So there is this really good looking girl that is like perfectly my type. She looks like the kind of girl I would date.

Problem Is that I dont know her.

So how could I get to know her and like tlak to her?

Should I just be like "hey I loke your clothes" or something or is that just plain gay?

help?

Just say 'hi', and take it from there. It's not really what you say that matters, you don't have to try to be interesting, it's just that you've said anything at all.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Just say 'hi', and take it from there. It's not really what you say that matters, you don't have to try to be interesting, it's just that you've said anything at all.

If I just go up and say hi then what? I dont want to seem like a creepy obsessive kinda person. She doesnt seem to have a lot of friends either.

Well then if you don't say hi then how will she know you've noticed her? If you're an alright looking guy then any female would like to know she's being thought of.

Maybe.. Or you could get a facefull of pepper spray. Try it!

you could just walk by smile and say HAI! just do that every now and then and get talking

I sometimes just roll up and ask for a cigarette. Executed properly, it gets a conversation rolling. I know it seems lame, but really, if she thinks you're cute and likes the way you carry yourself, she'll find some way to stretch the interaction out.

quote:Originally posted by Synkk:

If I just go up and say hi then what? I dont want to seem like a creepy obsessive kinda person. She doesnt seem to have a lot of friends either.

Saying 'hi' and then smiling doesn't make you seem creepy or obsessive. It makes you seem polite. Duh.

If you stalk her and rub your balls on her car then yes, that's creepy and obsessive, but saying 'hi' is common fucking sense.

Sorry man I might be seeming a bit harsh here, but it really isn't rocket science. You know how to meet new people, you've done it before, it's instinctual, just fucking man up and do it.

RFE: I spelt it, 'instictual'. Like you going to ram it with a stick and cook it like a marshmallow. If you do that to her, I will be so proud.

Spread the puffy skin goodness!

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ha. jesus christ... Calm down man. ^

quote:Originally posted by Zoe:

ha. jesus christ... Calm down man. ^

Why? I'm enjoying myself. Are you not? Also, this smiley in my title looks completely gay.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Why? I'm enjoying myself. Are you not? Also, this smiley in my title looks completely gay.

Queer! Oh and yes i am.. But i don't think this chap should really need to ask whether or not to talk to a girl. Grow some balls. but on the other hand. I guess it cant hurt..

quote:Originally posted by Zoe:

Queer! Oh and yes i am.. But i don't think this chap should really need to ask whether or not to talk to a girl. Grow some balls. but on the other hand. I guess it cant hurt..

Hey, it's not my damn fault the smileys are so completely gay. It's why I rarely use them. That's the first time I've used that one. I should have just used a instead.

Oh god I'm scarred for life, and there are people at my window. Oh my, the day has started.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Hey, it's not my damn fault the smileys are so completely gay. It's why I rarely use them. That's the first time I've used that one. I should have just used a instead.

Oh god I'm scarred for life, and there are people at my window. Oh my, the day has started.

There are aboriginal people outside MY window. This is why i'm not going outside just yet. They always ask me for money and it's irritating. NO I CANNOT SPARE A DOLLAR "SISTER"

Alright. Ill just hi and smile.

Guess it couldnt hurt.

Just wanting to make a good impression?

Im not used to meeting girls like this. Im usually introduced by friends and stuff.

But Im giving it a shot. Its not like she's the only girl on earth right?

Yeah of course man. Just do it, if it fucks itself over, then oh well she's lame.. And then later you'll find someone better.

quote:Originally posted by Zoe:

There are aboriginal people outside MY window. This is why i'm not going outside just yet. They always ask me for money and it's irritating. NO I CANNOT SPARE A DOLLAR "SISTER"

Ahahahah. We had aboriginal beggars down the street at one point. They were pretty violent, well, verbally. I was never harassed, but I did hear they were there. But yes, irritating as hell. Damn tiny liver people.

Fuck, one of them called me racist a while back, because I wouldn't give her two dollars. Now generally I can be a pretty nice person, I mean I've hung out with homeless people and some of them are definately cool, so I do sometimes give them money, but that day I had literally no change on me.

Racist? Fuck off I'm just broke!

People like that, who use their race as a political weapon, piss me off.

Okay now back to the issue at hand. Synkk, it really can't go wrong. Once you make the move, and build up the courage and do it, it gets easier from there on. Just be polite, but in a warm and friendly way, and if you're feeling bold don't shy away from telling her that you've noticed her around and you kinda like the way she glides. Probably not in that wording, but you know what I mean.

Attraction like that you're speaking of is often a two-way street. Life works like that a lot of the time.

And on a final sorta note, unless you need any more advice, if she's a bitch to you, don't hang yourself up on her. This is an opportunity to see if she's someone you'd like to get to know better, not the other way around.

I agree with the racist person above.

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quote:Originally posted by Zoe:

I agree with the racist person above.

Yeeeeeeeah I'm squinting at you sideways. Better make up for that next time we speak ya coon. Oh shit it happened...

Thanks for the replies. Next time I see her Im just going to do it. Nothing can go wrong

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Yeeeeeeeah I'm squinting at you sideways. Better make up for that next time we speak ya coon. Oh shit it happened...

Yeah .. about that.. *runs away*

quote:Originally posted by Synkk:

Thanks for the replies. Next time I see her Im just going to do it. Nothing can go wrong



Woah woah woah, stay in reality mate, things can go wrong, and they will. But you have nothing to lose, and that's the important point, so just do and say what you want to do and say

Haha what a jumble of words. It's like I lost my mind.

Point is! I'm glad your confident but don't be over confident. Just take it as it comes man, and put yourself in the right places. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be, nothing more and nothing less.

quote:Originally posted by Zoe:

Yeah .. about that.. *runs away*

Awww. I scared... her?... off. Well now, were shall we go.

To the book depository!

*wooden wheels roll on old 15th century carts as the old mob shake their fists mightily and slowly in the air*

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Awww. I scared... her?... off. Well now, were shall we go.

To the book depository!

*wooden wheels roll on old 15th century carts as the old mob shake their fists mightily and slowly in the air*

Okay man. Just CALM THE FUCK DOWN. Cause like. You know.. We dun liike your kiind round ere...

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Woah woah woah, stay in reality mate, things can go wrong, and they will. But you have nothing to lose, and that's the important point, so just do and say what you want to do and say

Haha what a jumble of words. It's like I lost my mind.

Point is! I'm glad your confident but don't be over confident. Just take it as it comes man, and put yourself in the right places. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be, nothing more and nothing less.

Yeah cant forget that. But still if things go wrong it wont be a big deal. I just have a good feeling that things will work out well.

quote:Originally posted by Synkk:

Yeah cant forget that. But still if things go wrong it wont be a big deal. I just have a good feeling that things will work out well.

Cool man, cool.

After delivering the "hi", you could oh i dont know, maybe follow it with a "how are you?". Earth shattering.

quote:Originally posted by Markoni:

After delivering the "hi", you could oh i dont know, maybe follow it with a "how are you?". Earth shattering.

That works too...

xD

Wow, that's so weird. I'm in the exact same situation as you, except switch genders. I see this guy every few days and he looks like my type but I don't know how to talk to him. And I do know what you mean too, because it seems weird to just go up to a random person and say hi to them without... I mean, like, if you were sitting next to a stranger in class or something, it's easier to just say hi to them because they're there, but it's harder when you just see that person in a group of people every other day or something.

But anyway, the whole point of this is, what if that girl is thinking the same thing about you as you are about her? And maybe since she doesn't have that many friends, that means she's shy? So, yeah! Just go for it.

quote:Originally posted by Keriba:

Wow, that's so weird. I'm in the exact same situation as you, except switch genders. I see this guy every few days and he looks like my type but I don't know how to talk to him. And I do know what you mean too, because it seems weird to just go up to a random person and say hi to them without... I mean, like, if you were sitting next to a stranger in class or something, it's easier to just say hi to them because they're there, but it's harder when you just see that person in a group of people every other day or something.

But anyway, the whole point of this is, what if that girl is thinking the same thing about you as you are about her? And maybe since she doesn't have that many friends, that means she's shy? So, yeah! Just go for it.

Yeah hopefully it wont be too awkward.

Thats really the only thing Im afraid of.

That and looking stupid...

Now that I think aobu ti:

What if she isnt single?

What if shes a lesbian or some crazy shit like that

lol

quote:Originally posted by Synkk:

Yeah hopefully it wont be too awkward.

Thats really the only thing Im afraid of.

That and looking stupid...

Now that I think aobu ti:

What if she isnt single?

What if shes a lesbian or some crazy shit like that

lol

Oh my, a possibility. But hey, you could always gain a friend out of this whole experience. Or confidence. Or at least a good conversation. Or at the very least, an awkward conversation which is better than nothing.

You may have inspired me to do something about my situation as well!!

Come back and tell me how it goes.

quote:Originally posted by Keriba:

Oh my, a possibility. But hey, you could always gain a friend out of this whole experience. Or confidence. Or at least a good conversation. Or at the very least, an awkward conversation which is better than nothing.

You may have inspired me to do something about my situation as well!!

Come back and tell me how it goes.

Alright.

Do you have MSN or anything?

quote:Originally posted by Synkk:

Alright.

Do you have MSN or anything?



No MSN... AIM?

what if she walked by you, smiled and said hi? would you think she is weird? no, you would probably think she is either nice or wants you.

Talk to her. Say hey, what's up.

Being bold is good. Say something like "Do you think America will ever fully adapt to the metric system?" so she knows it's not something you ACTUALLY want to talk about, and that you just want to talk to her. Then introduce yourself.

quote:Originally posted by Keriba:

No MSN... AIM?

yes:

Phantasmal91

Dude, just walk over to her, smash her in the head with a baseball bat and fuck her. Simple really, you just need some BALLS. I hope you got some,.

Walk up to her, Introduce yourself {hello, my name is _____, I think yer neit...etcetra} ask her, her name, and start with soem small talk. The cigerette thing may work, but some women don't like smokers, but then again, why try to get with a girl who doesn't like you/what you do. Just be casual/sauve and be yerself. Basicly jump into it, and don't think about it so much, it's not really that hard to talk to a girl.

quote:Originally posted by StillArmedStillAngry:

I sometimes just roll up and ask for a cigarette. Executed properly, it gets a conversation rolling. I know it seems lame, but really, if she thinks you're cute and likes the way you carry yourself, she'll find some way to stretch the interaction out.

Asking for a lighter is mine. works wonders.

quote:Originally posted by Melba999:

Walk up to her, Introduce yourself {hello, my name is _____, I think yer neit...etcetra} ask her, her name, and start with soem small talk. The cigerette thing may work, but some women don't like smokers, but then again, why try to get with a girl who doesn't like you/what you do. Just be casual/sauve and be yerself. Basicly jump into it, and don't think about it so much, it's not really that hard to talk to a girl.

Im trying this. I had my chance but I totally belw it. twice actually

Time to stop being a pussy and just do it.

Also I found out that she's an exchange student from like Norway or something.

bump

quote:Originally posted by Synkk:

bump



I feel you, man. I had the perfect opportunity to talk to my guy. I mean like, we were in the same room and he was over by himself and I could've talked to him, but ahhh, didn't.

quote:Originally posted by Keriba:

I feel you, man. I had the perfect opportunity to talk to my guy. I mean like, we were in the same room and he was over by himself and I could've talked to him, but ahhh, didn't.

Ah same. I walked by her in the hall. And tghen when I was leaving art she was right freaking there in the doorway. I even paused for a second.

I feel so stupid now

But tomorrow my friend is coming with me to where I always see her in the hall. Hes better at meeting people and hes been wanting to know who Ive been talking about for the past week. So he might help me on this. Im sure I could say hi to her but I always freeze when it comes to making conversation.

quote:Originally posted by Zoe:

Well then if you don't say hi then how will she know you've noticed her? If you're an alright looking guy then any female would like to know she's being thought of.

Maybe.. Or you could get a facefull of pepper spray. Try it!

Every time I see a member with the name of somebody I know and lives in Australia I freak out and think they go to my school.

What state and/or territory do you live in?