Now before you lambarst me as a pussy, let me first say that I am not in the situation where that is all I get.

However, I enjoy being a shoulder to lean on. The girls who are taken, I don't mind. They know I want them, I've told them as much, and I told them I'd take them from their boyfriends if given the chance.

So these girls become friends, and lay on me their doubts and insecurities.

I don't mind. I encorouge them, and I feel like I'm doing something good. I have the power of their trust, and with it I could do bad, bad things.

I guess what I'm getting at here is that if a girl will lay something on me, a weakness of hers, and want support, that means she trusts me. And I think that's actually pretty damn good.

In short, fuck your theories.

Disclaimer: Doesn't apply for psychopathic girls.

How long have you been doing this?

cause i mean. i know it sounds like an awesome thing for the first.. few.. years.

or something.

buttttt. eventually, you'll get tired. and want to go postal.

which is less than awesome.

i mean.

comeon.

I find it interesting that you chose to use the word ‘tampon’ to describe yourself. A tampon of course being an item that spends it’s time firmly ensconced inside a woman’s vagina.

My freudian sense is tingling....

Everybody's a psycho to varying degrees. Including you, bitch.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Disclaimer: Doesn't apply for psychopathic girls.



Does it apply identically to unattractive girls?

In other words is this really just a stealthy poontang strategy?

lol. I find it funny that you'll put up with any shit from a girl just in the desperate faint hope that she might one day fuck you.

You sound so much like my ex in this thread.

He's taking all sorts of shit from these cunts he's met. They're so tormented and tortured and have all these dark painfull secrets, ofcourse..

So obviously, that means they cant treat him like shit, fuck off and not bother with him for a week, and then come running back when they need someone to snivvel on.



Fair enough. If he wants to be a fucking doormat, if you want to be used as a fucking doormat, by girls you dont stand a chance with, that's fine.

But I still pitty you.

'Emotional Tampon' is an interesting catchphrase. That's why I used it.

Yes, it is a bit of a stealthy way of getting laid, and I do assume I will grow out of it. However, regardless of if I ever get laid or not (I'm not so desperate that I actually care whether that eventuates) I still believe it is good practice.

Yoyobek, fuck off with your incessant whining. Don't put your bullshit confused feelings towards your ex on me, just because I, along with probably most other guys right now, sound like him to you.

It's not that fucking bad, all of you. It's generally just relationship advice and keeping them positive. I get the same back in return.

I suppose I lopsided my post. I just wanted to fuck the stereotype.

Hey.. dont get tetchy. I like you.

But.. being nice to a girl just on the hopes she might sex you is a bit..sad.



Cant you find some genuine friends who want to use you as more than a tissue when they've got a crisis?

Oh do excuse me, I like you too!, I'm just trying to assert myself better to achieve a higher level of confidence, and sometimes overshoot the mark. I apologise.

Now, what I meant by 'psychopathic girls' is the girl you are describing: one for whom you are nothing after you have soaked up all their tears, and throws you away like a dirty rag.

No, luckily I haven't come across a girl like that. My friends appreciate me

Also, I'm not hoping on anything. Of course, I'm putting myself in a position where I can be a backfall, but the girl I'm thinking of in particular has just entered a relationship which looks very, very promising (long history, strong feelings, exact personalities) and so I do not hold out hope that I will be with her. I am, of course, persuing other girls.

We are friends. Sometimes I get annoyed with her, because she mentions her boyfriend a lot, but that's not her fault and I'd rather be reminded that she isn't for the taking anyway. I can be forgetful at times.

How I help her emotionally I guess, is that she talks to me a lot about her insecurities in that relationship. Funnily enough, I'm helping this other guy get laid by a girl who looks just like my favourite porn star. Sounds bad, dunnit? Well fact of the matter is I came onto the scene too late to have gotten through the 'lets fuck' door. They were almost in full-swing.

She knows I want to fuck her. She finds it funny. She doesn't get a power trip over it, not at all. She has a heart of gold. And I guess the point of this post is, this thread is, that I like being the sexless friend who gives support. Because, well, maybe being a good friend is more important than sex.

Oh who am I kidding, of course it is.

Would you say you are getting 'social practice' as opposed to some who would put their lives on 'hold' & obsess over 'un-attainables'? Are you putting (trying to put) these skills into play with more likely candidates?

^ Yes, I am. 3rd post, 4th paragraph:

quote:I am, of course, persuing other girls.

I have already learnt the hardest lesson about unattainables.

[This message has been edited by stab (edited 10-26-2006).]