in her area, I will go out my way (up to 4-8 blocks at most) to drive by her apartment just to see if she's there.

Also, I go to events where I'm pretty sure she'll be (ex: Major drum n bass events or certain raves...)

But in those cases I actually approach her and we end up hanging out and she usually seems pleasantly surprised to see me...

So... creepy stalker? Or are these things somewhat normal?

For most people, when they have to ask themselves that question... its probably a stalker thing.

lol jk

Just go up and talk to her.

quote:Originally posted by Nidias_91:

Just go up and stalk to her.

lolz he already is kekekeke

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

um, she has a boyfriend. stop "accidentally" bumping into her. that's fine like the first time, but after that when you see her it should be mutually planned.

I'm not trying to get with her or anything. I have come to terms with the fact that it will not be happening anytime soon.

I just really like spending time with her.

It's weird, because I'm usually quite superficial and only care about looks or how the girl will upgrade my social status, but with her, I just love being with her. Even if we can't be 'together', I'd rather hang out with her as a friend than not at all.

And about the mutually-planned hanging out, she's very flaky, so it's hard to make plans with her. So the only way I can guarantee seeing her is by just showing up.

Not at her house though, because her boyfriend lives there now...

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

And just recently you were talking about how you missed ms. mullato...what's with all the missing old girls? It's probably just a symptom of current girls being lame. I used to miss my ex when there were no awesome girls around. Though that was quickly solved by talking to her.

I miss all of them. Maybe I just miss having *someone*...

I especially miss Amanda though (girl this thread is about) because I just really love spending time with her (she is really fun and has an awesome personality), and "Ms. Mullato" (lol) AKA Stacey (the ex) because she was really hot. Plus it was nice having someone around.

dude you obviously love her. its nromal. just hook up with her.

quote:Originally posted by LiquidSniper:

dude you obviously love her. its nromal. just hook up with her.

If only it were that simple...

ROFL.

Am I the only one who read the title as "Am I a normal stalker, or is this creepy?"

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

There's this girl that I had like an obsessive crush on almost a year ago, but it still hasn't died out completely. We had a bit of a thing going on, but the farthest we ever went was some make-out sessions and an unfinished handjob. Actually it was kinda funny how that happened... We had a bit to drink and were in her bed on a saturday afternoon and we were just messing around, and she started to stroke it, but it hurt because it was too dry. She kept appologizing for hurting me. It was cute. Fuck I miss her...

SO ANYWAY, whenever I happen to be in her area, I will go out my way (up to 4-8 blocks at most) to drive by her apartment just to see if she's there.

Also, I go to events where I'm pretty sure she'll be (ex: Major drum n bass events or certain raves...)

But in those cases I actually approach her and we end up hanging out and she usually seems pleasantly surprised to see me...

So... creepy stalker? Or are these things somewhat normal?

I drive MORE than 5-8 blocks, and I haven't had anything more than a casual conversation at school with her.

[This message has been edited by sidewayz6.6 (edited 10-30-2006).]