I have a friend (girl) that is real fine, we are good friends, talk a bit, give hugs when see eachother etc etc. But she hasnt had much luck with boyfriends recently, and I broke up with my gf a good while ago. I'm not sure, but sometimes I look at her and see that glimmer in her eye that says you know what. I am wondering what the easiest way is to find out if someone is actually willing to become a friend with benefits, preferably so that you can find out, and if they do then sweet, but if they dont, then it doesnt seem like I was serious or wanted to, so we can still be good friends.

Any advice?

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[This message has been edited by CCC (edited 10-17-2006).]

If you're that comfortable with her, why not make her your GF then?

as above

Because i dont want another girlfriend for a long while to come.

Get really drunk together. Then you can make a move. If it works, you can tell her that you really care about her, and you wanna be friends with benefits. If it doesn't you can just say you were drunk and lonely or some shit like that.

i just talked with my best friend about it .. and we agreed it was a good solution

damn, what's wrong with the straight aproach :S none of you got balls?