Its 5:51am and somehow marriage comes to my mind. Why the hell should I get married? I have to date a girl for a few years, buy her shit, make sure that shes happy even when im not. Really just bending over backwards for someone when you already have a busy agenda of your own. All for what? She lets you stick your penis in her vagina. Woman control sex and it will always be this way. Just the thought of doing all this shit for sex and a "companion" just seems so damn pointless. 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce in the US. Thats 50%. The day you say "I do" you have a 50% chance of being divorced in 5 years or less.

What if things go sour? Your ass will be kicked out the door with a suitcase. Hopefully you dont get fucked at the divorce hearing but you will. Shes going to get half of everything you worked so hard for. Shes going to get the house,half of the money from your bank account, and god forbid you were really stupid and let her talk you into kids, child support. Say good bye to saving any money for the next 18 years. If shes nice shell leave it at that, but most woman like to get in the last "fuck you" so they might throw in a nice story on how you "abused" her emotionally during the divorce. I personally know a man in jail right now, serving a 7 year sentence because his ex claimed he molested thier daughter. One of the nicest guys I ever met. He loved those kids more than she ever did.

Im not saying everyone woman is like this. I guess I just dont see any positives to getting married. You were also warned this was a rant before you opened it, so no complaining.

Unfortunately the claim that a partner has abused a child has become the 'Nuclear weapon' of divorce proceedings.

Any woman (or man) who, knowing it to be false,makes such an accusation against a former spouse should go to prison for many years. There are few accusations that are more harmful or destructive and perjury in this matter should also carry a mandatory jail sentence.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Unfortunately the claim that a partner has abused a child has become the 'Nuclear weapon' of divorce proceedings.

Any woman (or man) who, knowing it to be false,makes such an accusation against a former spouse should go to prison for many years. There are few accusations that are more harmful or destructive and perjury in this matter should also carry a mandatory jail sentence.

It really is sad. The guy I know was a great family man, always good to his kids, worked hard, the whole deal. But was his wife ever the selfish bitch. All she did was claim he molested their kids, and the judge wasnt even interested in his side of the story. Hes in jail, and pretty much everything he had owned before going in is gone. The house,cars,motorcycle,4wheelers. Basically when he gets out of jail, hed have the assets equivilant to that of a 19yr old moving out of his/her parents house, except hell have worse credit.

These are only a couple of reasons I plan on never marrying or fathering children.

You are looking for the wrong things from a relationship, it's about more than just sex. Also, this is why my loyalty is enforced on pain of death. If you backstab me your ass is going to get shot and end up at the bottom of the ocean strapped to a few cinderblocks.

I hate to be cynical about this whole argument ,



But as you were saying that women tend to use the molestation as a "nuclear weapon" as it was refered to some where . I think this is true i knew a guy a brilliant musician who loved his kids to bits but his wife was ... she was ... well there was something quite defective in her behaviour .

Long story shot she tried to get him convicted of child molestation ... I never want to witness a full grown man break down to tears again in my life.

So i agree i think that women are favoured in the courts as far as separation and childeren are concerned. The Male voice that began to speak up (In England anyway) was Fathers for justice.

I think that the protest was fair but there was a lot of dirt being thrown at them for some considerable time . The main aim of this slander , from my eyes , was to portray this organisation as nothing but slobbish middle aged men who didnt care about thier childeren and simply wanted to exact revenge upon thier partners.

A little piece of me died when this television show aired disrupting thier credibility when they had fought for so much publicity.

Before this gets into a moral debate on gender equality ethics i will end it lol .

But true enough i for one am dissatisfied with the somewhat apparent if not blatant favourability towards women in child custody cases

quote:Originally posted by Cloaked Dagger:

Also, this is why my loyalty is enforced on pain of death. If you backstab me your ass is going to get shot and end up at the bottom of the ocean strapped to a few cinderblocks.

Agreed. In a relationship I'm horrifically loyal. However, I do expect the same courtesy to be extended to me by my partner. If it is not, then you shall be..damaged.

I don't know...I think being married is pretty cool! I always have a date for the weekend and I never have to open jars by myself or lift heavy stuff.:P

And if my husband and I were to separate for some reason...I wouldn't ever accuse him of something he didn't do.

quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:

I don't know...I think being married is pretty cool! I always have a date for the weekend and I never have to open jars by myself or lift heavy stuff.:P

And if my husband and I were to separate for some reason...I wouldn't ever accuse him of something he didn't do.

I've read many of your posts in the past defending marriage. I guess you can consider yourself lucky that you have a good mate. When I look at some of the woman in my area and how they act, treat others, etc. It just gives me a disgusted feeling. THESE people are my options for a life partner? I think I'll stay away just so I can say I wasnt responsible for continuing their gene pool.

I'm getting married in a couple years and I'm happy about it. We're a team. We always have someone to help when either of us have a problem, and we both put the other person first. When it comes to sex, neither person is in control. She doesn't hold sex against me, cause she has no reason too. To have someone who actually gives a shit about you and will be with you until you die is a wonderful thing.