Ok ya so im a little shy about talkin about this, but meh, i only recently really started havin sex, and an ongoing problem is premature. Like im just gettin into it and bam, its over.

I mean at first it was funny cause i was getting head and without warning bust in their mouth, but now i just feel dumb, and i need to know if its cause im new, or am i a loser?

any advice or help would be awesome.....

cheers

Beat off before hand

Obviously you're a loser.

Haha, just kidding dude, it happens to a lot of people including me. Just try to hold it back a little longer next time, if you'll try hard enough it'll work, just give it a go.

Practice holding down your orgasm when you masturbate. Eventually, you'll be able to control it better, and your body will then adapt to give you more time.

Lol i scrolled bad, and all i read was "obviously your a loser" so i thought that was all u wrote, i was like "shit"

thanks for advice, both i think....

i did try holding and i was like "shizam"

but maybe in time it will improve, also i hav this problem with gettin a stiffy to easily and like it never goes away, even after sex, as long as she is close

If you know you're gonna be getting upto things, have a wank about an hour beforehand. Works for me upto about 3 hours before...

When you're batting off, stop just before you're about to blow your load. Then continue on, and stop again. Do it like 10 times, every time you fap. It'll help you last longer.

Also, you mentioned that you don't lose wood. Go at it again after sex, and again, until it goes down. Each time you'll last longer.

Just go at it again. Do you really think she cares if you've blown? Not as long as you keep at 'er.

from experience, if the first shot is quick and relatively boring, just hold out for the second, it should take ages and feel like a fucking tidal wave

Thanks guys, ill take all dem advice.

Cheers,

Pull it out and go down on her when you feel like ur gonna bust then when u feel its right keep going