I know my threads have been more or less clogging up S&A, but I'm knew at the whole "I like him, she likes me" bullshit.

Anyways, I asked Sarah out to homecoming last Thusday (Friday was off), and she said yes. Her friend, Jean, talked to me this Monday and asked "So... do you like Sarah?" I replied "yes, I do." And she replied that Sarah liked me, too. This is the first real time that a girl's actually liked me (probably not, but I like to think of it this way). So I asked Jean if I should ask her out and she said that I totally should, but after homecoming.

So, long story short, I asked Sarah; "Hey, wanna do something Saturday?" because I was impatient, and Sarah replied "Sure." And a different friend said (who was with her at the time), as I was walking away, "It's called Homecoming!" (As homecoming happens to be this Saturday.)

Did I do something wrong?

She probably meant take her to the dance and just go from there. You don't ask a girl to do shit after the dance until you're already there and having fun. Good luck with it though.

It's just a little embaressing, as you did ask her to homecoming...no worries though. Depending on if everything goes smoothly on saturday, ask her out.

The reason why I'm worried is actually because when I told two guys about this after school, they were like "She said 'Sure'?" And they were looking at me as if I had killed someone. They said that I should've waited "after homecoming."

Whatever.

No haha, its fine. You're better off then I was in highschool already lol. As far as what her friend said don't worry about it, it was a joke. Go party with her after homecoming or hang out the next day or something. Seriously just don't overthink it, I still have that problem, its really easy to totally psych yourself out if you keep worrying about doing things wrong and you will just not be any fun.

Yeah, I mean, I have a damn headache right now because I constantly feel like I've fucked something up.

quote:Originally posted by senorfrog:

No haha, its fine. You're better off then I was in highschool already lol. As far as what her friend said don't worry about it, it was a joke. Go party with her after homecoming or hang out the next day or something. Seriously just don't overthink it, I still have that problem, its really easy to totally psych yourself out if you keep worrying about doing things wrong and you will just not be any fun.

Yeah, sounds good.