Okay, the title is self-explanatory. If I ask her out for coffee when we aren't yet in a relationship should I pay for hers?

If you want to date her then yes.

Honestly if you are asking somebody to coffee you should probably pay anyway, but if you want to date her then you shouldnt even have to ask.

Play it by ear. It'll probably impress her if you just take charge and pay. Or offer to pay, and she'll say "oh no, I'll get mine" and then you say "oh, but I insist" and then she'll blush. Yes.

I think the saying is "play it by year". but whatever. yes pay for her. be a gentlemen. cuz once she goes out with you then it can change and you guys can take turns, or if you a rich fuck, pay for her all the time. If i had the money I would.

I'm a student. I don't have much money. But I can manage a few coffees here and there. Thank you, I'd make a terrible boyfriend if it weren't for this forum.

quote:Originally posted by McLaren:

I'm a student. I don't have much money. But I can manage a few coffees here and there. Thank you, I'd make a terrible boyfriend if it weren't for this forum.

Dude what do you expect, use your common sense..

If you're just dating her...I say no. I think it's corny/cheesey/presumptious.

If she's not yet your bitch, don't pay.

I did when me and my GF first started dating but then I was broke for about a month and she payed when we went places like the movies. BUT, we were allready "dating/together" If we wern't I still would have.

Yeah I think I'll pay for her coffee then.

She pays for condoms and you pay for the abortion.

quote:Originally posted by faze2:

I think the saying is "play it by year". .

HAHAHA YOU STUPID TWAT!