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 #1 
Old 2006-10-26, 18:28
Jack_and_Jill Jack_and_Jill is offline
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Default How do you get over a girl?

What methods do you use to forget or get over a girl that you think about a hell of a lot of time?

Any post will be aprechiated
 #2 
Old 2006-10-26, 18:33
Jackel003 Jackel003 is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

Alcohol.

/thread.
 #3 
Old 2006-10-26, 18:42
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

Time and writing it all out into emo poetry. Stay busy.
 #4 
Old 2006-10-26, 18:42
Aurilius Aurilius is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

Ignore her, talk to another girl... Eventually you'll like that girl as much as the last, so keep going with that untill it works out for you
 #5 
Old 2006-10-26, 18:43
Jack_and_Jill Jack_and_Jill is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

quote:Originally posted by Fanglekai:

Time and writing it all out into emo poetry. Stay busy.

*sigh* tried... i read it after and the poems where about love... i cant write emo as i feel something for her...
 #6 
Old 2006-10-26, 18:52
lakelaxrookie49 lakelaxrookie49 is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

yeah i've tried all those methods, except talking to another girl, i don't want to talk to another girl i still want the same one
 #7 
Old 2006-10-26, 18:54
red9535 red9535 is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

The simple and unfortuante answer is time. Time heals everything, but its defiitely going to take a while if you were pretty attatched to her. Just try not to think about her, and stay as busy as possible with other stuff. Get a job, take up sports, anything.
 #8 
Old 2006-10-26, 19:03
Jack_and_Jill Jack_and_Jill is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

yeah, there is one problem, i do literally think of her every minate...
 #9 
Old 2006-10-26, 19:10
LiquidIce LiquidIce is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

Revamping.

/thread

Revamping? wtf? Well, it helped me quick, took only one evening and after 3 days of misery I was happy again.

How's it work? Well duh, I just think it over, from my, her, others perspective and think over all of the possibilities. And bam, Im not sad anymore, although Id still love to be with her. It just something like reseting yourself, you notice that you only loved her/his traits or that it was him/she that kinda made you love him/her through manipulation. Yeah, even thought about making a thread about a perfect manipulator I know, she has enticed me and a very good friend of mine, which usually leads to fighting over the female and defiling blood ties but hell, she managed to keep us from biting each others throats out, and has stilled remained very friendly with us both, so we still dunno which one she likes more.
 #10 
Old 2006-10-26, 19:23
Jack_and_Jill Jack_and_Jill is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

Thanks... i think if i found another girl i wouldnt care about the first
 #11 
Old 2006-10-26, 19:26
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

quote:Originally posted by Jack_and_Jill:

What methods do you use to forget or get over a girl that you think about a hell of a lot of time?

Any post will be aprechiated

Listen to music such as "Hilary Duff-So yesterday" and try to turn sadness into anger, let it all out, aznd then settle down!
 #12 
Old 2006-10-26, 19:31
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lotsa fuckin
 #13 
Old 2006-10-26, 19:36
ShootingStar ShootingStar is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

Keep yourself busy, and pretend to like someone else...it helps. Or really do like someone else...that also does help.
 #14 
Old 2006-10-26, 20:04
XHippie HunterX XHippie HunterX is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

Why are you sober right now?

Go get drunk and fuck her best friend. I take it you got dumped, so quit acting like a pussy little emo sack of shit and be a man about it. She didnt want to be with you so fucking respect that... especially if you are respecting it by fucking the shit out of her best friend.

Other advice consists of:

Breaking bottles behind a wawa.

Dig holes. Burn wood.
 #15 
Old 2006-10-26, 20:58
BluryVision BluryVision is offline
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I used to just dwell for about 3 days. And After 3 days it was over and I felt good again, I just accepted all the emotion. It was like a release. Now I managed to get it down to about 24 hours. :O!
 #16 
Old 2006-10-26, 21:30
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Find yourself a new one.
 #17 
Old 2006-10-26, 21:34
senorfrog senorfrog is offline
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Try hiking to somewhere with a good view and just chill out there. Always helps me.
 #18 
Old 2006-10-26, 21:48
Pyroyoshi Pyroyoshi is offline
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listen to bands lik ac/dc and motley crue etc.. etc.. where all they sing about is girls and sex
 #19 
Old 2006-10-26, 22:09
4skins 4skins is offline
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blimp. hot air baloon is also acceptable
 #20 
Old 2006-10-26, 22:47
bazthefish bazthefish is offline
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get drunk and kick the shit out a few random people preferably emos always works for me
 #21 
Old 2006-10-27, 00:28
Phaint Phaint is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

quote:Originally posted by Jackel003:

Alcohol.
 #22 
Old 2006-10-27, 00:49
GordonFreemen GordonFreemen is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Phaint
quote:Originally posted by Jackel003:

Alcohol.
 #23 
Old 2006-10-27, 00:58
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

Cigarettes, weed, booze, your drug of choice. Watch old movies you love (but not ones you watched with her). Keep your friends around you. All things i can't do right now
 #24 
Old 2006-10-27, 02:54
smoke em smoke em is offline
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internet, talk to new girls
 #25 
Old 2006-10-27, 08:59
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

Have a load of beers with mates...Bitch at them about her...

Feel insecure and inadequate...Get depressed...

Listen to death metal and hate the world...

Get comfortable being alone and not needing the bitch...

Meet new women and fuck around with them...

Get off a few months later on the calls begging for forgiveness and her claiming her love for me.

Seems to sum it all up really.
 #26 
Old 2006-10-27, 09:08
stab stab is offline
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Simply? Do other things instead of sitting around thinking of them.
 #27 
Old 2006-10-27, 09:14
lordsjohnson lordsjohnson is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

Slide your dick into some new pussy.

Doctors orders. Works every time.
 #28 
Old 2006-10-27, 10:19
Jack_and_Jill Jack_and_Jill is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

I see her everyday at college.... and like god its hard...
 #29 
Old 2006-10-27, 10:23
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quote:Originally posted by Jack_and_Jill:

I see her everyday at college.... and like god its hard...

At least you're not in highschool and shit.... Then you probably would see her more. If you don't have any classes with her you don't have to see her at all in college. Find some weed schmokin' buddies like me and it'll all be better mate.

That and get friendly with the ladies... you faggity fagget.
 #30 
Old 2006-10-27, 14:25
Jack_and_Jill Jack_and_Jill is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

Erm, in UK college is like worse then high school. we choose a course and we are on it for 2 years.. and we are there 4 days a week 9-4
 #31 
Old 2006-10-27, 17:35
BluryVision BluryVision is offline
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I have concluded anything we say cannot make you feel better. >:[
 #32 
Old 2006-10-27, 17:43
MJR deus MJR deus is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

Whacking off till you start bleeding

Alcohol

Blow up dolls...
 #33 
Old 2006-10-27, 18:26
Bean_Doodle Bean_Doodle is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

Wish I fucking knew...

Personally I think I'm gonna be home alone for a week and just dwell on it.

And alcohol perhaps...
 #34 
Old 2006-10-27, 21:12
Jack_and_Jill Jack_and_Jill is offline
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Yeah, achohol isnt permentent... and then she sais she wants a good guy... HELLO thats me! so frustrating...
 #35 
Old 2006-10-28, 08:01
Bean_Doodle Bean_Doodle is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

haha, im happy now...

i couldnt sleep all night cause I was all fucking sad, did you see that Earl episode where Randy gets a girlfriend?

that was based on me.

but im good now
 #36 
Old 2006-10-28, 08:24
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

quote:Originally posted by Jack_and_Jill:

Erm, in UK college is like worse then high school. we choose a course and we are on it for 2 years.. and we are there 4 days a week 9-4

:'( dont remind me! .. **runs off and cries**
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Old 2006-10-28, 09:33
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Goddamn your college situation sounds like a total fucking bummer. I love mine. My schedual is set up 3 days a week. And our classes are only semesters long.



Oh and the best/only real way to get over a chick is by going out and gettin' a new one. ha. Going out and doing shit with friends works too.

YOu know know how much I've missed that dude.
 #38 
Old 2006-10-28, 09:52
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Only time will get you over her, and acceptance that she's gone. Until then, try to stay away from her, and don't react to any thoughts about them. Keep thoughts as thoughts.
 #39 
Old 2006-10-28, 10:11
Jack_and_Jill Jack_and_Jill is offline
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Im actually getting over hr,. i have 2 girls... should be quicker :P
 #40 
Old 2006-10-28, 11:34
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I only allowed mysef to fall in "love" once. To get over her I had a simple but effective formula. I found a drinking buddy and got wasted every night for 2 weeks, the alcohol takes away the pain and when you wake up all you can think about is "shit i was drunk last night" and by the time you stop thinking that you're drunk again.

DO NOT ATTEMPT TO REMAIN FRIENDS WITH THE GIRL.

DO NOT PHONE THE GIRL WHILE DRUNK AND TELL HER YOU LOVE HER.

DO NOT LOOK AT PICS OF YOU AND THE GIRL TOGETHER AND CRY WHILE NURSING A BOTTLE OF GIN.

DO FUCK A LOAD OF OTHER GIRLS TO HELP YOURSELF GET OVER HER.
 #41 
Old 2006-10-28, 12:13
Jack_and_Jill Jack_and_Jill is offline
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^^^ Dude your missing the point...

WE go to colllege together, we never where together i realised that she isnt my type but she is amazing, and she would be my deepest dream, and its a bit harsh not talking to her when techniqually she hasnt done anything, just becasue she doesnt fancy me its a bit extreme..
 #42 
Old 2006-10-28, 18:03
Bean_Doodle Bean_Doodle is offline
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*smacks jack

don't fucking talk to her...sheesh
 #43 
Old 2006-10-28, 18:04
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

quote:Originally posted by Jack_and_Jill:

What methods do you use to forget or get over a girl that you think about a hell of a lot of time?

Any post will be aprechiated

-Time

-New girls.
 #44 
Old 2006-10-29, 11:13
Garfunkel Garfunkel is offline
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kill her.
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Old 2006-10-29, 14:31
Jack_and_Jill Jack_and_Jill is offline
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I think time will heal, it, but i still have to tlak to ehr as my college class is like a comminity, we all talk to each other :S
 #46 
Old 2006-10-30, 03:36
Lord of all things BAD Lord of all things BAD is offline
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Drugs!
 #47 
Old 2006-10-30, 03:40
ShootingStar ShootingStar is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

Find another girl and try to keep in touch as little as possible with the old girl.
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Old 2006-10-30, 04:21
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

quote:Originally posted by Jack_and_Jill:

What methods do you use to forget or get over a girl that you think about a hell of a lot of time?

Any post will be aprechiated

At first glance I thought this thread was about how to get on top of a girl. I'm somewhat disappointed. I think it's time for me to go to sleep.
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Old 2006-12-02, 08:00
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

quote:Originally posted by Jack_and_Jill:

What methods do you use to forget or get over a girl that you think about a hell of a lot of time?

Any post will be aprechiated

nothing short of suicide

-Kman101
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Old 2006-12-02, 08:31
Bean_Doodle Bean_Doodle is offline
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quote:Originally posted by kman101:

nothing short of suicide

-Kman101

suicide?

murder/suicide!!!!
 #51 
Old 2006-12-02, 22:17
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Nothing short of page 2

** Deuce Omen
 #52 
Old 2006-12-02, 23:53
BluryVision BluryVision is offline
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You have to be on her before you can get over her right?
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Old 2006-12-03, 01:31
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By not caring about her in the first place. I have never had a relationship, and, surprise, I have never had to deal with that crap.
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Old 2006-12-03, 01:34
Orange_Crusader Orange_Crusader is offline
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New girls, alcohol, friends, and time. That's about all I've got, I think. :\
 #55 
Old 2006-12-03, 03:16
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

quote:Originally posted by Jack_and_Jill:

What methods do you use to forget or get over a girl that you think about a hell of a lot of time?

Any post will be aprechiated

FUCK OTHER GIRLS

NUTHIN LIKE IT

TRUST ME ONCE U GET A BETTER PIECE OF ASS U WONT CARE ABOUT THE LAST ONE
 #56 
Old 2006-12-17, 05:23
rheannariot rheannariot is offline
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you grow the fuck up.
 #57 
Old 2006-12-17, 05:39
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quote:Originally posted by Jackel003:

Alcohol.

/thread.

You don't get a girl out of your head.

I'm drinking right now and it's not working.
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Old 2006-12-18, 00:52
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

same sit. except I dont want to like the girl anymore, I just want to remain friends w/ her..suggestions?
 #59 
Old 2006-12-18, 01:26
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

if you loved her then she will always have a place in your heart...

just keep yourself busy and avoid the girl for a couple of weeks
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Old 2006-12-18, 03:12
Jackel003 Jackel003 is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Rabid Beaver:

You don't get a girl out of your head.

I'm drinking right now and it's not working.

Maybe you should drink HEAVIER.
 #61 
Old 2006-12-18, 03:24
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go see lee evans live! failing that,be normal around her it will really piss her off i guess.
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Old 2006-12-18, 03:56
Strider Strider is offline
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Default Re: How do you get over a girl?

If you kill yourself, you won't feel any emotion at all. I promise.
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Old 2006-12-18, 04:46
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quote:Originally posted by vazilizaitsev89:

same sit. except I dont want to like the girl anymore, I just want to remain friends w/ her..suggestions?

That never works ever. NEVER.

Forget all about her. You are far superior to her. She is a slave to men. You are the dominator of all things female. She is inferior and does not deserve you.
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Old 2006-12-18, 05:06
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quote:Originally posted by Sentinel:

That never works ever. NEVER.

Forget all about her. You are far superior to her. She is a slave to men. You are the dominator of all things female. She is inferior and does not deserve you.
 
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