And I kind of wanted to use this opportunity to our advantage

How do you think I should approach this? I’ve never really massaged a person when the massage has the possibility of leading elsewhere.

We’ve only been going out a little while so there is little possibility for sex but as for other things, sure.

Another thing is, the girl in question is fairly self-conscious so I'm guessing if clothes are off that so would the light.

Massage tips/links and suggestions would be most welcome!

(and sorry that all was so poorly written, my thoughts are rather jumbled from lack of sleep and anticipation)

-F☺rd

I usually sit on the top of my girl's legs while she's face down and naked so I can slip my dick in her while I massager her.

Just give her a back/foot rub and what not, use your fingers with a bit of pressure, but don't push too hard. Small circles and what not.

Eh, I have decided that massages are fucking AWESOME. I other news, i discovered the capslock key.

The last girl I gave a massage to I lated asked out, mistakenly thinking it was more than just 'me horny, you horny'.

Dont get her naked...just yet. Start with the shirt pulled up to her shoulders so you can reach her back. Don't move your hand so much, but your fingers. Little circles! If you want it to go further, don't just massage her, stop the rubbing every once in a while, lightly run your fingers around her back, down her spine; guaranteed to make her twitch/orgasm/whatever.

When you get more and more comfortable, let your hand wander. Good things will happen.

Hope it goes well, and you do better than I did.

Pretty much anything you do will feel good. Rub your hands up and down her back, massage her shoulders and neck, dig your knuckles (gently, of course) into her back...Remember good massages you've gotten and try and replicate it on her. You should also use lotion (any hand/body lotion she has around the house should be fine) or body oil. I like Neutrogena body oil, it smells nice and isn't greasy. You can get it at the drug store for like $7.

It'll be easiest to give her a massage if she's on her stomach (shirt off) and you straddle her butt. If she's self conscious just make sure you look away until her shirt if off and she's laying on her stomach. If you play your cards right though, she'll want you so bad after the massage that her self consciousness will fly out the window.

Maybe turn the lights off and light a few candles too? That way she'll be less shy about getting naked.

A massage is how my boyfriend seduced me. We met while I was going through a really stressful time, and he could feel all the knots in my back so he offered to massage them out. He gave me an awesome massage for like an hour and then he whispered in my ear "I want you so bad right now". We then proceeded to have mind blowing sex.

Edit - I forgot to say, make sure to ask her what kind of pressure she likes. I prefer a strong massage, but I'm sure some girls would like a lighter touch. Just ask.



[This message has been edited by Sick_Boy (edited 10-23-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

If you play your cards right though, she'll want you so bad after the massage that her self consciousness will fly out the window.



Prettymuch what I was going for.

Where's Gus when you need him? I'm suuure he has some advice concerning this.

-F☺rd

wow, if i asked for a massage from my boyfriend, i dont think it would happen lol



Just be gentle with her let her know her body is amazing make her feel good about herself and she will feel more comfortable.

And then whisper into her ear like Sick_Boy's boyfriend, because he is oh so gorgeous and oh so slick, but I am making a slight adjustment.

Say dis here son, "Me so horny, I know you horny, let me take you to a horny you've never been."

After browsing the topic, I'd have to suggest this site to anybody that finds themselves in a similar position http://www.massagefree.com/index.html

I'd look at the routines section, among others.

-F☺rd

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

And then whisper into her ear like Sick_Boy's boyfriend, because he is oh so gorgeous and oh so slick, but I am making a slight adjustment.

Say dis here son, "Me so horny, I know you horny, let me take you to a horny you've never been."



Oh god, this makes me like you a tiny bit. *shudder*

lol!

I made this exact same thread in SG and got flamed.

That's totse for you. Atleast if you hang around here long enough, there aren't too many people who will flame you in S&A.

quote:Originally posted by Galbador:

I made this exact same thread in SG and got flamed.



No, you made a thread about you're girlfriend getting a massage from a manwhore before you burst into the duckula (nofuckingidea) theme song.

-F☺rd

quote:Originally posted by Ford Prefect:



No, you made a thread about you're girlfriend getting a massage from a manwhore before you burst into the duckula (nofuckingidea) theme song.

-F☺rd

Oh yeah. lol