A guide to.......
Dumping.
That's right, everyone is always telling you how to GET a girl/boyfriend, but what about when it goes tits up. What about when it fucks up, how do you make it less painful, and avoid clingy partners.
Firstly, dumping should be a last resort.To avoid pain, you should at least TRY to talk it through. Tell them what they are doing wrong and more importantly, tell them how to improve.n If this does not work, at least they know why.
If this does not work, sit down with them,when you're on your own and TELL them how that you have thought deeply about it and it is DEFINITLY time to split, and you are NOT sorry about it, as it is less pain for both of you.
Now it's time for a judgement call on your part. Are they a clingy type, or they the type to move on okay? If they seem like the type to accept it then you can be friend's, if they are clingy, break ALL unneccissary contact.
Ok, I hope someone reads this and makes a dumping as painless as possible, because I got dumped in a horrible manner out of the Blue and it broke my heart.
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