This seems very childish. I find myself doing stupid stuff like not texting a girl for a day or something to see if she will text me that day or something like that. I also do this to not seem desperate for someone by texting them all the time. I realized its kinda retarded. Is anyone else like this?

Also, ive been dating this chick for about a month and ive asked her if she would be my girlfriend and she wants to take it slow so thats the postion im in. I really dont know how long ill have to wait to be ina relationship with her. We hold hands and cuddle and stuff, but we have yet to kiss, and she is the most amazing girl. it kills me when im so close to her and i cant go into a moment of magic when her lips meet mine.

I always feel stupid when i post stuff like this on totse, but could i get some insight on either subject?

I always feel stupid when I read stuff like this on totse.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

I always feel stupid when I read stuff like this on totse.



i know what you mean

Masturbation cures everything

you people are no help

Not helpful!! Fuck that. What kind of help do you want. Do I have to TELL you to KISS her?? How do you "date" someone for a month and never kiss them anyway? Seems strange to me....Nearly every girl I've been out with, we usualy kiss on the first date, and if not then, definatly on the second.

OP, kiss her. Do it the next time you see her. Don't tongue rape her face, just give her on the lips. Don't try anything else, just kiss her and leave it at that. You'll feel better, and it'll ease the tension that's there between you two. You should try to kiss a girl by the second date. That's some good advice. If you wait too long it just gets awkward.

quote:Originally posted by Ripsaw3689:

ive been dating this chick for about a month...we have yet to kiss

Yeah...

How about you kiss the girl?

-F☺rd

Kiss the girl lol. As far as the games I do that kinda stuff all the time with everyone I know, but especially girls. I guess I just need validation or something like that.

Just wait for the right moment, I dont know how you can manage this, but simply stare into her eyes and make sure she does the same thing back. And then, I guess go in for the kiss... But try not to seem rushed into it or anything, because otherwise you'll appear desperate.

It's just all about timing.

quote:Originally posted by Ripsaw3689:

This seems very childish. I find myself doing stupid stuff like not texting a girl for a day or something to see if she will text me that day or something like that. I also do this to not seem desperate for someone by texting them all the time. I realized its kinda retarded. Is anyone else like this?

Also, ive been dating this chick for about a month and ive asked her if she would be my girlfriend and she wants to take it slow so thats the postion im in. I really dont know how long ill have to wait to be ina relationship with her. We hold hands and cuddle and stuff, but we have yet to kiss, and she is the most amazing girl. it kills me when im so close to her and i cant go into a moment of magic when her lips meet mine.

I always feel stupid when i post stuff like this on totse, but could i get some insight on either subject?



just go somewhere where you will be really close or something

i was with a girl in summer with loads of my mates and we was both cold so i goes come sit unda ma coat wiv me we wrapped it like around our legs then we just sat there for a while then we jus put it over our heads after a while and just talked for a bit

and then i just leant in and wahey! a bit of action hehe

i'll try and find a pic but i'm not promising anything

I think you need a training wheel. So when you're alone say hey do you think those ear rings would look cute on me? Or w/e. Then pass her your necklace and put it on her so you're close to her face.

I think you know how to take it from there.