16.

Virgin.

Can easily get laid.

Should I save it for someone special?

Wow, you can get laid. Thanks for telling the internet.

No. We're animals. Get horny and go have sex.

...Although I guess it does depend on your values. It's up to you...

at least wait for someone thats not a slut

Everyone has their own values.

I had plenty of chances in my teens, but I kept mine until I was 21. Me and my current girlfriend lost ours together. I really didnt want my first time, which I held somewhat sacred, to be just another lay for the girl. A rather bad one at that.

i think the fact that you're asking shows you somewhat value that. therefore i think you should act in accordance with your values and wait.

I waited til I was out of high school, because of the horrible drama, gossip, and bullshit. I saved myself a lot of pain. However, sex is a good learning experience, discovering what you like and having that closeness with a partner. Wait until you feel ready, that's the main thing. Don't just fuck a random girl, because that's really pointless.

Educate yourself about sex: STIs and pregnancy. Then when you want to have sex, use good condoms, know how to put them on properly by following the instructions in the box (pinch the tip as you roll it on so there's a little extra room for cum, and no air inside because that's what causes breaks) and you shouldn't have too many problems.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

i think the fact that you're asking shows you somewhat value that. therefore i think you should act in accordance with your values and wait.

always wise words from lauren.

Go for it, just use protection.

You'll feel awkward and might be sad after it, if you have a soul.

The fact that you're asking on the internet means you're being stupid and don't deserve to come anywhere near procreation.

You wanna fuck or be a virgin?!

It's your damn choice, dude!

HA! Jojoman you probably couldnt get a monkey to have sex with you. And now that I know youre a douche bag 16 year old I hate you even more than I did before

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quote:Originally posted by Jojoman:

16.

Virgin.

Can easily get laid.

Should I save it for someone special?

Don't listen to anyone here about giving it up.

If in your heart you want to save yourself, then for god....Do it... It willl be WORTH it.



Nothing wrong with that man.

peace,

God damnit, if you have to ask someone if you're ready, then no, you're not.

Because that's what this badly masked thread is about!

Don't think I don't see through you!

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

The fact that you're asking on the internet means you're being stupid and don't deserve to come anywhere near procreation.

Mmmmm, don't you just love that warm fuzzy internet community feeling.

psycho_8b, I disagree with your statement. He's not being stupid. He simply has an inner conflict that, due to the nature of the subject and the anonymity of the internet, can most easily be addressed online, rather than through another often less-approachable resource, such as a friend or counselor.

Also, who would ever want to procreate? I can honestly say I don't do it for the babies.

To Jojoman, don't let others dictate your life. There's no rush, you have plenty of time to think about it on your own.

The girl you can sleep with, do you smile when you think about her?

Yes = Sleep with her.

No = Don't.

Perhaps you should just save it, I know it's all over rated and stuff, but I think if you save it for the person you are truely ready for you wont even have to or want to ask yourself or the internet about it... it'll just happen. Keep in mind that it isn't a race or anything.

I'm 16 years old, I actually have no desire at all for losing it, just dont let the pressure get to you and only do it if you feel she is the person you want to lose it with and that you are ready for it.

quote:Originally posted by synapse:

psycho_8b, I disagree with your statement. He's not being stupid. He simply has an inner conflict that, due to the nature of the subject and the anonymity of the internet, can most easily be addressed online, rather than through another often less-approachable resource, such as a friend or counselor.

Also, who would ever want to procreate? I can honestly say I don't do it for the babies.



End of the day, it's one of those things that shouldn't have to be asked.

You do it when it feels right...

How's he gonna know who's "right" and who's "wrong"?

Give it a go...If it didn't feel right, move along and find the right one...When it feels right, stick with it.

In this situation, I'm making an assumption that "can easily get laid" means he's got the chance to get his end away with someone who he doesn't feel is the person he wants to spend some time with.

If the person has to be asked about then it's obviously not right so move on!

It's a simple choice that I made when I was 16...It felt right, unlike with other girls so I went for it.

No asking myself any questions...Just did it.

I suggest the same for him.

As for the procreation part...I apologise for that wholeheartedly...It was out of line and I hope no feelingswere hurt too much.

Don't wait. If you can now, go for it. You probably won't regret it and its better to be awkward now when everyone is awkward then in a couple of years when most people have been having having sex for a couple years and know what they like and how to do it.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

The girl you can sleep with, do you smile when you think about her?

Yes = Sleep with her.

No = Don't.

There is my answer, thank you.

better yet..are you gonna smile after you've slept with her and think about it.

quote:Originally posted by Jojoman:

There is my answer, thank you.

Wow that solves a lot of problems. *Takes notes*