How do you deal with that?

What do you do when they say "Well, I don't like him, but don't touch him. I mean, you can, I would just be sad... but if you want to, go for it."

Or "I know you really liked him... but he's a pathological liar. You really can't trust him... but maybe he's different with you. Just know he's lied to me hundreds of times."

I've tried to be friends with this girl, but she drives me crazy when she does shit like that. Now she's pissed at me, for hooking up with that guy. I've been warned to avoid her, but we hang out in the same places so it's kind of hard. And she can be really fun... I just don't know. Before the night was even over she ran around telling everybody what a bitch I was, and it's getting old. How do you deal with that?

firekitty!! my good friend who gave me some good advice, ( it worked by the way, i always keep water by the bed now, lol)so ill do the same for u. Beat the bitch senseless, then laugh at her when shes finally able to show her face in public. in reality im not sure, as ive had this prob before and didnt know what to do, however i just did what i told u, not a good idea in high school, parents, principl, etc. luckily my bi-polar and other shit makes it easier for me to get outta situations like that, lol.

maybe what she's saying is true, and you don't like hearing the truth?

I honestly don't know. Do some background checks:P ask friends that know both of them, and see which one of them lies. Or maybe you already know yourself? Perhaps you do. Gut feelings kitty ol' gal. Good luck.

all i can say is: RESIST MANIPULATION

AT ALL COSTS.

look at my fred in sg http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum3/HTML/293240.html



do whatever it takes to resist manipulation. IF that means killing, them by any means, do it. Manipulation is evil, and u must ward your self from evil.

Just reply to everything she says with monosyllables while staring blankly at her.

Her:"You shouldn't date him."

You:"Oh?" (Return to what you're doing)

The truth? Woman have no idea what the hell they want. Its supposed to be our job to figure it out. Theyre clueless and we're all idiots.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

How do you deal with that?

What do you do when they say "Well, I don't like him, but don't touch him. I mean, you can, I would just be sad... but if you want to, go for it."

Or "I know you really liked him... but he's a pathological liar. You really can't trust him... but maybe he's different with you. Just know he's lied to me hundreds of times."

I've tried to be friends with this girl, but she drives me crazy when she does shit like that. Now she's pissed at me, for hooking up with that guy. I've been warned to avoid her, but we hang out in the same places so it's kind of hard. And she can be really fun... I just don't know. Before the night was even over she ran around telling everybody what a bitch I was, and it's getting old. How do you deal with that?

I have absolutely no idea what the fuck you just said.

Destroy them all.

No really, I have nothing to add, except that maybe your friend is fucked in the head.

She clearly is gunning for his cock, she is gonna make a beeline for him. Theres only one thing to do...kill her. failing that stay calm and collected, ring me and I'll bump her for £5,500 ono.

What is with this shit all of a sudden?

Every bitch on totse now that yoyobek has stopped making threads like this has tried to step up to the plate and take over.

Jesus, everything that fucking happens in your life does not need to be discussed here you whiney bitches.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

What is with this shit all of a sudden?

Every bitch on totse now that yoyobek has stopped making threads like this has tried to step up to the plate and take over.

Jesus, everything that fucking happens in your life does not need to be discussed here you whiney bitches.

Shut up. This place is for discussion, and advice.

Manipulation is really annoying, steer clear of that girl.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

What is with this shit all of a sudden?

Every bitch on totse now that yoyobek has stopped making threads like this has tried to step up to the plate and take over.

Jesus, everything that fucking happens in your life does not need to be discussed here you whiney bitches.

Stop being such an asshole!

Seriously, I kind of like you when you're not being such a prick. I think you actually have some good stuff to say, but no one will listen if you hide your insightful comments in rude insults!

^Here it is, it has come to this point, you know what point that is don't you? Eh? Don't you?

It's the point where I say, where the fuck in my post am I trying to give advice? This is Sex and Affection, not the place for you to discuss your shitty social skills, or why you can't seem to find good friends.

Probably because you hang around with people EXACTLY like yourself. Which makes you firekitty a manipulaitve person and a sorry friend.

Otherwise, if you don't hang around her, and she isn't your friend, THEN WHO GIVES A FUCK!?!!!?!?!?

Oh, and Xiao I don't give a shit if you think I am an asshole. Who are you again?

^^^I am your GOD

But seriously, I was just saying what I think. You don't have to care about it.*shrugs*

I do what I want because crazy manipulative people don't make good friends. I just ignore that sort of stuff.

Dont listen to your friends.

^More like, don't listen to people that pretend to be your friend.

Dont listen to some of these tossers S*A is for friendhsips as well, they are to do with AFFECTION, and often sex, and they also can get in the way of having sex with people. So this thread definitely belongs here

Secondly who is to decide who is a whiney btich. Certainly not anyone here who knows firekitty not specifically well. So everyone STFU if yuou have nothing valid or failing that polite (rude but valid is ok )

meh..also yeah are you manipulative firekitty? answer honestly please.

Nothing to be done.

You knew she was going to be pissed off when you hooked up with him.

You can live for your friends or you can live for yourself.

Don't run your life on what you think others will say or do, this is the single biggest mistake you could ever make.

Ok. If she's not even your friend, why the fuck do you care what she says to/about you?

I really don't know if I would categorize P as "manipulative", as that implies someone who actually succeeds at making people believe her. Or maybe other people actually don't see through the "*sob* I'm so done with her! She's a bitch! *sob*" act.

Anyway, just ignore her. You tried to be friends with her (and I know you did) but she rejected that in favor of being a cunt.

[This message has been edited by neato bandito (edited 10-17-2006).]

I was stoned, I don't know ANYTHING.

You both bitch about the same EXACT thing.

CATFIGHT!

I've heard she's manipulative from other people, and I've seen it before, but not as much as I did the other night.

And am I manipulative? Not unless I have to be, and that would be when trying to get a teacher to raise a grade or get out of a ticket or something like that. Never to make people feel guilty.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

...trying to get a teacher to raise a grade...

Fuck yes!

*sits at firekitty's feet awaiting story*

This shit is getting old with all you real life friends acting like bitches to each other on the internet.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

This shit is getting old with all you real life friends acting like bitches to each other on the internet.



I didn't ask them to join totse. Trust me, I wish I had this place to myself. I'd love to leave it at myspace.