I asked a girl if she wanted to go to a dance, where she said yes, but I can't take her to dinner beforehand because of my parents, so we both chose to just meet up at the dance itself.

Would this still be considered a "date?"

Yes, and what have your parent's got to do with taking her to dinner?

I think so. Just make sure you impress, have soem jokes on hand. Please dont fail totse, may the force be with you.

Oh and on the off chance going by the name shes a corpse, wel remember to prep lube and warm the body up, makes the experience better..or umm so ive been told.

I wouldn't really consider it a date without the dinner.

I'm 14, a freshman in highschool.

Uh... should I bring like a corsage or something? Or is that like stupid or...?

I'm not really familiar with this, I must say.

quote:Originally posted by Necrypsys:

I'm 14, a freshman in highschool.

Uh... should I bring like a corsage or something? Or is that like stupid or...?

I'm not really familiar with this, I must say.

corsages are for proms really, just meet up with her and have a good time, be prepared to dance--if you don't it will be less of a date than it already is.

Should I dance only with her, or can I dance with other girls?

I really like her, so I don't wanna screw this up.

quote:Originally posted by Necrypsys:

Should I dance only with her, or can I dance with other girls?

I really like her, so I don't wanna screw this up.

Freshman eh...okay

She'll definitely want to dance with her friends too, so don't try to monopolize her time by dancing with her non stop. Make it clear you're there with her though, if you really like this girl, just dance with her. Just act comfortable, confident, and have a good time.

quote:Originally posted by Necrypsys:

Should I dance only with her, or can I dance with other girls?

I really like her, so I don't wanna screw this up.

While it may seem wrong now, if you dance with other girls, you'll either get her attention and she'll show you she cares, or you'll turn her off. You want to come off confident, and cocky, but don't go overboard with the asshole.

What exactly do you mean by "with the asshole?"

yes, this is a date. a high school date. you should dance with other people, but spend more than 50% of your dancing time dancing with her. but if she looks offended when you dance with other people then stop. if you really want to seal the fact that this is a date, then at the very end when you leave/drop her off you can kiss her.

I was thinking about kissing her, but should it be a quick kiss of the lips, or a kiss on the cheek? Or...?

quote:Originally posted by Necrypsys:

I was thinking about kissing her, but should it be a quick kiss of the lips, or a kiss on the cheek? Or...?

Kiss on the lips, linger for a couple seconds, no tongue. Then back up, look into her eyes, and tell her goodnight and that you'll call her soon. Confidence is the key!

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

Kiss on the lips, linger for a couple seconds, no tongue. Then back up, look into her eyes, and tell her goodnight and that you'll call her soon. Confidence is the key!

Hot damn.

quote:Originally posted by Necrypsys:

Hot damn.

I know. I do this kinda thing a lot.

If you lack confidence rip 2-3 shots beforehand.

They breathalize you before you come in. I had thought about that, however. Maybe a little weed?

And to Fanglekai: Sounds beautiful, but were you really serious?

Of course I'm serious. If it goes well, do it. She'll be yours.

Letting your fucking date dance with other people?

WTF is wrong with you idiots?

No, you say "YOU'RE HERE WITH ME BITCH, , SO YOU'RE ONLY DANCING WITH ME."

If some fag appproaches her to dance, you knock his lights out.

No need to be a recessive pussy.

Cool, great answers, guys.

I'll come back tomorrow and tell you guys how it was.

quote:Originally posted by anarcho-commie:

Letting your fucking date dance with other people?

WTF is wrong with you idiots?

No, you say "YOU'RE HERE WITH ME BITCH, , SO YOU'RE ONLY DANCING WITH ME."

If some fag appproaches her to dance, you knock his lights out.

No need to be a recessive pussy.

You are a moron. He has no need to be all overprotective or clingy with a girl he hasn't even gone out with. If he does what you suggest then he'll lose her. I guarantee it.

Fanglekai, I believe he's joking. That is why I didn't respond. I thought of similar things as this.

By the way, how old are you, Fanglekai?

quote:Originally posted by Necrypsys:

Fanglekai, I believe he's joking. That is why I didn't respond. I thought of similar things as this.

By the way, how old are you, Fanglekai?

I couldn't tell if it was sarcasm or not. I'm almost 21.

Cool, all right, well, thanks again, guys.

Hey, Fanglekai, what if she leaves before me?

leave with her!

Oh, you mean, like go with her outside?

Dude, dancing sucks. Fuck that shit, mang. Go get drunk and blazed and blitzed! All at once! Drugs > people!

quote:Originally posted by Necrypsys:

Oh, you mean, like go with her outside?



if she says, "im leaving," say "ok let's go," or "ok let me get my jacket."

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quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:



if she says, "im leaving," say "ok let's go," or "ok let me get my jacket."



Then she'll be like "...um, not with you." If she says "im leaving", it seems to me that she means "I'm leaving alone." Otherwise she'd say "let's go." Or "we're leaving." Or "want to leave?"

dont 4get 2 ask 4 butsechs loll

Yes, bring alcohol. Dutch courage never goes amiss, it's all about nerve and experience. You obviously don't have experience so the trick for you is bluffing. Pretend you know what you're doing and people follow you like sheep.

quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:

Originally posted by lauren7249:



if she says, "im leaving," say "ok let's go," or "ok let me get my jacket."



Then she'll be like "...um, not with you." If she says "im leaving", it seems to me that she means "I'm leaving alone." Otherwise she'd say "let's go." Or "we're leaving." Or "want to leave?"



no, because they're going on a date together. unless she's mad at him, she's not going to be like, "i'm leaving without you!!"

and sometimes people aren't confident enough to suggest that the other person leave with them.

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quote:Originally posted by Necrypsys:

I'm 14, a freshman in highschool.

Uh... should I bring like a corsage or something? Or is that like stupid or...?

I'm not really familiar with this, I must say.

Dude... you lied to me... you said you were in college. that's not cool, actually pretty fucked up. And we talked that time... you lied.

Der Omerta: I'm Necrypsys' brother. He stopped using totse right after I started developping an interest in it, so he gave me his 2005 account in an attempt for me to be not flamed into oblivion. Who the hell would lie about their age?

quote:Originally posted by Necrypsys:

Der Omerta: I'm Necrypsys' brother. He stopped using totse right after I started developping an interest in it, so he gave me his 2005 account in an attempt for me to be not flamed into oblivion. Who the hell would lie about their age?

Oh ok that explains a lot, I was actually thinking that you might be his friend or brother. Welcome to totse, and also yes I do think that would be considered a date.

Cool, I'm glad about all the replies that are really going to be of aid tonight.

Well, I'm off!

Wish me luck, folks!

Good luck, also I'd like to chat with you as I did your brother.

Is it homecoming or what?

I'm baaaaaaaaaaack!

And she's my girlfriend, too.

We made out in excess of 10 times, and we grinded like a motherfuck. I must say it was a great night, and I'll be seeing her tomorrow.

quote:Originally posted by Necrypsys:

I'm baaaaaaaaaaack!

And she's my girlfriend, too.

We made out in excess of 10 times, and we grinded like a motherfuck. I must say it was a great night, and I'll be seeing her tomorrow.



Sounds like it went good. Nice job pal.

Went good? Hell man, it was unbelievable. Haha, thanks to all.

Der Omerta: Do you have AIM?

Yup,its "Ohne Tod". Add me.

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Congrats. E-Props to you and your new GF.

quote:Originally posted by sidewayz6.6:

Congrats. E-Props to you and your new GF.

quote:Originally posted by Necrypsys:

I'm baaaaaaaaaaack!

And she's my girlfriend, too.

We made out in excess of 10 times, and we grinded like a motherfuck. I must say it was a great night, and I'll be seeing her tomorrow.



Fanfuckingtastic!! I'm proud you took a chance and got what you wanted. Always remember that it's worth the risk.



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