So my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me. She is overseas, and will be coming back Feb next year. I know that there is a big chance we will get back together when she returns, but I don't know If I want to. I love her and all that stuff. But I don't know, there is just this feeling, I can't really explain it. I don't know what to do. I want to get over her, but I don't. I need some sort of help.

Time is the only thing that can heal you, but being self destructive may take your mind off it for the meantime.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



Time is the only thing that can heal you, but being self destructive may take your mind off it for the meantime.

agreed. i suggest drug use.



P.S. not really.

Seriously, dont get back with her, forget about her. You'll find another girl/girls who are just as good if not better than her.

I never thought I'd find someone after my girly of 2 and a half years left me, but here we are.......... with me being an absolute spank head nut case who drinks heavily and takes enough drugs to kill a small horse.

I'm not sure where I was going with this.

Oh right. Don't do drugs!

:P

seriously though, you'll find someone new, and someone better, who's more compatible with you. I haven't yet, but I know i will.

Hey Garfunkel where abouts in Sydney you live?

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



Time is the only thing that can heal you, but being self destructive may take your mind off it for the meantime.

Uh.. Yes, self destructive behaiviour *MAY* take your mind off it.. untill you wake up the next day and feel even worse.



That's why I'd really advise against drugs, especially 'happy' drugs like ex. Sure, they're fucking awesome while you're on them, but the next day you're going to be like:

"OH NOES!! MY SPECIAL SEROTONINZORS! WHERE DOETH IT GOETH?!"



So..no. Drugs wont help in the long run.



It's shit. I know. There's no way to make the pain go away. There's no way to get over her super fast.

And keeping hopes that you'll get back together is a really bad idea, because you probably wont.



All you can do is keep on living. Dont question it or ask why you must keep on struggling, just fucking do it.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



Time is the only thing that can heal you, but being self destructive may take your mind off it for the meantime.

Alchol FTW, just don't get carried away with it, and don't drink alone. Bearing this in mind, drink until your liver is a mass of rock-hard crystal.

Wow, two years of your life you'll never get back. Seriously, why two fuckin years?