I could really use some lady tips/advice, a cute girl in one of my classes I think may have a crush on me, Im not real good with women..What are some signs I could look for to further my progress?

How would you show interest in a girl, chances are she would show her interest in the same way, use your instincts.

quote:Originally posted by Syzygy117:

How would you show interest in a girl, chances are she would show her interest in the same way, use your instincts.



True.. My problem is if I ask her to go somewhere, and she says no or rejects me somehow, then it would be awkward for the rest of the year... you know?

that's just a risk you're going to have to take dude. What do you have to loose? Are you friends with her already?

Just start talking to her. Don't feel like you have to know what to say or anything, just say hi and stuff when you see her. Ask her how it's going. From there you can get a conversation started. Just become friends with her first.

OR, just ask her out and get to know her at the local coffee shop or something. but really dude, you don't have anyhting to loose. It won't be akward unless you think about it. Either she likes you, or doesn't. If she doesn't, big deal, because you don't even know her.

Bottom line: talk to her. you'll get nowhere without this.

body language buddy, body language and eye contact are the best way to find out if they like you, google them and you will understand it more.

good luck man

off top of my head, some signs if a girl likes you:

-laughing at everything you say (even when it's not funny)

-touches you multiple times while she is talking

-make eye contact with you and hold it for a longer than usual period of time

-her body faces you/leans towards you when you guys talk

my own question, how can i show a girl that im interested?

stare at her it really works man hahah

quote:Originally posted by ManChowder:

my own question, how can i show a girl that im interested?

well you don't want to let a female know that you are too interested in her.. what i'm saying is you don't want to appear desperate. you don't want to let a female know that you are sweating over her.

all you need to focus on is being cool and confident with your game when you talk to females.

with all that said if you like a chick then your body language and instincts will let a female know that your interested. don't worry about letting it be overly "known" that you're interested.

quote:Originally posted by DENKDAN:

off top of my head, some signs if a girl likes you:

-laughing at everything you say (even when it's not funny)

-touches you multiple times while she is talking

-make eye contact with you and hold it for a longer than usual period of time

-her body faces you/leans towards you when you guys talk

i know a girl like that who does those things wtih me, but i know she's a slut. So your approach fails here.

quote:Originally posted by WannaFuckWannaSex0r:

i know a girl like that who does those things wtih me, but i know she's a slut. So your approach fails here.

No it doesn't. The slut is interested in you. She's also interested in everyone else.

His statement rings true.

There are exceptions though.... Some girls may ignore the guys they like because they feel they're not good enough for them.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

No it doesn't. The slut is interested in you. She's also interested in everyone else.

His statement rings true.

why are slust interested in guys?

are they basically asking for sex/attention?

[This message has been edited by WannaFuckWannaSex0r (edited 10-28-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by WannaFuckWannaSex0r:

[B] why are slust interested in guys?

are they basically asking for sex/attention?

Yep.

Dont worry about being rejected it happens to everyone. Just give her a smile and see if she smiles back then go talk to her. I got rejected by the last girl i went for and i saw her last night and didnt feel awarkward as ive got a gf now so its just her loss aint it.

quote:Originally posted by Icepick Gag Reflex:



True.. My problem is if I ask her to go somewhere, and she says no or rejects me somehow, then it would be awkward for the rest of the year... you know?

You never speak to her anyway right?

quote:Originally posted by Syzygy117:

How would you show interest in a girl, chances are she would show her interest in the same way, use your instincts.

Hm, she would look in your eyes, smile, go to the bathroom and fap away?

quote:Originally posted by Pilsu:

You never speak to her anyway right?

Actually no. We have a class together. This class is pretty chill, and about everyday for the past week she has been coming over and sitting next to me, engaging in my conversation and some of the other guys at the table (which she dosnt know well) which is why I got the feeling she might have a thing for me.

quote:Originally posted by Icepick Gag Reflex:

Actually no. We have a class together. This class is pretty chill, and about everyday for the past week she has been coming over and sitting next to me, engaging in my conversation and some of the other guys at the table (which she dosnt know well) which is why I got the feeling she might have a thing for me.



She might have a thing for you, or she might just like being the only girl in a group of guys.

edit - the key is in the body language. learn to read body language and you're golden.

[This message has been edited by lauren7249 (edited 10-28-2006).]

Body language that takes far to long to use. I suggest you go for it no matter what. Just tell her to write down her email or number after class, and set up a date. Nevermind if she's interested, this is far more powerful.

I always thought her going down on me was a good sign.

quote:Originally posted by Toddler Fondler:

I always thought her going down on me was a good sign.

No, that's just a sign that she believes the gun is loaded.

quote:Originally posted by glutamate antagonist:

No, that's just a sign that she believes the gun is loaded.

OH SNAP SOOOON!

If she tells you to leave her alone, she totally digs you. Girls also love it when you stalk them and try to touch them.

If she's a got a couple teaspoons of your hot manlove dripping down her throat then she's fond of you.

If not, she hates you and thinks you're a fucking fag.