Me being the only guy there. You would think that this would be a good thing, but it only turned into a disaster...

Three of the girls I had already made out with (among other things) in the past, but one of them I did stuff with recently, so there was alot of awkwardness. We were supposed to end up going out, but I hesitated too long and things just turned wierd. We never spoke a word to each other the entire weekend.

On friday though, I ended up hooking up with one of the girls whom I haven't done anything with prior. It kind of took me by surprise, but we got to talking after everyone had gone to bed, and we really seemed to hit it off. We stayed up talking for hours, and then eventually started making out. Then we decided to back to her room, but before that, she warned me that she couldn't have sex because she was on her period. I told her that was just an excuse (a girl can still fuck on her period, right??).

Anyway, then we just ended up making out intensely in her bed, we ended up taking each other clothes off, then by the end of the night we just started cuddling and whatnot. The next morning, we even had conversations about where I was going to live (since I'm about to move, and I have no idea where I'm going yet). She suggested that I move to the city where she will be living (which I've actually already considered moving to anyway).

Things seemed alright, until she went shopping with the other girls. Even though she invited me, I didn't want to go shopping with a bunch of chicks, so I went out and explored the lovely city of Victoria (BC) by myself.

Later that night, she wouldn't even talk to me. I have no idea what the fuck ideas the other girls planted in her head on their little outing, but they fucked everything up. I tried to talk to her to find out what her issue was, but she wouldn't open up to me. So I just said "fine", and went into the other room and just went to sleep.

The next day we didn't talk at all, and I left to get on the fairy without even saying goodbye to her.

WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED!?!? Any ideas!?

Are these girls friends? If so, there all probably mad at you for tapping 4/5.

They probably told her you screwed them over.

Did you mess around with them, then ditch them? Break any hearts?

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

Did you mess around with them, then ditch them? Break any hearts?

It was actually the other way around with two of them... I try to only make out or have sex with girls who I could see myself dating.

The only one that might have been a bit of a mess was the one I recently was supposed to go out with. But it's not like I was just trying to get in her pants... I actually liked her at the time. It just kinda died down over time.

^BWAHAHAAHAH What a load of complete shit. "I only to to fuck girls, that I am seriously interested in and want to date."

Lol........wow. I see why she blew you off, you're an asshole. You fuck over her friends, you try to hook up with her, she finds out you're an asshole.

There is NO mystery here buddy, she found out, the jig is up. Time to go hit on the next dumb bitch.

It's messed up because people are always accusing me of being a player or some kind of man-whore, but the fact of the matter is that every girl I hit on, I actually want to date.

Just because I'm open about my sexuality and very flirtatious doesn't mean I don't have a sensitive side.

quote:Originally posted by Vargv:

Are these girls friends? If so, there all probably mad at you for tapping 4/5.

The ladies just don't like Zooks' Big Pimpin'.

I can relate, but think about it, it doesn't make you seem very monogamous, does it.

I have the same problem so... yeah. It sucks but there's nothing you can do.

lol yea one time i went to a party and made out with 4 of the 10 or 11 girls there. Everything was good until they all went up to eachother and explained who they wanted to hook up with that night. Shit got crazy and they got into a big cat fight. Oh well i just grabbed a beer and took off. But yea i dont have sex with a girl unless i can see myself dating them. Making out is different :-p

yeah man what happened was those females planted some seeds in that girls mind that you are a bad guy. whatever-- you really handled the situation quite well. jus charge these bitches to the game and move on.

shoulda duct taped her hands and feet and went to town on her ass. teach her a lesson she'll nevah fuhget.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

^BWAHAHAAHAH What a load of complete shit. "I only to to fuck girls, that I am seriously interested in and want to date."

Lol........wow. I see why she blew you off, you're an asshole. You fuck over her friends, you try to hook up with her, she finds out you're an asshole.

There is NO mystery here buddy, she found out, the jig is up. Time to go hit on the next dumb bitch.

How is that assholeish?

You'd rather have him fuck and leave girls he's not interested it?

-F☺rd

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

^BWAHAHAAHAH What a load of complete shit. "I only to to fuck girls, that I am seriously interested in and want to date."

Lol........wow. I see why she blew you off, you're an asshole. You fuck over her friends, you try to hook up with her, she finds out you're an asshole.

There is NO mystery here buddy, she found out, the jig is up. Time to go hit on the next dumb bitch.

ohhhh did someone not get enough sleep last night and not EVEN FUCKING READ THE ORIGINAL POST?

She got you back... You did it to her friend so she did it to you Cold world we live in.

quote:

It's messed up because people are always accusing me of being a player or some kind of man-whore, but the fact of the matter is that every girl I hit on, I actually want to date.



quote:Three of the girls I had already made out with (among other things) in the past, but one of them I did stuff with recently

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fuck this. I'm going back to bed.

Does your getting on the 'fairy' have anything to do with it?

How do you make out with all those Island girls when you're a Mainland Boy?

The ones you did earlier bitched you out because you're a man whore. 4 outta 5 chicks? Fuck man what stupid bitches 2, 3 and 4 were.

Most women are shit, tada!

"Nah huh! He aint good for you girlfriend!"

Maybe if there was a little more honesty and communication the discussion would have already taken place when they invited you to stay with them for the weekend.

Being a good friend isn't letting things slide, it's fixing issues before they destroy the relationship.

Dude, I have a lot of girl friends and I would still never want to stay in a house with 5 girls for a weekend. Girls are fucking gross most of the time lol, way worse then guys.

I cannot make it stand out any clearer...

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shopping.

I'm sory man but you do osmthing like that, and then not follow their lead, its know wonder she's making you feel like shit. Did you even bother meeting up with them during the day? Lunch? Phone call? Text message?

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

It's messed up because people are always accusing me of being a player or some kind of man-whore, but the fact of the matter is that every girl I hit on, I actually want to date.

Just because I'm open about my sexuality and very flirtatious doesn't mean I don't have a sensitive side.

Dont mean to double post, but it also sounds like you need to clamp down on your activities as well - you cant have all of them. You physically don't have enough penises to get them all pleased at the same time. PICK ONE and FFS stay with her!

quote:Originally posted by Ford Prefect:

How is that assholeish?

You'd rather have him fuck and leave girls he's not interested it?

-F☺rd



So are you asking me why a girl would see a guy as an asshole, if he makes out with 3 out of the 5 girls hanging out, stalls to hookup with one that he claims he liked, only to try and hook up with the 4th one?

If I was looking through a girl's eyes I definitely wouldn't want to date that guy. You say you only want to sleep with or fuck around with girls that you like. However you said that you stalled on hooking up with one? Then it became weird, maybe it was weird because she found out you did the same thing to 2 other people she knew?

To me that's an asshole, if you like a girl, and I mean really like her, you don't want to ruin it by fucking her in the day. To me that is lust, not love. Now I'm not saying you have to love someone, but atleast show them respect by keeping your dick in your pants for a month.

The other chicks spoke to her about your bad reputation. Shit like this happens all the time.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Me being the only guy there. You would think that this would be a good thing, but it only turned into a disaster...

Three of the girls I had already made out with (among other things) in the past, but one of them I did stuff with recently, so there was alot of awkwardness. We were supposed to end up going out, but I hesitated too long and things just turned wierd. We never spoke a word to each other the entire weekend.

On friday though, I ended up hooking up with one of the girls whom I haven't done anything with prior. It kind of took me by surprise, but we got to talking after everyone had gone to bed, and we really seemed to hit it off. We stayed up talking for hours, and then eventually started making out. Then we decided to back to her room, but before that, she warned me that she couldn't have sex because she was on her period. I told her that was just an excuse (a girl can still fuck on her period, right??).

Anyway, then we just ended up making out intensely in her bed, we ended up taking each other clothes off, then by the end of the night we just started cuddling and whatnot. The next morning, we even had conversations about where I was going to live (since I'm about to move, and I have no idea where I'm going yet). She suggested that I move to the city where she will be living (which I've actually already considered moving to anyway).

Things seemed alright, until she went shopping with the other girls. Even though she invited me, I didn't want to go shopping with a bunch of chicks, so I went out and explored the lovely city of Victoria (BC) by myself.

Later that night, she wouldn't even talk to me. I have no idea what the fuck ideas the other girls planted in her head on their little outing, but they fucked everything up. I tried to talk to her to find out what her issue was, but she wouldn't open up to me. So I just said "fine", and went into the other room and just went to sleep.

The next day we didn't talk at all, and I left to get on the fairy without even saying goodbye to her.

WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED!?!? Any ideas!?

yeah..you sound like one of my friends and its certainly not because those girls hate you..its because tehy all want your cock, theres this dick at school who idd this..he ahs three girls tied up at school all hanging of his word..adn whats worse is hes not even good looking. They are all not doing anyhting becasue tehy risk losing the other friends if they make a move on you..so gun for there oussies in secret..see hwo many you can bag in one night

The title looked promising!!!!!!!!!!!

If you play with fire..

/useless comment

Girls talk to each other, pff. And who know what the fuck they said. Maybe they all want to get with you, in which case this is a good thing.

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

Does your getting on the 'fairy' have anything to do with it?

How do you make out with all those Island girls when you're a Mainland Boy?

Lol. I can't believe I spelled it "fairy". Sometimes I wonder about myself...

Also, all these girls are originally from Vancouver and the surrounding area. Three of them are going to UVIC, and the other 2 were just visiting on the same weekend.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:

Most women are shit, tada!

"Nah huh! He aint good for you girlfriend!"

Maybe if there was a little more honesty and communication the discussion would have already taken place when they invited you to stay with them for the weekend.

Being a good friend isn't letting things slide, it's fixing issues before they destroy the relationship.

Yes! It would have been nice if this whole thing could have been prevented at least instead of me having to go through it, and then get fucked over.

I thought that everyone knew what was going on to begin with, including the girl I hooked up with on friday.

quote:Originally posted by neville122333:

I'm sory man but you do osmthing like that, and then not follow their lead, its know wonder she's making you feel like shit. Did you even bother meeting up with them during the day? Lunch? Phone call? Text message?

I wanted to, but I didn't have a way to get ahold of them... It was actually only 4 of them that went shopping together, the other one, who I know alot better than the other 4 was at work and I only had her number.

I guess I did kinda fuck that up by not taking enough initiative. Kinda like how I fucked up with the other girl a few months ago.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

If I was looking through a girl's eyes I definitely wouldn't want to date that guy. You say you only want to sleep with or fuck around with girls that you like. However you said that you stalled on hooking up with one? Then it became weird, maybe it was weird because she found out you did the same thing to 2 other people she knew?

What makes you assume that I was the one who turned down the other 2 girls? There is alot of history behind me and one of the girls, but to sum things up, there was no expectation of a relationship on her behalf. With those 2 it wasn't anything like it was with the recent girl.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

To me that's an asshole, if you like a girl, and I mean really like her, you don't want to ruin it by fucking her in the day. To me that is lust, not love. Now I'm not saying you have to love someone, but atleast show them respect by keeping your dick in your pants for a month.

I can't help going for the sex straight away. I guess I always figured that once we've had sex, then it's a sure thing that we would end up dating.

Although that hasn't always proven true, I still keep doing it. I don't know why, it's just how I do things. It's not something I can change overnight.

Fuck... and now all I can think about is her. I don't even feel like going to work anymore. I also relapsed on my drinking (after having quit for 3 weeks, I've been drunk non-stop the past few days).

I miss the way she smiled at me when I looked over at her in her bed, or when we were about to kiss.

For those brief moments I didn't care about anything else. I was even willing to completely change my life and move over there (I had actually gone into my work office location in Victoria and talked to them about transferring over there).

I wish my emotions had some kind of kill-switch. That's what I need right now.

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

It's messed up because people are always accusing me of being a player or some kind of man-whore, but the fact of the matter is that every girl I hit on, I actually want to date.

Just because I'm open about my sexuality and very flirtatious doesn't mean I don't have a sensitive side.

you remind me of me...but yet i get called a PIMP by quite a lot of lasses hehe :P

Lucky sexual flirtacious guys.

I am shit with girls, i've been told i'm good looking alot, i take care with how i look and i'm not a dick.

Yet i lack loads of confidence/ self esteem from (What i think is) Traumas in my childhood.

I'm now 15 and the few girlfriends i've had never lasted longer than two days, and ive only made out once!

Yeah, who cares, you'll get over her, with your confidence, bloody hell i'd do anything for it.

quote:Originally posted by demented:

Lucky sexual flirtacious guys.

I am shit with girls, i've been told i'm good looking alot, i take care with how i look and i'm not a dick.

Yet i lack loads of confidence/ self esteem from (What i think is) Traumas in my childhood.

I'm now 15 and the few girlfriends i've had never lasted longer than two days, and ive only made out once!

Yeah, who cares, you'll get over her, with your confidence, bloody hell i'd do anything for it.

I wasn't always like this. In fact, you're doing much better than I was at your age. I didn't even kiss a girl or even hold hands with a girl or anything like that until I was 18!! It's one of those things that can change with time.

I never even considered the thought that I would ever be like this actually. It still kinda takes me by surprise at times.

Well, I got my closure at least...

She's apparantly just pretending that she only did everything that she did out of drunkenness. It's funny though, considering how in the morning she didn't just suddenly jump out of bed like "omg what did I do?".

Whatever, I'll get over her. She is after all the 4th out of the 5 girls in that group alone that I've hooked up with. She's easily replacable.

HEY VICTORIA BC, where are you from? Are you from BC??

I think it's obvious that no girl wants to feel like a slut, and she probably did when she got to talking with all the other girls and realised how many of them had made out etc with you before. Furthermore, "what was normal in the evening by the morning seems insane", so theres always that.

From the sounds of it though you must be good looking so you shouldnt worry too much about finding a girl to be with when you do move and get settled down.

quote:Originally posted by pulsera:

HEY VICTORIA BC, where are you from? Are you from BC??

Yeah I'm actually from Surrey, lol. Where abouts are you from?

quote:Originally posted by pulsera:

From the sounds of it though you must be good looking so you shouldnt worry too much about finding a girl to be with when you do move and get settled down.

Thank you. I think that's pretty much what I need to hear. I don't even know why I liked her so much, but whatever, it will pass.

Aw, I was going to post about the "fairy". Oh well.

Anyway, gadzooks, not everyone is open or comfortable with their sexuality as we are. Although I don't think you are a player/slut/whatev, I could see how others might. You know what I'm saying?

there's nothing wrong with being a player and hooking up with alot of females.. it's only punk shit if you bold face LIE to the female and tell her you want a relationship jus so you can hit that ass..

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

Well, I got my closure at least...

She's apparantly just pretending that she only did everything that she did out of drunkenness. It's funny though, considering how in the morning she didn't just suddenly jump out of bed like "omg what did I do?".

Whatever, I'll get over her. She is after all the 4th out of the 5 girls in that group alone that I've hooked up with. She's easily replacable.

you've only got on viable option now bro...

hook up with the fifth =)

quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:

she was on her period.

solved