This is the first time Ive experienced this sort of thing...but my girl said these things to me today "the sex we have is getting boring" and "the sex we have is just sex...you dont make it feel like you love me"

this is my first time facing said problems ever...I could see how shes getting bored of the sex we have...we have sex usually two times a day multiple times a week,and well...ive used my entire arsenal of positions and racked my brain as much as i could to do different things...im even getting bored...so the first question is...for someone who(not to toot my own horn) is a bit gifted in bed and done a lot...what can i do differently? im very open so (for reference) ill name alot of what ive done...if asked.

and my second question would be for the during sex not-showing-enough-love predicament.how can i show her i love her while...making love?

all my life sex has been just that...sex.so im kinda confused on what to do differently.the things is that i DO love her,very much but im not the best at showing my affection...so im asking for some help.wich im usually giving the advice on totse,so this is a bit of a change-up.

Eye contact; constant kisses go a long way.

I had the same thing said to me once, and that was when I was having sex around once a week.

It's all in the foreplay, if you can literally make her beg for you to make love to her, you're in. Also, try taking it in turns to lead; it's not completely your responsibilty.

thanks ouster.

I would suggest you read some erotica and sex books. You'll usually find it's the passion and the intent of the motion that creates that merge.

good thing is,today she said she wasnt even bored with the sex we have,she just couldnt properly explain how she felt...turns out ive just been rushing into the sex lately...so both problems are solved...communication truely is VITAL in a relationship.thank you guys.

now go hit that ass, playa'

When you have nothing left in your arsenal, give it to her in the ass. That tells her you REALLY love her.

It also goes along way to shoot your load in her hair, face, or eye. Nothing says "I love you" like a shot of cum to the eye.

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

When you have nothing left in your arsenal, give it to her in the ass. That tells her you REALLY love her.

It also goes along way to shoot your load in her hair, face, or eye. Nothing says "I love you" like a shot of cum to the eye.