ok, there's this girl in my physics class (both of us are 12th grade), and she's mad hot (really pretty). i've always liked her for a couple years... liked her as in thinks shes hot, and would like to be her bf. the thing is, like, we sit on the opposite sides of the room, and we dont talk at all to eachother, were not friends, were not in any other classes together, but sometimes i see her look at me and i dont know what to do. how do I make an approach on her with out looking like some stranger/stalker/idiot? i like her a lot. i dunno if she likes me, how can i tell if she does/ soesnt? - good advice would be greatly appreciated.... thank you.



[This message has been edited by LiquidSniper (edited 10-17-2006).]

"Hi, I'd like to take you out for dinner --how about this friday at 8pm."

take her out for dinner

then back to your place

then fuck her



works everytime for me.

My advice is, to go talk to her without having any plans in mind. Don't go over there to become her boyfriend (you don't even know her yet, but that's besides the point.). Go and talk to her because you really wanne get to know her.

Don't be a suck up, that only works in movies. Talk like you would do to your best friend at first, ask her to do something after school after you've talked to her the last 2-3 classes, and it seems to work.

You don't 'like' her. You want to fuck her, theres a difference.

"we dont talk at all to eachother"

Self-pwn.

If you want to tell if she likes you, follow her home after school, grab her from being and say in a low voice "IF YOU SCREAM I WILL FUCKING SLIT YOUR THROAT". Then start ramming your cock into a hole of your choosing.

If she screams then she doesn't like it and you should slice her throat and cut her into chunks and bury her in your back garden.

If she doesnt scream, let her go and keep doing it every day till she phones the cops.

quote:Originally posted by -Mephisto-:

You don't 'like' her. You want to fuck her, theres a difference.

"we dont talk at all to eachother"

Self-pwn.

If you want to tell if she likes you, follow her home after school, grab her from being and say in a low voice "IF YOU SCREAM I WILL FUCKING SLIT YOUR THROAT". Then start ramming your cock into a hole of your choosing.

If she screams then she doesn't like it and you should slice her throat and cut her into chunks and bury her in your back garden.

If she doesnt scream, let her go and keep doing it every day till she phones the cops.



uhhh dude, i do like her. we dont talk because were on the opposite sides of the room, and i dont hang out w/ her because we were just never friends. i would like to be her bf. i DO like her.

What's wrong with looking like an idiot?

Why would she think you're a stalker?

What about lunchtime?

quote:Originally posted by Aseren:

My advice is, to go talk to her without having any plans in mind. Don't go over there to become her boyfriend (you don't even know her yet, but that's besides the point.). Go and talk to her because you really wanne get to know her.

Don't be a suck up, that only works in movies. Talk like you would do to your best friend at first, ask her to do something after school after you've talked to her the last 2-3 classes, and it seems to work.



i like your idea, its just that, if shes with her two friends (ones a guy but i think hes gay, seriously) and i just come up to her, dont you think shed think im wierd? or be like "uhhh ooookkkaaayyy" and walk away? PLEASE im desperate for her. ithanks for your advice, i like it

or should i just wait for a dance/ prom to ask her out? idk. i dont have a car right now, i mean, i could borrow my dad's lex (Lexus). but i dont wanna bribe her into goin out with me.

quote:Originally posted by gator:

"Hi, I'd like to take you out for dinner --how about this friday at 8pm."

take her out for dinner

then back to your place

then fuck her



works everytime for me.

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I don't think this would work at all in a high school situation. At least where I'm from.



Don't go out of your way to talk to her, or else it will look obvious and desperate. If you guys are ever doing any labs, or expirements, try to make small talk with her. Make her laugh. If you're funny that is, if you aren't then I wouldn't make yourself look dumb.

Just wait for the right time, you guys will eventually run into each other. And that's when you try to get her interested in you.

quote:Originally posted by Chinese Food52:

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Don't go out of your way to talk to her, or else it will look obvious and desperate. If you guys are ever doing any labs, or expirements, try to make small talk with her. Make her laugh. If you're funny that is, if you aren't then I wouldn't make yourself look dumb.

Just wait for the right time, you guys will eventually run into each other. And that's when you try to get her interested in you.

ya, i like where youre going with this. though we already have our own groups for labs. i also like the lunch idea, or in the halls. should i carry her shit (books, stuff...)?

Argh...just bloody go and talk to her! It's really not that difficult. Hang around after class and catch her when she's going out the door. Start walking her to wherever she needs to go, strike up a conversation, get noticed.

It's not hard at all.

quote:Originally posted by LiquidSniper:



i like your idea, its just that, if shes with her two friends (ones a guy but i think hes gay, seriously) and i just come up to her, dont you think shed think im wierd? or be like "uhhh ooookkkaaayyy" and walk away? PLEASE im desperate for her. ithanks for your advice, i like it

Ah, you're lucky. The way I see it, you need to talk to the guy friend. Try and befriend him, it's way easier and no pressure. Eventually you'll get to hang out with him during lunchbreaks, this way you'll get to talk to your girl without actually having to approach her, which is the single best way.

quote:Originally posted by Ouster:

It's not hard at all.

But it is,the science teacher thought he had a gun down there

talk to her.

sitting on opposite sides of the room is no excuse for not talking.

and just because she looked at you once or twice, doesnt mean she likes you. think about it. how many people do you look at in one day who you dont like?

dumbfuck.

Ask her how much force in newtons it would take to put your dick in her ass.

quote:Originally posted by NiGhT PrOwLeR:

But it is,the science teacher thought he had a gun down there



I lol'd.

Just ask her for help in the class.

Just ask her one day something like, "How do I..." or "What was our homework?" or even "Do you think this class is...?"

Durring a lab approach her and tell her she really looks like she knows what she's doing. Ask her for some help and go on from there.

That's what I did; also in Physics.

quote:Originally posted by LiquidSniper:



uhhh dude, i do like her.

No, you find her attractive and want to fuck her.

quote:Originally posted by LiquidSniper:

we dont talk because were on the opposite sides of the room, and i dont hang out w/ her because we were just never friends.

How do you know she just isn't some total bitch if you've never talked? I've had things for chicks before, talked to them abit before I went to ask them out, but half the time I didn't bother asking them out because I thought they were complete cunts.

quote:Originally posted by LiquidSniper:

i would like to be her bf.

Just start talking to her dude, it's all ya can do for now. If she wants to know why you're suddenly talking to her for no reason some line like "Since this is the final year I just thought I'd get to know a few more people." I dunno, something like that. But the best idea has been try and get in with her friends, then in with her group and what not.

I feel for you dude.

It's pretty obvious your question is how can I be confident enough to ask her out.

Well for you, i'd suggest you do something else. Here comes a step-by-step instruction, so if your not prepared to make this happen then you will NEVER make it happen.

1. It's pretty obvious she will not make the first move, so you will have to make things happen.

2. Start making eye contact with her, and all the other hot girls. Honestly, strong eye contact conveys integrity. Dude don't keep looking at her, for example your walking towards each other, just look her in the eyes. If you feel you're upto it smile or give a head nod.

Then after a couple days and you're feelin it. You get that Zomgz I want the next step. Time to confabulate. Pretty simply you just say Hi and continue with whatever.

If you got that far, well done. She knows you exist.

Godamn, if you actually make it that far then you should be proud. From here, you'll probably notice you could then find out her name, asker her whats up, and jog on.

If she is definately a girl you want to date then great. I'll share some more if you get this far.

Now go get some lovin'

do lab groups/partners get assigned? you could work with her is you are halfway competent at physics...

When you see her next, smile at her, then build it up - so then next time you smile and say hi, then ask her how she is etc. Just don't make it obvious and spread it out over a week or so. The key is to make seeing her and having some kind of contact with her every time a routine.

start small get bigger

a smile

a hello

a quick joke

'does this smell like chloroform'

ah...

Weak.

Normally naivety makes me smile.