So my girlfriend is obcessed with texting, She texts constantly (I mean constantly). So she starts texting this guy who was my friend, They text for the free text weekend thing (like... 12pm friday till 12pm sunday) and they tell each other shit, She sometimes gives me information of what they say and etc and one day I get all depressed about it (Clinical depression) and talk to her.

me : How do you talk to him for that long?, what do you even say?

her : etc etc he said he thinks i'm hot and look good in mini-skirts.

I was pissed because I'm an EXTREMELY jellious prick plus earlier she had told me she think he's hot and he wants to fuck her.

So about a month later she asked me...

her : Who would you fuck apart from me?

me : No-one, you're the only girl for me *smiling* you?

her : Well... Trent (not the main guy).

me : Ok, anyone else (I was moderatly pissed but not really)

her : Well... Jesse (the main guy), Please don't be mad.

me : Ok, I think I'm going to spew my heart up

Her : aw I'm so sorry etc

So I make this huge scene and get really pissed. I text the guy telling him.... how I felt towards him but she kept stressing to me "Please don't tell him I told you etc" which made me even more pissed because she wanted to protect him and etc.

I'm trying to forget it at the moment even though my psych told me not to (Fuck I'm badass.

So I make her choose between me and him and she chose me :-) but she still texts him and I don't know what to do.

Am I in the right to be pissed?

Ao in conclusion they have been talking about how they want to fuck each other.

Sorry if this dosen't make sense, I'm drowning my sorrows :-(

[This message has been edited by Insomniac Tiki (edited 10-16-2006).]

Stop whinging, put him on crutches and her over your knee...after you've made her crush her cell phone.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Stop whinging, put him on crutches and her over your knee...after you've made her crush her cell phone.



Am I in the right to be pissed?

quote:Originally posted by Insomniac Tiki:



Am I in the right to be pissed?



Only at yourself for letting it get this far.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:



Only at yourself for letting it get this far.

Ok...

Your girls a fucking cunt.

Drop her.

NOW

Do it for yourself.

This thread made me really, really, really angry for some reason. It's not like the chick's cheating on ME. But still.

I'll kick her face in for you.

yeah, your girlfriend is a slutty bitch. she's playing massive mindgames with you right now and i can't even see her fucking reasoning. dump her. she's an idiot. like...she hurts my soul.

I'd be fucking pissed too. Lol, I'm not the only one who gets all at the slightest sign that my Love Object might not be returning the feeling?

quote:Originally posted by YouLookFourteen:

like...she hurts my soul.

I concur.

I really love this girl and it's a year on the 9th of next month. I'm really pissed of course but I can only blame myself for not being good enough for her thus her wanting other guys. Understand?

quote:Originally posted by Insomniac Tiki:

I really love this girl and it's a year on the 9th of next month. I'm really pissed of course but I can only blame myself for not being good enough for her thus her wanting other guys. Understand?

Although my very next comment is not going to make you want to answer this, where abouts in New Zealand are you?

Anyway man, you're messed in the head. Simple as that. If you don't think you're good enough to be with her it's one of several things. Either she's making you feel bad about yourself. Or you have low self esteem. Or the extremely fun combination of both.

Think you need to stand up for yourself. She's got you by the balls. And you're so insecure you'd let her. Focus on what you like about yourself. Then:

quote:Stop whinging, put him on crutches and her over your knee...after you've made her crush her cell phone.

PS: I take it you're Maori?

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

PS: I take it you're Maori?

Why would you take that?, South auckland (Waiuku) mind you :-) but white. Most maori's in my area can't opperate a computer. But my girlfriend is a maori (by blood not attitude.

Where you from?.

Um but yeah, It probally is self esteem.

quote:Originally posted by Insomniac Tiki:

Why would you take that?, South auckland (Waiuku) mind you :-) but white. Most maori's in my area can't opperate a computer. But my girlfriend is a maori (by blood not attitude.

Where you from?.

Um but yeah, It probally is self esteem.



There's a mullato here that can operate a computer (albeit not very well), so it's entirely possible...

I'm from South Wellington, currently in Wanganui Dead end town if I ever did see one.

You'll keep having these problems though mate until you fix you. This shit with your girlfriend you should view as outside symptoms. I say just save yourself alot of time/hassle and dump her. Move somewhere stupid. Start a new life.

quote:Originally posted by Insomniac Tiki:



Am I in the right to be pissed?

FUCK yeah, sorry to be mean, but your girl is a fucking 'hoe'.

Has anyone got any other solutions?. Or is dumping her the only way?

There is no other solution, you're worth more than that bitch.

You have terrible friends and a horrible girlfriend.

She's probably cheating on you.

And what type of friend is he? Who does that, honestly.

quote:Originally posted by Insomniac Tiki:

Has anyone got any other solutions?. Or is dumping her the only way?

Grow a pair. She's at the wrong, and you're making it out like it's your fault. Hell, even when it is my fault, I still act confident and make her think she's to blame.

It's all about attitude. Do you have the attitude to not stand for her crap and tell her you're in charge?

Obviously you don't, so either fix it or ditch her.

Dude, fucking hell.

You're getting assfucked from every direction, and you're self-centered enough to think it's your fault. It's not your fault, you haven't done anything to warrant this kind of backstabbing behaviour from them.

You don't deserve such shitty behaviour. Man the fuck up and show those assholes who's boss.

shes playing with you. Whats to say she hasn't already fucked him? A girl like that loves drama. You can either get a few girls and play mind games with her or dump her and say fuck this shit. I dated a girl similar to this before. She palyed all these mind games with me about other guys. So I got a few of my female friends to help me play mind games with her. She got so jealous and eventually started stopped talking to him only if I stopped it with my girls lol. I evnetually dumped her cause she was too boring.

Have a go at her. Nothing will be solved by thinking it's your fault. She'll just respect you less for being a pussy.

Lay down the law, tell her she cant msg him anymore.

I doubt she really likes that other guy much

only cos he's giving her attention

but she shouldn't be giving him any back

she sounds like a bit of a whore

What a slut..

drop her, pretty much asap. Within the bounds of a bf/gf relationship this is far from right or allowable, way, way out of line and not defendable on her part, end it, IMO.

Dude what the fuck is wrong with you? Grow a pair of nuts.

First off you should be beating this so called friends ass.

Second you should be dumping that hoe and asap.

The fact she openly admits to you about her wanting to fuck other guys means she probably has.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Stop whinging, put him on crutches and her over your knee...after you've made her crush her cell phone.

This man knows what the fuck he is talking about. Take his advice. If you decide to try to salvage your relationship, you need to put your foot down right now and tell her that this behavior isn't acceptable. Then, you need to kick his ass and make an example of what happens to the guy who thinks he can steal your girl from you.

Or you can just dump her. It's your call, but whatever it is, it needs to be decisive.

quote:Originally posted by Insomniac Tiki:



her : Who would you fuck apart from me?

me : No-one, you're the only girl for me *smiling* you?

her : Well... Trent (not the main guy).

me : Ok, anyone else (I was moderatly pissed but not really)

her : Well... Jesse (the main guy), Please don't be mad.

me : Ok, I think I'm going to spew my heart up

Her : aw I'm so sorry etc



Dude. fuck her. She sounds like a callous bitch. I suggest you get rid of her before she hurts you more.

-F☺rd

Get your pimp hand strong on the bitch! She trying to play you. If you really like her and wanna stay, then just start ignoring her bit by bit slowly. Make yourself mysterious...You know like if she asks you, hey where you been all day? Just say something like, not really anywhere just to the mall and walked around (or somewhere where girls are)

Havn't you ever had your partner do something that makes you suspisious, so you cant stop thinking about her. Do that to her, and she will be thinking about you and wondering.

You sound like you're at a young age, so it's still pretty much a "chase" thing...Once you got your partner to yourself you really don't want it anymore.

Just gotta pull it off right and have the correct game

Dump that slut. She deserves it.

Ok check this:

I don't care what the rest of totse says (KEEP UR P1mP h4ND STroNG D00d!! etc.)

You need to drop this bitch now.

She's the type of chick that emo bands write about, and the worst part is, the damage is all preventable.

She's already indicated that she likes this other guy (by trying to protect him, and not being loyal to you), and even after you made it known that you didn't like it, she kept going! She might as well have flipped you off dude, because that's what her actions say.

Get rid of her.

~Saint947

quote:Originally posted by Insomniac Tiki:

I really love this girl and it's a year on the 9th of next month. I'm really pissed of course but I can only blame myself for not being good enough for her thus her wanting other guys. Understand?

If she wants to even THINK about fucking other guys tell her to go kick some fucking rocks. I ain't the jealous type like you but you got some grade-A bullshit right there. Don't blame yourself either cuz that'll just send you into an anxietal depression, been there done that.

quote:Originally posted by Lovin C-Black:

If she wants to even THINK about fucking other guys tell her to go kick some fucking rocks. I ain't the jealous type like you but you got some grade-A bullshit right there. Don't blame yourself either cuz that'll just send you into an anxietal depression, been there done that.



anxietal depression... Been there... Doing that, I don't really understand you.