Last night just on the local bars closing time, I saw a girl I had never seen before in this small town. Because I was drunken and didn't know anything about her getting to know her in the 5 mins I had was difficult.

Although in the time I did spend with her I found her to be beautiful, funny, cool and with a laid back attitude not that differing to that of my own (Something rare around here).

Anyhow...I don't know her name, or her phone number, where she works or where she lives. I need to see this girl again

Is there anyway to locate her or should I just forget it? Also I don't want to appear to be a stalker or something.

What does everyone think?

Just frequent that bar, maybe she'll come back.

But yesssss, let her go.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



Just frequent that bar, maybe she'll come back.

But yesssss, let her go.

May I ask why you suggest letting her go?

She told me she lives here, and in this small place I think our paths will cross again. She walked home with her girl friends so I assume she is single. I personally don't think I should completely give up just yet is what I'm saying.

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[This message has been edited by Trousersnake (edited 10-15-2006).]

It just seems that already you're formulating plans for her, but she probably doesn't remember meeting you.

If you're too enthusiastic she gets no thrill of the chase and, unless you made a really good impression, she'll think it's creepy.

But maybe it'll go well, just speculating.

I guess you could hang around that bar for a while longer, see if she comes back. If she does than that's a win for you and if she doesn't its not really that big of a deal. Try not to think about it all that much.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



It just seems that already you're formulating plans for her, but she probably doesn't remember meeting you.

If you're too enthusiastic she gets no thrill of the chase and, unless you made a really good impression, she'll think it's creepy.

But maybe it'll go well, just speculating.

I can understand this, however she was someone I liked either way. So even if nothing is going to happen I wouldn't mind having her as a new friend

It's a small town. Do you know any of her girlfriends?

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

It's a small town. Do you know any of her girlfriends?

I have the impression she must be new in town. I know a lot of people here and I've never seen her before and the friends I was with hadn't either. She was with one girl I know only as Simone, it's not much but it's something...I guess.

I'll ask some of my girl friends if they know a Simone and work from there maybe?

Any other replies?

I remembered just earlier that she took an amused liking to my name so I'm hoping she was interested too and asks about me.

Also I've asked one person about her friend but no luck so far.

Go to that bar a bit and just hope you cross paths sometime. Australian towns are super small and friendly like in nieghbours, aren't they?

lurk around the bar til you see her or find her myspace and give her picture comments and get in her top 8 and you are in

quote:Originally posted by Isobutane:

Australian towns are super small and friendly like in nieghbours, aren't they?

Some are, to an extent, yes. But there is also the neighbours bitchyness too.

quote:Originally posted by Trousersnake:

Some are, to an extent, yes. But there is also the neighbours bitchyness too.

I always thought the singing of "neighbourrsssss" sounded like "gay nerdssss"....listen out for it.

Just go to that bar a little and hope she is in there when you are, eventually you will meet again, try not to obsess over it, when you dont care is when you will see her.