Alright, in an update to an earlier thread, I've managed to get my girlfriend closer to orgasm than ever before. I did what I normally did, a lot of foreplay, then g-spot stimulation and my tongue on her clit; but I also tied her up and blindfolded her. Got us much closer, much closer. But we still can't bridge the gap. We've tried it a couple times with the same result. We feel that once she feels her first orgasm she'll be able to have future ones easier, but damn if this one isn't hard to reach.

Any ideas on what to incorporate to aid us? To give that little push? I've heard something about breathwork, but I don't know what that is.

mm i've heard tensing of the muscles can help, like flexing her thighs. it's supposed to increase the sensation. also good old cosmo says to picture stuff that gets you turned on, but you don't want her to start thinking too much.

what happens? does the sensation just die down/go away for her? or does it just continue but never seem to quite peak? hell, the moments leading up to an orgasm are almost the most fun, because even though you're desperate for it to happen, once it does it's over.