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 #1 
Old 2006-10-19, 20:38
Captain WTF Captain WTF is offline
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Default Getting hit on by gay guys

o.0

Is this normal? They keep trying to "convert" me...
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Old 2006-10-19, 20:45
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Just respectfully tell them you're not interested. Put yourself in their position, you have one question to ask before going up to someone, "will they like me?", they have two. "Will they like me?", but before that, they have to ask, "Are they gay/bisexual?". It's a really tough situation. Just tell them, "I'm not gay, sorry, I'm sure you're a really nice person though." or something like that.
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Old 2006-10-19, 20:45
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Just.. just relax. Go with the flow, man..
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Old 2006-10-19, 20:46
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Ask them to suck your cock, a mouth's a mouth right?
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Old 2006-10-19, 20:48
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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I intentionally act "mysterious" (possibly gay) in front of gay guys and they dont pay any attention to me
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Old 2006-10-19, 20:48
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It never used to bother me, but now it fucking pisses me off that ONLY gay guys hit on me, and never women. And I know I'm not gay looking, I don't have a gay voice or give off a gay vibe.
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Old 2006-10-19, 20:49
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quote:Originally posted by twilightki:

Just respectfully tell them you're not interested. Put yourself in their position, you have one question to ask before going up to someone, "will they like me?", they have two. "Will they like me?", but before that, they have to ask, "Are they gay/bisexual?". It's a really tough situation. Just tell them, "I'm not gay, sorry, I'm sure you're a really nice person though." or something like that.

That's the thing! They won't fucking give up. Whenever they're around they're always winking at me and the like.

I already told them "No." I was nice but firm about it. No luck.
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Old 2006-10-19, 20:49
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I've wanted to experience the gay scene for A while now. To cut the concept short, as I am lazy, I want to experience what it feels like to be a woman in such social situations, in order to better tailor myself to their wants and relate.

You know what I mean. I'm fried.
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Old 2006-10-19, 20:53
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quote:Originally posted by Captain WTF:

That's the thing! They won't fucking give up. Whenever they're around they're always winking at me and the like.

I already told them "No." I was nice but firm about it. No luck.

Then you know what a woman feels like. Always notice how women get offended when guys hit on them all the time? It's fucking annoying. (btw, I'm not a woman, but I know how it feels to walk away and know someone is looking at my ass.....dont ask.....).

Ok, if they keep flirting with you, be rude. Swear, insult, ect......

You can also give them a dirty look, then walk away muttering "fag...". Trust me, they won't look at you again.

[This message has been edited by twilightki (edited 10-19-2006).]
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Old 2006-10-19, 20:57
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quote:Originally posted by twilightki:

Then you know what a woman feels like. Always notice how women get offended when guys hit on them all the time? It's fucking annoying. (btw, I'm not a woman, but I know how it feels to walk away and know someone is looking at my ass.....dont ask.....).

Ok, if they keep flirting with you, be rude. Swear, insult, ect......

You can also give them a dirty look, then walk away muttering "fag...". Trust me, they won't look at you again.



That's the other thing! I got to a very liberal school. If word got out that I was mean to gays then, all the women would take offense. It's not cool.

Some people probably turn gay here just for the social benefits.
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Old 2006-10-19, 21:04
y4m4 y4m4 is offline
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Just another case of a straight guy assuming that because a gay guy is talking to you that he is hitting on you.
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Old 2006-10-19, 21:06
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If things get bad, you can say they're sexually harassing you. If it's really not bothering you that much, it's not a big deal.
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Old 2006-10-19, 21:13
kappelpie kappelpie is offline
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Dude just imagine how they feel trying to see if you're into it or not. I've considered myself bi for a while but I almost never hit on girls. The few times that I did I was totally freaked out about them getting uncomfortable or being forcefully rejected. I mean it's always worked out for me, but testing the waters to see if someone can go both ways is a scary thing. Give them some credit, you can always just say no.
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Old 2006-10-19, 21:56
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quote:Originally posted by y4m4:

Just another case of a straight guy assuming that because a gay guy is talking to you that he is hitting on you.

This is full-blown hitting, asshole.

I didn't think it was that big of a deal until today when they actually saught me out to do it.

It must suck to be a woman.
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Old 2006-10-19, 21:57
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This may sound off topic at first glance, but my uncle owned a funeral home when I was a kid, and when I was old enough to understand what that meant I was terrorfied of it. Of course, as soon as I was 13 I was working for him at the home as a summer job. I would see the corpses and it would scare me because they were all fucked up and rotty, but eventually I trained myself to understand that the fucked up and rotty can't effect me, even if I stand real close. Even if I touch it usually. It really needs to get inside to make me sick.

My point being, getting hit on by a gay guy wont hurt you, nor will it make you gay. Getting close to, standing next to, being flirted at by, or even dancing or whatever with a gay man will not effect your heterosexual statis. The only thing that will cause you to be gay is have a dick in your ass.

Cheers,

Lost
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Old 2006-10-19, 21:59
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...And to be fair, I guess I don't look totally and utterly straight.

http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g8/PiePirate/000_0314.jpg
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Old 2006-10-19, 22:04
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Woah yeah you look like a girl. And to be honest, I thought you were a girl when I first saw you posting. You're very feminine.
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Old 2006-10-19, 22:07
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quote:Originally posted by stab:

Woah yeah you look like a girl. And to be honest, I thought you were a girl when I first saw you posting. You're very feminine.

Not really. You have to act the part to be feminine. But, my eyes...

My eyes are too ethereal for their own good

[This message has been edited by Captain WTF (edited 10-19-2006).]
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Old 2006-10-19, 22:39
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quote:Originally posted by Captain WTF:

...And to be fair, I guess I don't look totally and utterly straight.

http: //i52.phot obucket.com/albums/g8/PiePirate/000_0314.jpg (http: //i52.phot obucket.co m/albums/g 8/PiePirat e/000_0314 .jpg)



lmfao.

You deserve to get hit on by fags dude.
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Old 2006-10-19, 23:33
fallingupstairs11 fallingupstairs11 is offline
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for a short time i had a gay stalker sorta

like he called me all the time and txted me constantly cuase he thought i was bi

my ex thought it would be funny to give him my number
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Old 2006-10-19, 23:37
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quote:Originally posted by Chronos139:



lmfao.

You deserve to get hit on by fags dude.
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Old 2006-10-19, 23:50
XHippie HunterX XHippie HunterX is offline
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hey baby, you wanna go back to my place? Have some really hawt kinky sex? Wait- YOU ARE A FUCKING GUY?!?!?! WHERE DID YOU TUCK IT?
 #23 
Old 2006-10-20, 01:20
Captain WTF Captain WTF is offline
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So, any more mature responses or are we done here?
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Old 2006-10-20, 01:23
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wow you look very young! and i guess you'll just have to get used to the gays hitting on you, it happens to all of us at some point.
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Old 2006-10-20, 01:25
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quote:Originally posted by suissemista:

wow you look very young! and i guess you'll just have to get used to the gays hitting on you, it happens to all of us at some point.

Yeah, I'm 14. I really have no problem with gays, but like anyone else, if they try to force something on me, I despise them.
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Old 2006-10-20, 01:41
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Just roll with it. What's the big deal? I'm gay, but if a straight girl would hit on me (and a few have), I would be flattered that someone thought I was attractive and politely tell them I was gay- in your case, straight.

Also, if you've already told them, they're probably just fucking with you to see you get uncomfortable. That can be pretty damn amusing.
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Old 2006-10-20, 01:59
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quote:Originally posted by neato bandito:

Just roll with it. What's the big deal? I'm gay, but if a straight girl would hit on me (and a few have), I would be flattered that someone thought I was attractive and politely tell them I was gay- in your case, straight.

Also, if you've already told them, they're probably just fucking with you to see you get uncomfortable. That can be pretty damn amusing.

Yeah, they are pretty funny, which leads me to this: They're extremely racist. It's funny, because they hang out with two black lesbians who have practically had their race put down.

All the gays in my school think they have absolute power. I bet half of them aren't even really gay.
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Old 2006-10-20, 02:14
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http://tinyurl.com/y92myt

Are you sure your not gay?
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Old 2006-10-20, 02:17
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That's your problem. Cut your hair and they won't think you're trying to be gay.
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Old 2006-10-20, 02:36
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quote:Originally posted by Some Idiot:

http://tinyurl.com/y92myt

Are you sure your not gay?

HA! Lol! And twilightki, since when does long hair mean you're gay?
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Old 2006-10-20, 02:52
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quote:Originally posted by Captain WTF:

So, any more mature responses or are we done here?

You look 13.
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Old 2006-10-20, 02:56
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quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

You look 13.

I'm 14, thanks. My family is very young looking and very short.

It may seem like a bad thing now, but, it'll be worth it when I'm older.
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Old 2006-10-20, 03:32
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quote:Originally posted by twilightki:

That's your problem. Cut your hair and they won't think you're trying to be gay.

How many actual gay men have you seen with long hair? I'll say to none. The ones with long hair are transsexual or transgender or whatever homosexual buzz-term they consider themselves.

And you're friggen 14, you've got to be kidding me. I am dumbfounded. This thread and all of your posts have lost all credibility
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Old 2006-10-20, 03:40
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quote:Originally posted by Captain WTF:

...And to be fair, I guess I don't look totally and utterly straight.

http: //i52.phot obucket.com/albums/g8/PiePirate/000_0314.jpg (http: //i52.phot obucket.co m/albums/g 8/PiePirat e/000_0314 .jpg)

Capitain WTF, I like your shirt man.

But you seriously need 2 cut your hair. The only way your allowed to have long hair is if your over 35, or a rockstar.

anyways just some advice to get the fags off u.

(btw where are you at that has gay kids everywhere?)

peace,
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Old 2006-10-20, 03:40
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quote:Originally posted by y4m4:

How many actual gay men have you seen with long hair? I'll say to none. The ones with long hair are transsexual or transgender or whatever homosexual buzz-term they consider themselves.

And you're friggen 14, you've got to be kidding me. I am dumbfounded. This thread and all of your posts have lost all credibility

Lost credibility? What does age have to do with anything?

I am what I am, I'm not going to lie about my age because an asshole can't respect it. What do you want me to do, man? It's age, the only way it'll go away is if I wait.
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Old 2006-10-20, 03:41
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quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:

Capitain WTF, I like your shirt man.

But you seriously need 2 cut your hair. The only way your allowed to have long hair is if your over 35, or a rockstar.

anyways just some advice to get the fags off u.

(btw where are you at that has gay kids everywhere?)

peace,

Louisville, Kentucky. There's a big gay scene around here. But, as I said, some of them are just in it because it's the next "cool" thing.

[This message has been edited by Captain WTF (edited 10-20-2006).]
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Old 2006-10-20, 04:56
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quote:Originally posted by Captain WTF:

o.0

Is this normal? They keep trying to "convert" me...



Quit dressing up like a whore and get some bass in your voice bitch. Maybe then they wont think your a little schoolgirl... twink

[This message has been edited by 057list (edited 10-20-2006).]
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Old 2006-10-20, 05:20
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Man, I've been hit on by fags before....It's a really disturbing, alien feeling....knowing that some guy within a few feet of you wants to fuck you.....so disturbing...

It happened to me a few times when I was like 19-21.....had a fake and went into bars all the time.....at first I was revolted and was just very short and abrupt with them, acted disinterested....pretty much doing what a girl does when she blows a guy off (rejection, not BJ).

BUT then I had a revelation....I could get free drinks out of this. I never once played into the gay thing, I never said or even insinuated I was gay or tried to fake gay mannerisms.....

-If I was at a bar though by myself just chillin and a homo came and started a convo with me, I would just play dumb and act like I didn't realize he was a fag hitting on me...just pretended he was a nice stranger striking up a conversation....as long as the convo never turned onto a blatantly gay course.....then I'd have to stop it there...but usually I'd just chug my drink real quick and act like I was thinking about leaving....then the homo offers to buy you a drink...You can comfortably keep this going until they start making sexual gay references.....then it's time to say "have a nice day, thanks for the drinks, but I gotta go meet my girlfriend. Bye."

Streetjusticeforall

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I intentionally act "mysterious" (possibly gay) in front of gay guys and they dont pay any attention to me



Why do you act mysterious/borderline gay? Why do you want them to notice you? sounds like someone wants to experiment.....FAG! maybe not now, but within a few years I bet you'll be a closet-case.
 
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