My new girlfriend is pretty wealthy and im not at all, it kinda bothers me..i mean her house is basicly a fuckin mansion and well mine is nothing like that..i kinda get pissed sometimes not at her but its just its almost to the point were its embarrasing..her parents are driving a mercedez and mine are driving a Rav4 fuuuaaack

who cares? if you like her you like her.

My last girlfriend was extremely wealthy.. This can work to your advantage: SPEND money on her, DON'T allow her wealth to appear as a ticket to not have to pay for her, or God forbid, have her pay for things.

This will show her that even though you know she's got t3h bling, you care more than enough to pay for her..

~Saint947

quote:Originally posted by Saint947:

My last girlfriend was extremely wealthy.. This can work to your advantage: SPEND money on her, DON'T allow her wealth to appear as a ticket to not have to pay for her, or God forbid, have her pay for things.

This will show her that even though you know she's got t3h bling, you care more than enough to pay for her..

~Saint947



Yes, ive been doing that, makes me feel good about the whole thing..i guess you know how i feel then..its a weird feeling.

It just takes some getting used to, one of my ex's parents bought her a fucking BMW M3 for her 15th birthday (brand fucking new).

You just get over it, move on, and act like you would in any other relationship.

get the fuck over it.

I agree with you on that man,it can cause some uncomfortable-ness.but...sometimes rich girls dont want rich boys!

It shouldn't matter.

Don't worry about it.

Time to start doing meth and crack, quit school and leach off of her.

Her parents will understand and welcome you with open arms (well open until they load them).

If your girlfriend happened to be poor, would you be so concerned about it?

What would you say if she told you she felt bad because she's poorer than you?

And if you really cared about her, what would you really feel about the issue?

It's the exact same thing. You're just blowing it out of proportion because you're only looking at things from your own perspective.

Don't "but" me. It's the fucking truth.

quote:Originally posted by Viking83:

My new girlfriend is pretty wealthy and im not at all, it kinda bothers me..i mean her house is basicly a fuckin mansion and well mine is nothing like that..i kinda get pissed sometimes not at her but its just its almost to the point were its embarrasing..her parents are driving a mercedez and mine are driving a Rav4 fuuuaaack

I hope this post will shut all those whiners who says "GIRLS JUST WANT YOUR MONEY". By the way, you don't need to be embarrassed about not being rich as long as she feels that you're happy the way you are.

Saint947's advice also sounds good to me.

If mine was wealthy, I wouldn't be working. You're stuck in the past, there's no reason to buy everything for her. You're just throwing your money away.

quote:Originally posted by Viking83:

her parents are driving a mercedez and mine are driving a Rav4 fuuuaaack

You are a fucking moron

quote:Originally posted by Saint947:

My last girlfriend was extremely wealthy.. This can work to your advantage: SPEND money on her, DON'T allow her wealth to appear as a ticket to not have to pay for her, or God forbid, have her pay for things.

This will show her that even though you know she's got t3h bling, you care more than enough to pay for her..

~Saint947

WHAT THE FUCK!?!?!?!

Dude do the opposite, drive that bitches mercedes, make her buy you clothing, food and all of that. Use her to your advantage.

My family never had good cars when I was younger and lived with them...But a Rav4? Fuck it man just walk.



[This message has been edited by playboy311 (edited 10-25-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by playboy311:

WHAT THE FUCK!?!?!?!

Dude do the opposite, drive that bitches mercedes, make her buy you clothing, food and all of that. Use her to your advantage.

My family never had good cars when I was younger and lived with them...But a Rav4? Fuck it man just walk.





You know what's more pathetic than a Gold digging woman?

A Gold digging man.

~Saint947

quote:Originally posted by playboy311:

WHAT THE FUCK!?!?!?!

Dude do the opposite, drive that bitches mercedes, make her buy you clothing, food and all of that. Use her to your advantage.



but eventually, even the most enduring of females will snap if treated like that and turn into utter psychos.



Anyhew, what the fuck is wrong with a RAV4?

You sound like a rich little shit yourself, op.

"WAAAA!! MUmmy and daddy only drive a car worth £12000!!Im soo poor!"



....

You gotta admit, a Rav4 certainly qualifies as a shitmobile.

It can be awkword. Try and get past your prejudice.

Talk to her about it if you have that kind of relationship.

Remember that it isn't your girlfriend that's wealthy, it's her parents. She is your girlfriend, your equal.

She's been living in her white bread world

As long as anyone with hot blood can

And now she's looking for a downtown man

That's what I am...

Don't be a prick, attempt to treat her like a normal person. If you'd normally pay for her then do it, if not then you're a tight bastard.

quote:Originally posted by NotOnlyButAlso:

She's been living in her white bread world

As long as anyone with hot blood can

And now she's looking for a downtown man

That's what I am...

Damnit!

You beat me to it!

Jx

The girlfriend isn't wealthy, it's her parents. Big deal.

Well thanks for all the responses, Im not going to make it a big deal and she will never know it is one..it just kinda bothered me for awhile, actually reading these posts helped even though some were pretty retarded. Thanks again.

i totally understand.

the guy im fucking now is on his second brand spanking new car, at 60K each, lives in a mansion, has enough cash for whatever he wants whenever he wants. (we're talking cocaine in ounces)

its not that i feel self conscious or shit, i just feel like he's a pampered brat that has never really experienced anything. he lives in a gated community and speeds around in a shiny audi, and feels as if he's in touch with reality. when he travels, he only stays at exclusive resorts/ cruises....yet he feels as if he's seen the real world.

it's annoying, but i get over it. plus, there are several perks to having him around.

to finish, if shes into you then its all chill. as said before, its just cuz they have inherited wealth, meaning they were lucky enough to be born into millions of dollars.

have fun with it, and make sure shes not buying you everything.

quote:Originally posted by immersionwarning:

i totally understand.

the guy im fucking now is on his second brand spanking new car, at 60K each, lives in a mansion, has enough cash for whatever he wants whenever he wants. (we're talking cocaine in ounces)

its not that i feel self conscious or shit, i just feel like he's a pampered brat that has never really experienced anything. he lives in a gated community and speeds around in a shiny audi, and feels as if he's in touch with reality. when he travels, he only stays at exclusive resorts/ cruises....yet he feels as if he's seen the real world.

it's annoying, but i get over it. plus, there are several perks to having him around.



So you suck his dick for crack?

quote:Originally posted by immersionwarning:

i totally understand.

the guy im fucking now is on his second brand spanking new car, at 60K each, lives in a mansion, has enough cash for whatever he wants whenever he wants. (we're talking cocaine in ounces)

its not that i feel self conscious or shit, i just feel like he's a pampered brat that has never really experienced anything. he lives in a gated community and speeds around in a shiny audi, and feels as if he's in touch with reality. when he travels, he only stays at exclusive resorts/ cruises....yet he feels as if he's seen the real world.

it's annoying, but i get over it. plus, there are several perks to having him around.



Shes nothing like your bf..and if she was i wouldn't be going out with her. I dont see how you undertand what i mean considering hes the one that's rich (male) and your some girl

thats pretty common. You sound like a gold digger..

HAHhhaah.

first off, im a guy. faggot, yes, i know.

second, in this situation, i'm no gold digger. we've known eachother for years, him being friends/neighbors with my best friend, and my best friend and i talking shit about him the whole time (the rich stuck up closeted asshole). then he comes out of the closet, confesses his love to me, and i end up with a boyfriend/fuck buddy. a relationship of convenience on my part...wait. so i guess that does make me sorta a gold digger. but im not in it purely for the money/cocaine (only HC, i find crack grotty), there's also the sex (that was lacking in my life before)

hm....so i guess i could be considered in the same league as a gold digger. im not even attracted to the guy

so no i may not match your situation exactly, but at least its a 'common' male with a wealthy significant other (male in this case, female in yours)

so i have something common with a fag..my stomatch just turned..anyways thanks i guess for your repley.