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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2006-10-20, 05:23
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AquaX 
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Lending money to my EX
I just got home now and I got a call from my ex shes been trying to call all day.
We broke up because she was supposed to move out of the province because her dad was sending her to bootcamp, I decided to breakup with her so I didn't get to attached (It was one of the hardest things I've ever done). She then found out I started dating again and she was supposed to move this month but she ended up running away and now she is in the USA.
She called today and she was crying we talked about everything and she asked if I could lend her some money. I said I would I just dont know how much.... She kept telling me that she misses me and to be honest I do miss her... but I feel really guilty because I have feelings for the girl that I am with now. I was thinking of lending her about $750CAD and wiring it to her through western union but I don't know what to do really I'm going to have to make a decision fast I don't want anything to happen to her I want her to stay somewhere safe tonight and possibley get her back in canada, problem is I cant get a hold of my GF to talk about this with her and I dont have much time.... DAMN  If you were in my situation what would you do, I've been with my ex for about a year and my current GF its been about 2 months.
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#2
 2006-10-20, 05:46
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dodging the rain and tractors
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Re: Lending money to my EX
Firstly, only send her a third of what you can afford and second, make sure you tell your present g/f what you are doing and why.
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#3
 2006-10-20, 05:52
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genericwittyusername 
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Re: Lending money to my EX
she probably wants it for drugs
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#4
 2006-10-21, 04:56
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AquaX 
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Re: Lending money to my EX
I ended up sending her $450. I don't expect her to pay me back, I'm just happy she's safe now. She got a motel room and shes gona take a greyhound back...
Now I told my GF about this and she seems worried that I'm going to break up with her, but I don't plan on it, bah now I have to do something that will make my GF feel better damn im really gona be broke  There goes half my pay. :P
Hmm what can I get my GF, I was thinking of taking her out for dinner and then to a concert and then taking her to the park to look at the stars.
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#5
 2006-10-21, 05:27
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stab 
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Re: Lending money to my EX
Man... you shouldn't be playing with girls.
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#6
 2006-10-21, 05:29
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AquaX 
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Re: Lending money to my EX
quote:Originally posted by stab:
Man... you shouldn't be playing with girls.
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#7
 2006-10-21, 05:35
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dodging the rain and tractors
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Re: Lending money to my EX
Of course your girlfreind thinks you want to break up with her. But if you had not told her and she found out somehow...
Anyway now is the time you'll realise wether you do want to remain with your g/f...by her reaction.
I would advise that you don't try and make your g/f feel loved by spending money on her.Either she realises that you did a decent and noble thing and that you want her and not your ex or she needs to take a hike/a trip over your knee.
*too early in the morning for grammar.
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#8
 2006-10-21, 07:19
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Re: Lending money to my EX
What kind of immature bitch runs away and then has to rely on others to give her the money necessary to come crawling back?
She should have shut the fuck up and gone to bootcamp, it sounds like it would do the dumb bitch alot of good.
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