Do any of you guys have any information on having multiple girlfriends?

I'm not talking about fucking two chicks and avoiding detection.

I mean having a loving relationship with two women that know about and accept each other.

First I thought that I had to choose between 1 or the other. And since I kept thinking about the new girl a lot, I felt like I wasn't being fair to my current girlfriend.

I had such a hard time trying to pick between the two girls....

What was it that I wanted? Was it girl A or girl B?

Then I had an epiphany. I want both. I want to be in a relationship with both girls. I know for a fact that this is possible and even natural. Society has condemned this form of living, but it is in fact something that women will comply with if you play your cards right.

I already have one girlfriend, but have recently met another girl. Both are of very high quality and highly converted. I'm just not sure how to go about introducing the idea of a polyamorous relationship to them. They are both relatively young, 18, so they may have aidditional concerns because of what people in school will say etc.

Any input is greatly appreciated.

Hmm... I think you should scrap the polywhatever relationship, and just flip a coin to decide.

Its all well and good (i had 3) til they all sit in a pub one evening discussing you...

Nope. One of them will, hopefully, be secure with herself and forget you for ever mentioning the subject.

Listen, if you are one of the people who cannot imagine such a scenario, spare me your bullshit.

If you want to believe that being in a loving relationship with two (or more) women is not possible, that's your choice. But if this is what you believe then you have absolutely nothing to contribute to my thread. So please, just shut the fuck up.

Jackketch I'd be very interested in hearing about your experiences. Please do tell.

I never said that it is impossible. I simply presented you with my hope for the conclusion of your scenerio. I know people with relationships such at this one that work alright. Not well, or happily, but alright.

Alright, then I misunderstood you. Well, why are the people you know unhappy? You will surely agree that just because some couples that live like this are unhappy it doesn't mean that such a constellation automatically means an unhappy relationship.

They are going to get jealous of eachother and murder/suicide all over the place.

Unless you can convince them to go bi.

Is it polyamorous if you're not all sharing the same living space, or is that just dating two girls at the same time with their knowledge?

Btw, would it be acceptable for the girls to expand that toward another male as well?

How far are you willing to go when it comes to polyamorous relationships?



edit:

Out of curiosity, I went surfing and found this link:

http://www.xeromag.com/fvpolyguide.html



I'm not certain if this is what you're looking for, but it's got some good suggestions.



[This message has been edited by oc6 (edited 10-29-2006).]

Umm.threesome?

I was kinda in the same situation. Two girls loved were in love with me but it doesn't work out in the end.

Hmm, as long as the chicks are bi it should work out ok. Just ride it as long as you can before it breaks down.