So i was going out with this girl for about two and a half three months and things are going great, never any problems or anthing. Then I get locked up for three weeks. I come back to find out she had made out with 3 guys and fucked her ex one night she got drunk at a party. So I cut it off and we havent really been speaking much except for her telling me how sorry she is and that she pretty much wants to get back together with me. Now I don't know what to do because I still have pretty strong feelings for this chick and I liked her more than any one else I've dated before. I just think it would be very degrading if I did Get back together with her and that she'd turn around and do the same thing next time she got the chance. What do you think totse.

Edit: The only thing that I can understand about it is that while I was locked up everybody I talked to said she was going to cheat on me while I was gone and that I just really should't worry too much about it. I dunno if it's true but thats what I heard the most.

[This message has been edited by RH2002 (edited 10-21-2006).]

First of all, I'm sorry to hear that. Secondly, it sounds like she's far too immature and out-of-control to be in a relationship in the first place. Yes, I would agree with you, in that getting back with her would be degrading, and worse, an attack on your manhood.

See thats what I was thinking, and btw shes 14 and I'm about to be 17 so that may be where her immaturity is coming from.

^ Makes me sad to hear of a 14 year old girl acting like that. But her age is no excuse. She's gotta learn this lesson the hard way, I reckon mate.

I would just say forget about her man. If she was stupid enough to cheat on you. She doesn't really care for you and doesn't deserve you. Break all contact with her.

If she was unfaithful to you, get rid of her, and make her pay. She deserves no forgiveness, only pure hell.

Don't get back together with her. Sever all contact with her.

quote:Originally posted by Tesla:

I would just say forget about her man. If she was stupid enough to cheat on you. She doesn't really care for you and doesn't deserve you. Break all contact with her.

Damn, I was gonna say fuck her then dump her.. But 14/17? GTFO, you should know better.

Unforgivable.

Just take this as a lesson to stay away from younger chicks.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

First of all, I'm sorry to hear that. Secondly, it sounds like she's far too immature and out-of-control to be in a relationship in the first place. Yes, I would agree with you, in that getting back with her would be degrading, and worse, an attack on your manhood.



^^

Hell yes. You're not a fucking doormat.

If she wants to fuck other people, FINE, but you dont have to sit there and share her STDs!

Take her back, say everything is forgiven. Tell her that you missed her, you love her, blah blah blah.

Then fuck her sister/mother/bestfriend/etc. and dump the stupid slut.

OR

Fuck her, and make a sex tape of her doing some really nasty shit, like drinking your cum out of a glass, or getting shit on, or giving you a rim job, or whatever. Then dump the bitch and release the tape.

forget about her, she obviously can't control herself and she's too young and immature for someone your age, just break contact with her and depending on how bitter you are about it you can make her feel terrible about it if you want, but i wouldn't suggest getting together again.

Yea I really don't think shes really worth my time, and I've really made her feel like shit about it too and no one really likes her anymore because alotta people do like me and think that it's total bullshit she'd do that to me. But she did it to herself so not my problem.

quote:Originally posted by RH2002:

Yea I really don't think shes really worth my time, and I've really made her feel like shit about it too and no one really likes her anymore because alotta people do like me and think that it's total bullshit she'd do that to me. But she did it to herself so not my problem.

Up to this post^ you had my sympathy . Now i wonder if she isn't better off without you.

quote:Originally posted by Byss:

Take her back, say everything is forgiven. Tell her that you missed her, you love her, blah blah blah.

Then fuck her sister/mother/bestfriend/etc. and dump the stupid slut.

OR

Fuck her, and make a sex tape of her doing some really nasty shit, like drinking your cum out of a glass, or getting shit on, or giving you a rim job, or whatever. Then dump the bitch and release the tape on Totse of course.

Why dont you just wait for someone who seems right? Someone equivilant to your maturity level and standards, unless yours are that of a 14 year old? *shrugs*. But like someone said, it's sad to see young girls acting like that.

But, perhaps you should just break all contact with her, dont be mean to her, that'll prove nothing. Just, if anything be mutual with her.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Up to this post^ you had my sympathy . Now i wonder if she isn't better off without you.



Does it get lonely up on your pedastal?

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Up to this post^ you had my sympathy . Now i wonder if she isn't better off without you.





I didn't try to do this she kept begging me to get back with her and I explainded to her over and over why I wouldn't and she kept telling me how much worse I was making her feel about it. Then she went around trying to get sympathy from other people and they told her the same damn thing I did and now everyone just thinks that she's a fucking whore. Not my fault

She didn't just cheat on you once, she did it FOUR TIMES. Don't take her back, but don't exact your revenge on her, because that would just make you as immature as her, possibly moreso because you know full well what you're doing is wrong, and she might be too young to have thought things like that through. I'm not saying her age is an excuse to be forgiven, but it probably has a lot to do with her fucking up. You've already showed us you're old enough to know better, so just dump her and leave it at that.

You run around town like a fool and you think that it's groovy

You're givin' it to some other guy who gives you the eye

You don't give nothin' to me, you painted a smile

And you dress all the while to excite me.

But don't you know you're turning me on

I know that it's wrong, but I can't stop this pain inside me.

Baby, love really hurts without you,

Love really hurts without you,

And it's breaking my heart,

But what can I do, baby,

Love really hurts without you,

Love really hurts through and through

And it's breaking my heart

But what can I do without you, baby?

You walk like a dream and you make like you're Queen of the action

You're using ev'ry trick in the book the way that you look

You're really something to see, you cheat and you lie

To impress any guy that you fancy, but don't you know

I'm out of my mind, so give me a sign

And help to ease the pain inside me.

Baby, love really hurts without you,

Love really hurts without you,

And it's breaking my heart,

But what can I do, baby,

Love really hurts without you,

Love really hurts through and through

And it's breaking my heart

But what can I do without you, baby?

she sounds pretty worthless to me, i would probably stop talking to her altogether from her immaturity and inability to be faithful

stab and Cloaked Dagger have the right idea, I say listen to them.

Get back together.

Get her preggs.

Marry her...she's a keeper!