I heard from many people that it is. Yesterday i went round hers as i couldnt stay the night after i got back from a late college trip, and on the way back she was telling me about how she really wanted to fuck me there and then..

fair enough, I thought to myself.

Then yesterday I went back to hers to return her scarf that i had somehow managed to keep. I went up to her room, we watched a movie and things got going from there. Basically, everything.

Then she was a bit moody after, but i soon cheered her up (non sexually, just joking around and chatting about college etc) and she was fine.

Then I got home and she unleashed the fucking fury on me! About how she is dissapointed in herself and all that, then how she would reconsider our relationship to be nothing more than a friendship. Then all her girlyfriends soon found out and they were all round there having a go at me and getting drunk. And there's me browsing ToTSE getting bitched at..

Sure, i'm a bit hurt, but then again, wouldn't most people be?

So, wise members of &T, any advice/ideas/personal experiences?

Thanks

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[This message has been edited by RemadE (edited 10-24-2006).]

Dissociate?

...What the fuck.

Immature. Give them a good telling off.

She's a bitchy one ain't she? I suggest you tell her to piss off and grow up. If she says it's you and that your the asshole, point out that she was ok with it and then went and bitched about you to all her friends.

Failing that she might just be insecure and really like you, in which case (if you care) just go and be nice, explain how you feel, talk it over and everything will be alright.

Thanks guys (and maybe girls..)

I'll go chat to her, she isn't in the mood at the moment, but if she still likes me as much as she did before, then she wouldn't be stupid enough to ignore me. She knows i have something to say.

Just hope her 'friends' dont fill her head with ideas.

grr.

Backlash of self loathing and regret, perhaps other such emotions, incredibly powerful nonsensical regret and guilt. She had to project it into you, her own mind couldn't take it without caving in. Had one once. Then again, could have been just a panic attack loaded with regret, who knows. Maybe she had something else. Meh, I'm not being too useful here

You really want to wait for the effect to pass regardless

I tend to get really emotional post-sex. I try not to take it out on him though. I usually just get really quiet and distant, and I just wanna be alone. If she's freaking out on you, fuck that.

quote:Originally posted by RemadE:

Then I got home and she unleashed the fucking fury on me! About how she is dissapointed in herself and all that, then how she would reconsider our relationship to be nothing more than a friendship. Then all her girlyfriends soon found out and they were all round there having a go at me and getting drunk. And there's me browsing ToTSE getting bitched at..

Why on earth is she so disappointed in herself? Is this post-coital guilt?

quote:Originally posted by oc6:

Why on earth is she so disappointed in herself? Is this post-coital guilt?

Did she hope to date you longer before giving into the desire, if give into it at all? Who knows