Ok, well heres the gist of it. I'm a 24 year old male, with a gf of about two months, who I care about very much. I love her, though it is quite soon. She's a great girl.

Well last night I was partying at a buddies, and some chick came over and started joking about all of us gangbanging her. Well, me being the joking perv I am, I said, I'll run the camera.

So I come out of the bathroom, and the door that splits the place is locked, and I see my one friend with this girl on the bed, and my other buddy watching. Well the girl says to go get the cam. So we go get the cam, taking turns running it. Well, after those two were done with her, she looks at me and says, you're next right?

Though I had said before I have a gf and would only run the cam. Well, this chick is 18, like 5'8" 120 lbs long brown hair, b cup tits hazel eyes and a nice ass. I just couldn't say no.

So anyway, I get to fucking her, the other guys join in etc, then she kicks them out so just her and I can fuck. Well we mostly talked, and it turns out this girl is cool as fuck, and into alot of the same shit as me.

Now the moral dilemma here is that I want to keep seeing her. She is fine with me having a gf, though she says it's "too bad".

Am I a piece of shit for doing this, and wanting to continue it?

Oh ya, and the part that benefits you all is once I talk to her again (tried today but got her voice mail) I will get the vid and post it on totse for your viewring pleasure.

She says she likes me as well, and emphasised that we spend more time together.

Also, don't ban me for having two accounts here, I keep this one just for things like this. I am a regular user of a few years. Some of you may be able to figure out who I am, but I ask you not to post it please, for security reasons.

You just had to screw it up...

Being in a committed relationship means you can't do things like that. You could try to juggle both, but that rarely ends well.

Since you'll keep screwing things up no matter how much I warn you, you might as well give up right now. Stay single, travelling across the country and screwing who you can.

Either that, or find a girl who will let you do these things, and still stay with you.

quote:Originally posted by new user:



Also, don't ban me for having two accounts here, I keep this one just for things like this. I am a regular user of a few years. Some of you may be able to figure out who I am, but I ask you not to post it please, for security reasons.



Because of the nature of this forum i don't mind too much if someone feels the need to use a 2nd account to disguise their identity on occasion. In fact I've done it myself once or twice. However it is considered a courtesy just to give the mods a 'heads up' via email.

And of course, any misuse, will mean that Zok or Acidmelt get to open a fresh can of 'b4Nz00R' on your sorry arse :P

We all know there is no such thing as a girl like that. They all end up getting jealous in the end.

On a side note, my gf talks about having her friend come here from ohio in november for a threesome FFM. So it can't be THAT wrong of me.

I think it would be possible to juggle both though, as long as this girl doesn't get too attached. But why should I limit myself to just one?

EDIT: yeah, sorry jack, didn't know i should advise with email, as I've had this account for a while now. And I don't want to get banned, I just got off a 2 week ban. They said I spammed SG, when in actuality I just got caught up in a mass ban by the infamous SGMasta. I didn't spam shit though, and I don't. I may post useless garbage in SG, but so does everyone else. At least mine is kinda humorous and not blatant spam.

[This message has been edited by new user (edited 10-17-2006).]

Well as long as the video is up then i see nothing wrong, except for the fact that not only would you be cheating on a girl you love, but POSTING VIDEOS ONLINE. Good luck, but I doubt it will end happily.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Because of the nature of this forum i don't mind too much if someone feels the need to use a 2nd account to disguise their identity on occasion. In fact I've done it myself once or twice.

I have to say I'm dissapointed. Why on earth would fucked-in-the-head-Jackketch-the-pirate want to hide his identity about anything?

Anywho, uh...dump your girl man. Seriously. It's clear she's just not what you want. Keep seeing this new girl, gang bang her, wear a rubber, have fun, get some stories to tell. But let this girl go. It's two months, it won't hurt that much.

That way you're free to do stupid shit like this without feeling bad at all.

quote:Originally posted by new user:

I think it would be possible to juggle both though, as long as this girl doesn't get too attached. But why should I limit myself to just one?

Sure you can juggle both for a time, but is it worth losing her when she finds out? Is it worth hurting her? Is it worth sneaking around and knowing she would be devastated if she knew? You have to think about what she wants.

All men want a nice girl to court, and a naughty one to have fun with, but the first rarely likes the second. Why don't you move to Montana, become a mormon, and take on a few wives?

Well, I don't feel too bad, and besides, my gf is great. I'm think I'm gonna continue till I get sick of one of them.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

I have to say I'm dissapointed. Why on earth would fucked-in-the-head-Jackketch-the-pirate want to hide his identity about anything?



Never for reasons of embarrassment but sometimes to protect the guilty. But it's rare and i gave away my 2nd account a year or so ago during a registration ban (i posted about it at the time).

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Never for reasons of embarrassment but sometimes to protect the guilty. But it's rare and i gave away my 2nd account a year or so ago during a registration ban (i posted about it at the time).

A registration ban eh? that would explain why i couldn't register about a year ago

i was stuck wandering the long halls of totse, full of thousands of doors, each door leading to a room with a thousand articles...

i do admit i learned alot in that time though...

quote:Originally posted by CCC:

A registration ban eh? that would explain why i couldn't register about a year ago

i was stuck wandering the long halls of totse, full of thousands of doors, each door leading to a room with a thousand articles...

i do admit i learned alot in that time though...





Yeah i had the same problem when i tried origionally.

Oh and btw to the OP:

You are a sack of shit. I hope your girlfriend cuts your balls off and feeds them to a goddamn poodle.

Shut up you smelly hippie. You are just jealous I've got two girls, when you only have two hands.

In theory, what you did was wrong. But the fact that you are going to post footage makes it oh so right.

Just make sure you post it in the new thread, with the topic "New User Fucking Hot Babe" or something really obvious like that. I don't want to miss it. This may well be the first time that Totse really delivers.

Well I am wary about posting the vid, as I may be recognized by the wrong people, but I think as long as I am careful, it will be ok. Now I just have to get ahold of the girl and get her to upload the vid and email it. I'm going to tell her it's for fappage, I just won't tell her whos. BTW I am running the cam for most of the vid, but there is a bit of me in there. Most of it is focused on her smokin hot bod.

I wouldn't date a girl that I just went down on after two other guys right infront of me.

So why did you do it? How could you possibly cheat on someone you so called 'love'?

Shit, how can you call it love if you are willing to cheat on her so simply! Man, I think you've fucked up your morals big time, well not only morals but standards. How would you react if your girl told you that she cheated on you because she couldn't resist the thought of another guys member inside of her?

I think she deserves so much better than what you have to offer her. Well, she alteast deserves to know the truth behind it all.

Good spelling/grammar, recently got a new gf, close to their mid 20's...

This is soooo Hexadeximal.

*edit* Hex also said he loved his gf, but that it felt too soon.

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quote:Originally posted by Mindless Xyzzyean:

So why did you do it? How could you possibly cheat on someone you so called 'love'?

Shit, how can you call it love if you are willing to cheat on her so simply! Man, I think you've fucked up your morals big time, well not only morals but standards. How would you react if your girl told you that she cheated on you because she couldn't resist the thought of another guys member inside of her?

I think she deserves so much better than what you have to offer her. Well, she alteast deserves to know the truth behind it all.

I have already told her I don't care who she fucks, and it's not a matter of not loving her, I do, but I understand that a person needs more than one person to satisfy them. It's just that she got pissed when I said that to her.

Oh, and this is NOT Hex, thanks for the grammar thing though. I'm not much of a regular on SG, though I post from time to time here. Mostly I lurk. I like to frequent the more academic forums.

quote:Originally posted by new user:

a person needs more than one person to satisfy them.

What the fuck is all of this bullshit? Some of you may be seen a thread of mine questioning the complexities of love, but... it seems some people a good 8 or so years older than myself still don't understand. I think you are idolising pussy, which is quite a bit sad.

How is that idolizing pussy? I like pussy. I need more than just one pussy. I love pussy, but I do not in anyway make an idol of it. I don't do anything extra, or go out of my way for it, it just comes to me.

Idolizing pussy is the exact opposite of what he's doing. If anything, he's cheapening it...But eh, All pussy gets old bro.

Honestly, the right thing to do would be to break it off with your girl. There will come a time when you find yourself more ready to deal with a serious relationship, but now obviously isnt that time. You probably could juggle them both for a while, so long as you dont piss off your side girl to the point where she feels the need to tell your girlfriend. But girls are predisposed to drama...so you're taking your chances.

This thread is useless without the vid.

Thank you SM. And as for the vid, as I said, it will be posted as soon as I can get ahold of her. It was her cam.

Haha; I'd hate to use this, but this is what I learn from kids on this forum...

Vid or it didn't happen.

Hah.

Anyways;

Listen, you clearly have an opinion and you want to do that. So what's a the point of coming to forum to hear some people agree and others disagree. It's clear that you want to juggle both, you just wanted someone to prove you right and concur on your decision.

OR you wanted to tell this sick ass story, but you needed more since it's a vices columb....

i say good for you see them both but sooner or later they will find out about eachother so be careful and hey you might get lucker and when/if they do find out they may both stay with you. good luck u lucky s.o.b

quote:Originally posted by new user:

I love her, though it is quite soon...

...Well, this chick is 18, like 5'8" 120 lbs long brown hair, b cup tits hazel eyes and a nice ass. I just couldn't say no.

Obviously you have no idea what love is. Continue, by all means, if it's what makes you happy, but don't call it love. If you were in love, you'd know why you'd have to limit yourself to just one, and you wouldn't be pissy about doing it.

useless without pics

Life's too short.

And were too young to worry about such trivial things. Just remember, everything you do now, you will learn from your mistakes.

And hopefully, in the end, when your older, you'll be a bit more mature to handle a relationship.

I sure as hell wasn't, and fucked mine up last year.

Good luck!

quote:Originally posted by new user:

Shut up you smelly hippie. You are just jealous I've got two girls, when you only have two hands.

I have three hands.

But seriously, if you really loved her, you couldn't stand even the thought of cheating on her. I'm sure you like her a great amount, but if you're cheating on her and it doesn't make you want to kill yourself for betraying her, it's not love.

I don't think what you did was right, but it's your choice, you can do what you want. But think of how it will affect your girlfriend that you supposedly 'love'. If she loves you it will devastate her, and you'll lose something that is very important to you.

You're a dirty tease by the way.

quote:Originally posted by new user:



Am I a piece of shit for doing this, and wanting to continue it?



Pretty much.

You’re in a relationship, that I'm assuming your girlfriend believes monogamous and yet your gangbanging girls on the side.

Thats pretty dickish.

-F☺rd

I call bullshit.

You cheated on your "love" with the first whore who came along. Fuck you, guy. How you can even ask if that's "wrong" is completely beyond me.

quote:Originally posted by LiQuiD_FeAR:

I wouldn't date a girl that I just went down on after two other guys right infront of me.

I concur.

quote:Originally posted by Ford Prefect:

Pretty much.

You’re in a relationship, that I'm assuming your girlfriend believes monogamous and yet your gangbanging girls on the side.

Thats pretty dickish.

-F☺rd



That sums it up, yeah...

Yeah, you're basically a piece of shit.

OP, you don't love your girlfriend. You can't love her in two months, first of all, and secondly you obviously don't give a fuck about her if you cheated on her by having sex with a girl who just took it from two other guys right before you. That's probably the most unsafe thing you could do, with regard to STIs: being the last in line for a gangbang of a girl YOU DON'T KNOW. Smart. Break up with your girlfriend for cheating on her, and then get yourself checked for STIs. What you do after that is up to you. There is no question, though, about getting checked for diseases and breaking up with your girlfriend. Do those immediately.

quote:Originally posted by new user:

Am I a piece of shit for doing this, and wanting to continue it?

uh, yes, yes you are. that's obvious, is it not? i mean, it's not going to change your mind or anything, but if you cheat on your girlfriend then yes, automatically you are a huge asshole.

This thread is useless w/o a video.

quote:Originally posted by Ford Prefect:

Pretty much.

You’re in a relationship, that I'm assuming your girlfriend believes monogamous and yet your gangbanging girls on the side.

Thats pretty dickish.

-F☺rd



Prefect Perfect.

dude,i find what your doing pretty fucking piece-of-shittish.ive tried it...and somehow shit will connect its self out.

"nobody knows nobody"

is bullshit,i believe everyone is connected to everyone somehow.some alot slimmer then others...but still connected.

my attempt was with someone three towns over but it still connected.

Well, no point in hiding it, it was me. Not only that but she somehow found this thread, and now she knows. I feel like shit. I don't even know why I did it. You were right tzar, I'm a moron. I hurt this girl for nothing.

And for whoever said i cant love after two months, you have no idea the situation. And as for STDs I used a condom, as did everyone else, moron.

I really don't know why I feel compelled to fuck up every good thing that comes along in my life. It's a horrible fucking pattern.

She didn't break up with me, though I think things will be different now, and I wonder how long it will last before this eats her up.

I was gonna leave, but I love her, and I don't want to hurt her anymore, and she told me to stay. I guess we're gonna try and work through all this. Fuck I'm stupid.

yeah, and so that means no vid for you guys either, since I won't be talking to her again. sorry to disappoint ya. and sorry to have hurt my girl.

I feel so depressed now. I always fuck shit up.

Cheer up, mate. Learn your lesson, go into damage control, and keep yourself from feeling too down. It's just another stupid thing, and we only learn in life by doing stupid things.

quote:Originally posted by arquin:

Good spelling/grammar, recently got a new gf, close to their mid 20's...

This is soooo Hexadeximal.

*edit* Hex also said he loved his gf, but that it felt too soon.



Excuse me? I've been over in My God. And for fuck's sake, you should know I'm not the type to run a train on some girl. I really do love my Nessy. :P

What The Fuck Am i Doing in this Forum?

newuser only fucks fat bitches or really ugly skanky trailer trash, believe me I know this guy like a book.

Cheater.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

Yeah, you're basically a piece of shit.

I have only read about half the posts so this may be a repeat of another comment but dude you are playing a VERY dangerous game. It's not very often that juggling 2 partners works and when it fails it FAILS.

My suggestion would be you pick one of the two before you lose both and if you have any decency you should stick with your current girlfriend as the other will probably drop you like a hot potatoe at some point. I mean if shes more than happy with you cheating on someone with her she will have no qualms in doing the same to you.

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quote:Originally posted by Mr.Planters:

What The Fuck Am i Doing in this Forum?

QFT what the FUCK

Lets consider the facts.

You met a girl through being the videocamera for a porno style gangbang.

She fucked your mates before she fucked you.

Now you wanna take her home to mum cos she has the same interests as you - beer and sex.

ummm wtf?

oh yeh but post the vid