IT'S FUCKING IMPOSSIBLE!!

At least to me. These two chicks are both so very fine. One is my girlfriend, the other is this other girl. And I'm just so fucking indecisive.

I've tried weighing out the pros and cons of each....but that got me nowhere.

How have you gone about choosing one of two (or more) girls in the past?

I've never been that lucky.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

I've never been that lucky.

ok, you don't know what to chose, but one IS ALREADY YOUR GF. Stay with her you silly twat

quote:Originally posted by dark-easterbunny:

ok, you don't know what to chose, but one IS ALREADY YOUR GF. Stay with her you silly twat

i agree

why is this the obvious choice?

Because it’s the choice you've already made.

It's a choice I made in the past. Now, though, we have a different situation.

How is your relationship with your girlfriend? If it's awesome, then don't mess with it. If it's not so awesome, then it's up to you whether or not you're willing to put the effort in to fix it. It's not really fair to your girlfriend that you want another girl.

Well, my relationship with my girlfriend is fine. We get along well, the sex is great. Everything is cool, we never even fight.

But sometimes I just feel like my relationship isn't all it could be. But at the same time, I could be expecting something from my girlfriend that she just can't give. Maybe what I'm looking for is not something to be gained from a relationship at all.

quote:Originally posted by Geenie:

Well, my relationship with my girlfriend is fine. We get along well, the sex is great. Everything is cool, we never even fight.

But sometimes I just feel like my relationship isn't all it could be. But at the same time, I could be expecting something from my girlfriend that she just can't give. Maybe what I'm looking for is not something to be gained from a relationship at all.

You seem pretty normal to me. Have a conversation w/ your gf about other people you'd date if you were single. And when you do it's like a release and you'll generally feel better about this whole thing.

quote:Originally posted by Geenie:

But sometimes I just feel like my relationship isn't all it could be. But at the same time, I could be expecting something from my girlfriend that she just can't give. Maybe what I'm looking for is not something to be gained from a relationship at all.

I think you hit the nail. We all doubt our relationship now and then, think there could be more. But seen how you can't give any downsides to it, i suggest you stick with this girl and try to find what's missin elsewhere (as in not in girls, cause girls solve a lot less then you think)

Stay with your GF, My brother made the mistake of going with the other girl and well now he is GFless.

You think you have it bad?? I have to choose between two cousins...and their best friend.

P.S.- Their not my cousinsm they are my friends cousins.

What about three different girls? They are all friends and they like you, but you don't want to hurt any of them?

WHAT DO YOU DO!?

quote:Originally posted by dark-easterbunny:

ok, you don't know what to chose, but one IS ALREADY YOUR GF. Stay with her you silly twat

QFT.

You want what you don't have, not neccesarily because it's better, but because it's different and.. you don't have it right now. If you're generally happy with your gf right now, stay with her. If you're not, then go for the new girl.

Flip a coin and shut up.

Um... who says you have to choose? There's nothing more badass than having a mistress.

quote:Originally posted by KooshBlood:

There's nothing more badass than having a motorcycle.

Don't cheat on your girlfriend, asshole.

honestly who ever has the biggest boobies.

Same fucking thing happened to me.

It's tearing my heart out, but I've made my choice.

There's an old saying:

"Better the the devil you know"

The pros are well weighted with your current gf mate...you get good sex, your in a strong relationship...why give up all that? You don't know how the other girl is in those terms.

Mind you...if your gf and her are on good terms, suggest menage a trois.