My ex-boyfriend calls me at least once a day, and when i dont answer my phone he will call back right away...and sometimes his friends tell me he drives by my house to see if I am home or not...

....the part i dont get is that he broke up with me?

I need help on what to say to him (tried talking to him a couple of times saying we arent going out but it doesnt work) and why is he doing all this when we arent even going out?

My exboyfriend does the same thing. I think it's because we were friends before we were lovers and we've remained friends since the break up. However, lately, it's become a little much and I told him I need some space.

Just tell him you need some space. Explain that you're broken up and you just need to be literally broken up for a while so you can get over it. That'll make him feel like it's about you and not him, so you'll get what you want (his absence) with as little drama as possible.

Cheers,

Lost

Sorry... That's obsession. It happens in love. Obviously he made the wrong move in breaking up with you.

If it gets too much, just tell him that it's over, he ended it, and he's gotta deal with the consequences, and you are NOT going to take him back.

Or alternatively, watch the video clip for Smile by Lily Allen.

quote:Originally posted by ShootingStar:

My ex-boyfriend calls me at least once a day, and when i dont answer my phone he will call back right away...and sometimes his friends tell me he drives by my house to see if I am home or not...

....the part i dont get is that he broke up with me?

I need help on what to say to him (tried talking to him a couple of times saying we arent going out but it doesnt work) and why is he doing all this when we arent even going out?



Sounds like he self-pwned.

Ahh well. His loss. Move on..