So i asked this girl if she wanted to hang out sometime. We did a few things together and went on a date. I finally asked her out one night and gave her a kiss.

Anyway this isnt like my other relationship. WTF Do i do now? I can tell there is still a little bit of tension between us (Nervousness) or however its spelt.

I hate talking on the phone. But i need to get better at it. Its 9:30 and i was gonna call and ask her what she was doing. She said she wasnt doing anything but if we did decide to hang out what could we do tonight?

Basically what im asking is what are some good places to take a girl when you first start going out till it turns to a steady relationship.

AND FOR GODS SAKE GIVE ME SOME FUCKING CONVERSATIONS TO TALK ABOUT ON THE PHONE. And some tips on how to talk to a girl on the phone.

Please.

Take her to your bedroom.

And conversation, I don't know, what kind of shit do you like? Sports, maybe? Work? Recreational activities? And there is always the failsafe, talking about her. It never fails.

quote:Originally posted by blackcherryz:

And some tips on how to talk to a girl on the phone.

Step 1: "So, what's happenin?"

Step 2: Pause

Step 3: "Uh huh."

Step 4: Repeat steps 2-3 as desired.

Blackcherryz, im just curious. Do you like "Goldfrapp"? Your name implies that.

(unless u are refering to negress pussy)

Just go for a drive. Drive randomly around throughout the night. It will be fun and just bring up random things to talk about. Tell some stupid embarrassing stories about your self or something.

If all else fails, whip it out.

Always, always, always talk about her when you run out of other things to think about. Asking how she feels about certain things, (not to be confused with what she thinks about things, asking what a girl "feels" seems to generate better responses" and sharing stories about stuff that's happened to you in the past is good, too.

Make sure you don't wear a belt and wear loose pants. Hold her hand while going for a walk somewhere at night and maybe like 20 minutes in pull her hand toward you slowly and slide it down your pants, should be interesting

Sometimes it's hard to talk to someone, but remember, it doesn't really matter what you talk about as long as you talk. Eventually, after talking about random things for a while, you might come across something really interesting.

Look around you for inspiration if you want to talk about yourself, and ask her questions if you want to talk about her.

Do some Dat flowers with her. She's a girl. She'll be liking the flowers.