I've never been good at determining when I'm actually "going out" with someone. I always assume that we're not but I'm in this situation yet again.

My girl lives like 6 hours driving away (yukk) so we've only seen eachother to hang out like 3 times for a few days each time and plan on seeing eachother more in the future. If it weren't for the distance there would be no question in this at all.

The thing is we talk a lot on the internet and shit, pretty much every day and everytime we hang out we fuck quite a bit and just generally get along and do boyfriend/girlfriend things.

What do you guys think? I'm just afraid someday the opportunity will come up to get with someone at home and I wont know what to do or I'll feel guilty.

FAIL!

Six hours is a long fucking drive!

i consider it 'going out' when you've actually gone out to a place together at least twice, and plan to again. it doesnt hurt to ask her tho.

'Bout a month.

I reckon it's better to wait until it's obvious you're 'going out' before you raise it. People are stupid, they might take it the wrong way otherwise.

quote:Originally posted by AfRo:

FAIL!

Six hours is a long fucking drive!

I know I feel like such a tool like what am I doing with someone so far away! I wish I didn't live with my parents or I'd make her drive her ass down to me for once but if she did come down here it would be boring as hell. But whatever I think I like her enough to deal with it.

Please just ask. It's really annoying when guys just assume you're going out.

quote:Originally posted by Keriba:

Please just ask. It's really annoying when guys just assume you're going out.

Well you can't blame a guy for assuming when you've had sex like 15 times and have met her parents more than few times and had dinner with the family on like 3 occassions. But yea I'm still not sure, I can see how it would be annoying, asking seems kinda awkward though so fuck it.

Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a little while but i dont know if we are "going out" or if she even likes me like that. like ive taken her to the movies and out to lunch and i took her to homecoming. but im not really sure. and im not normally shy except around girls that I like. so i have to build the courage to ask her, or jsut have one of my friends casually bring it up.

What you gotta ask yourself, pal...

Is she fucking around with someone else while you're a six hour drive away?

If you think it's possible, I'd say don't sweat it.

If not...Fuck it...Do whatever anyways...Six hours is a long fucking way away for it to be "going out" or something.

Keep it as it is right now...Unknown but damn enjoyable.