I went to the Rockets vs. Bucks game Wednsday with a group from my highschool, and one of tyhe girls that was in the gruop sat with me and we chilled and mess and traded numbers and flirted a bit, and for the past 2 days she hasn't been recondnizing my prescence exept to hit me on the shoulder, which i sleading me to think she just wants to play hard to get. Sure Ill play that game, but all my other relationships have been just straightforward, what does she want me to do exactly? Or is she just wanting me to leave her alone?

Nah I don't think she wants you to leave her alone, the hits on the shoulder disprove that theory. I think your instinct is right, she's playing hard to get.

What are the situations where she hit you in the arm?

Slap her on the ass, and tell her to call you for some weekend fun.

I'd just end up walking past her or shed be behind me and just punch my arm and then have that "I didn't do it " look

^ She wants you, that much is for sure.

so, what do I do the next time I see her? drag her into the nearet bathroom, thow her on the sink, slap her ass and then have rough angry sex? Or just act like I want to see her really really bad to satisfy her hard to get stage?

Am I the only one to note that the majority of that wasn't even in recognizable English?

So I'm slightly lysdsexic, chill out.

wtf man hell no you don't act like you "really" wanna see her. SHE'S TESTING YOU. if she sees you sweating over her and coming across like your desperate she will lose respect for you.

you need to boss up and turn the fuckin tables on this shit.. what you do is straight up ignore her. this will surprise her and only make her more determined-- females love a challenge.

you can bet your ass she's done this to a hundred other guys and most of them tried to brownnose their way into good graces and ended up getting played. don't get punked and be that guy. be the ONE guy who didn't take the bait and made her do the chasing.

trust me when I say once you play the role of the desperate puppy begging for attention she will lose respect for you. plain and simple. so cut out that bullshit thinking if you give her attention she will like you more. females don't operate like that.

jus play it cool, if she talks to you first then you can hollar back-- but play it cool man.. be calm and chill about it. don't act all excited or like she's doing you a favor by talking to you or something..

eventually she will CALL YOU.. YES.. she will, trust me. which is what YOU WANT.. when she calls you jus be like, "hey. you need to come over so we can kick it'" (don't ASK her, INSTRUCT her)..when she comes over bust out some drinks and jus kick it with her, after no time you will be hitting that pussy 6 ways till sunday..

but be strong and man up about this shit.. don't act like the excited puppy waiting for it's owner to take him to the park.

[This message has been edited by DENKDAN (edited 10-22-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by DENKDAN:

wtf man hell no you don't act like you "really" wanna see her. SHE'S TESTING YOU. if she sees you sweating over her and coming across like your desperate she will lose respect for you.

you need to boss up and turn the fuckin tables on this shit.. what you do is straight up ignore her. this will surprise her and only make her more determined-- females love a challenge.

you can bet your ass she's done this to a hundred other guys and most of them tried to brownnose their way into good graces and ended up getting played. don't get punked and be that guy. be the ONE guy who didn't take the bait and made her do the chasing.

trust me when I say once you play the role of the desperate puppy begging for attention she will lose respect for you. plain and simple. so cut out that bullshit thinking if you give her attention she will like you more. females don't operate like that.

jus play it cool, if she talks to you first then you can hollar back-- but play it cool man.. be calm and chill about it. don't act all excited or like she's doing you a favor by talking to you or something..

eventually she will CALL YOU.. YES.. she will, trust me. which is what YOU WANT.. when she calls you jus be like, "hey. you need to come over so we can kick it'" (don't ASK her, INSTRUCT her)..when she comes over bust out some drinks and jus kick it with her, after no time you will be hitting that pussy 6 ways till sunday..

but be strong and man up about this shit.. don't act like the excited puppy waiting for it's owner to take him to the park.





This pretty much sums it up, good post.

quote:Originally posted by DENKDAN:

wtf man hell no you don't act like you "really" wanna see her. SHE'S TESTING YOU. if she sees you sweating over her and coming across like your desperate she will lose respect for you.

you need to boss up and turn the fuckin tables on this shit.. what you do is straight up ignore her. this will surprise her and only make her more determined-- females love a challenge.

you can bet your ass she's done this to a hundred other guys and most of them tried to brownnose their way into good graces and ended up getting played. don't get punked and be that guy. be the ONE guy who didn't take the bait and made her do the chasing.

trust me when I say once you play the role of the desperate puppy begging for attention she will lose respect for you. plain and simple. so cut out that bullshit thinking if you give her attention she will like you more. females don't operate like that.

jus play it cool, if she talks to you first then you can hollar back-- but play it cool man.. be calm and chill about it. don't act all excited or like she's doing you a favor by talking to you or something..

eventually she will CALL YOU.. YES.. she will, trust me. which is what YOU WANT.. when she calls you jus be like, "hey. you need to come over so we can kick it'" (don't ASK her, INSTRUCT her)..when she comes over bust out some drinks and jus kick it with her, after no time you will be hitting that pussy 6 ways till sunday..

but be strong and man up about this shit.. don't act like the excited puppy waiting for it's owner to take him to the park.





this man knows what hes talking about.

a similar thing is happening to me right now, and i did the ignoring stuff and we are back to flirting. how do i get involved more?

God no, don't act really excited to see her. That's the worst thing you could do.

Play the same game, like that other guy said.

quote: a similar thing is happening to me right now, and i did the ignoring stuff and we are back to flirting. how do i get involved more?

i'd be glad to answer your question but this is really way too vague for me jus to give you a straight up answer. I'd need to know information such as how long have you known this broad and how WELL do you know her?? has it gotten to the point where you guys have already exchanged numbers or is it still on a more casual level??..etc.

I see. I was being a bit sarcastic on the bit about being exited, but that was the explanation I was loking for, thanks.