Jealousy is ruining my life. I haven't talked to my girlfriend since last night at around 7 because she went to a concert with some of her old stoner friends. I just can't bring myself to talk to her at all. And I don't even know why.

I'd give my left nut for an 8-ball right now. Ugh.

8-ball of crank?

Yeah that kinda shit sucks, just bring it up to her then....Unless you arent in a serious relationship, you gotta get over from hiding things or beating around the bush...Tell her what you think don't be afraid, hell thats the best part of a relationship anyways.

[This message has been edited by playboy311 (edited 10-24-2006).]

Is there are reason you're jealous? Do you not trust her? A little bit of jealousy is normal (I feel jealous every time my boyfriend goes out without me!) but maybe you're jealous because you don't trust her? If not, then suck it up and call her and say "Hey babe, how was the concert?" like a loving and supportive boyfriend would. She'll probably say something like "It was fun, but I wish you could have come..." and voila no more jealousy.

Yeah, don't let her go next time.

I seriously doubt that she asked for his consent, so there is no 'letting' to be done.

Do you ever do anything with your friends without her? If not, then maybe that's something you need to start doing.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

Is there are reason you're jealous? Do you not trust her? A little bit of jealousy is normal (I feel jealous every time my boyfriend goes out without me!) but maybe you're jealous because you don't trust her? If not, then suck it up and call her and say "Hey babe, how was the concert?" like a loving and supportive boyfriend would. She'll probably say something like "It was fun, but I wish you could have come..." and voila no more jealousy.

I think it's mostly because she always hangs out with this asshole who does nothing but smoke weed 24/7. And she's trying to get off of drugs. I trust her but I'm also not an idiot. I had to stop hanging out with all the cokeheads I knew to stop doing it (well, stop doing it every day). But the other thing is is that they were friends for a long time, even before weed was their common bond. Whereas i only knew those cokeheads because of the fact we did it.



And I meant an 8-ball of coke dude.

quote:Originally posted by oc6:



Do you ever do anything with your friends without her? If not, then maybe that's something you need to start doing.

I do. All the time.

I see that you have the druggie's contempt for all other substances apart from your drugs of choice. I don't think it's a big deal if she hangs out with an old friend and gets high at a concert, just as long as she's not doing it everyday. You said you still do coke, just not everyday, so why can't she have the same liberty, especially since it's just weed?

I think you just need to get over yourself...

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:



And I meant an 8-ball of coke dude.

Fuck all that, waste of a good left nut.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

I see that you have the druggie's contempt for all other substances apart from your drugs of choice. I don't think it's a big deal if she hangs out with an old friend and gets high at a concert, just as long as she's not doing it everyday. You said you still do coke, just not everyday, so why can't she have the same liberty, especially since it's just weed?

I think you just need to get over yourself...

She hasn't stopped, is the thing. And she threatens to leave me if I do do coke.

I also hate that "it's just weed" argument. Complete bullshit. That means she can smoke all sorts of weed and get baked while I can only sit there in a corner and drink beer? Fuck that.

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:

She hasn't stopped, is the thing. And she threatens to leave me if I do do coke.

I also hate that "it's just weed" argument. Complete bullshit. That means she can smoke all sorts of weed and get baked while I can only sit there in a corner and drink beer? Fuck that.

Hahaha, wonder who wears the pants.

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quote:Originally posted by playboy311:

Fuck all that, waste of a good left nut.



I hope you're not saying crank is better than coke...

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:



I hope you're not saying crank is better than coke...

Oh yea I am.

quote:Originally posted by playboy311:

Oh yea I am.



To each his own I guess.

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:

I do. All the time.



Why the double standard then?

quote:Originally posted by oc6:



Why the double standard then?



I'm not mad she went out without me. I could care less quite honestly.

Which is why I'm wondering where the hell this jealousy is coming from.

Coke>Crank big time.

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:



I'm not mad she went out without me. I could care less quite honestly.

Which is why I'm wondering where the hell this jealousy is coming from.



You dislike her friends?

quote:Originally posted by oc6:



You dislike her friends?



quote:Originally posted by PLAN4LIFE:

Coke>Crank big time.

Yes. I hate most of them.

And yes thank you. Coke is way better than crank.

quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:

Yes. I hate most of them.

Well, that sounds like the problem then. If you liked them then you probably wouldn't be jealous.

edit:

In other words, jealousy is often the desire to control a person/situation. You can't, so you feel angry and jealous.

That's my guess anyway.

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quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:

Jealousy is ruining my life. I haven't talked to my girlfriend since last night at around 7 because she went to a concert with some of her old stoner friends. I just can't bring myself to talk to her at all. And I don't even know why.

I'd give my left nut for an 8-ball right now. Ugh.



talk to her.

I just went through thison a different post.

I get jealous.

Just be happy SHE is yours

DO you trust her?

Cause then think about SHE is YOURS and you are HERS if you trust her then you should be happy she is wiht you and not those stoner guys.

Think more positive and trust your girl.

talk to her about being jealous.

Trust me she will understand.

Dont tel her she cant hang out with them.

She will kick your ass to the crib.

Just let her know you get jealous.

but you trust her.

quote:Originally posted by Aseren:

Yeah, don't let her go next time.

and be a controlive dick?

Yeah she will deffinity kick his ass to the crib.

quote:Originally posted by alshotsexysilly16:

and be a controlive dick?

Yeah she will deffinity kick his ass to the crib.

Controlive dick? lol

And no ofcourse not, by no means try to control her. But if you aren't comfortable with it you don't need to let her go, that's what idiots like you do, and that's what we have idiots here that come crying and wonder why their 2-year old relationship was so easily washed down the drain.

So no you don't control her. You offer something in return, like not going out with YOUR girl friends, and leave her at home. You compromise, Sonny.

That's not being a "controlive dick", that's what every man in every successful relationship does, Mr. nice guy.