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Saturday, October 14, 2006



Is sex THAT bad?



So, last week on the way to school..i was talking to my Grandad.

I asked him if him and my Gran had sex before they got married. his reaction was..PRICELESS.

he said.."OOOH lord."

i waslike..."what its a serious question."

then he said "yes but ONLY once..we were 21 , we were engaged and the wedding date was set. and thats the ONLY reason."

Now, this question was asked just...to ask cuz i was bored. Grandad took it as i might be thinking about having premarital sex or something....it got me thinking...is sex THAT bad? is it so bad that you HAVE to wait for ONE PERSON to share it with?

In my opinion, i think that premarital sex is the second best idea in the world. What if you get married and have never had sex before...what if you waited ALL your life for ONE person and it turns out that person has already had sex..any way..its ur wedding night and YOUVE never done it but your partner has. What if youre just plain awful? what if you have no clue what youre doing and you dont want your partner to think youre weird...now i will add in that if the guy marries you, he's probly not going to leave you because you are bad at sex..but STILL. i know I dont want to be on my honeymoon with some guy who has no idea what he's doing. i think that practice makes perfect and if you have to go through 3 or 4..maybe even 5 guys to find it...more power to you. that however doesnt make me think that sex with all sorts of guys is the best thing to do..i think if you exceed 12 guys..thats a little much...in MY opinion...i dont think it makes you a slut..but i think it...i dont know what i think..i just know that i dont want to be sexually active with that many people...

Anyway that went on way longer than i h ad wanted it to but what im saying is that i dont think you have to wait for marriage to show that you're in love by having sex. i think that people as a couple should have sex, work on the things that need to be fixed so that they can have a kick ass honeymoon full of hot dirty sex.



thanks for your time.



Back to Siash: {OK, now aside from the subject question, what do you all think of that "go through 4 or 5 or 6 guys to do it" bit?}

i agree with her,

and no i don't think she's slutty for thinking that way

I agree with the above user.

how is that slutty? she's basically saying the same old "marriage needs sexual compatibility." and 3 or 4 or 5 people is nothing in slut standards.

Shes a fuckin wierdo askin her grandpa about his sex life. talk about nasty mental images.

quote:Originally posted by UrbanTurban:

Shes a fuckin wierdo askin her grandpa about his sex life. talk about nasty mental images.

This man speaks da trufe.

quote:Originally posted by Zonko:

I agree with the above user.

quote:Originally posted by jai614:

i agree with her,

and no i don't think she's slutty for thinking that way

Seconded.

quote:Originally posted by UrbanTurban:

Shes a fuckin wierdo askin her grandpa about his sex life. talk about nasty mental images.

Agreed

Sex with the love of your life is ok. But just random sex, I look down upon.

I think that she is right, that it is ok to have sex before you're married, but I do not like how she says it's necessary to be good at it. I feel if you develop a serious relationship, sex is necessary, and for majority of men, it is more difficult to create an emotional bond without the physical. I have fooled around with boys and stuff, and now that I'm with my boyfriend I do regret it.

As for first time having sex, it probably won't be bad, because well.. it's sex. They won't end up saying that they had a "bad" experience, it would just have been more boring than other times when they get more experienced.

If you husband/wife isn't a virgin and you are, it's a bit disappointing but still not so bad, because you are able to say that you really saved yourself for that one person, and that's one of the best feelings in the world (that I cannot experience, but I wish I could).

Oh woopty do. A teenage girl desperately trying to validate blowing those three guys behind her friend’s house last weekend.

She may be right; I’m personally fine with pre-marital sex. But I don't care how many people that girl fucks, and I sure as hell don't give a fuck about her nigh-illiterate opinion.

YOU ARE ALL GOIN TO HELL

*throws a brick at thread*

This is a retarded little blonde girl. Let her burn in hell..

If you are going to marry a fucking person, and they have not had sex with you and still are willing to marry you, do you think they will give a fucking shit if you're lame in bed. Hell you got the rest of your life to make it 'perfect' (btw this doesn't exist)

This girl is 10% right. She's too much to make her point through. "I think ... I don't know what I think" fucking retard.

I think shesputting WAY too much stock in performing the best on the wedding night. If that is the main purpose of premarital sex, she is, in fact, a slut.

And I will give you a roll of stickers if you point her to this post.

Nothing new about this point of view.

I personally think that people should stop being such judgemental pricks and let people do as they please so long as it doesn't effect them. That and people should stop giving a shit what others think and enjoy their lives the way they want to while not having to rationalize their choice.

I'm offended by people who have a condesending attitude towards my or others' personal choices. You know, I can have the same attitude towards your lack of premarital sex but I don't. You know why? Because I respect you as a human being and your ability to make your own choices.

1 night stand ftw

Nothing wrong with that.

In today's world, sex is more open and discussed whereas in her grandad's day, it was frowned upon to have sex before marriage.

The general idea was "Who wants to buy the cow when they get the milk for free?!"

I believe that if you're going to get married to someone, both should have a little practice beforehand.