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 #1 
Old 2006-10-13, 05:31
AquaX AquaX is offline
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Default Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

Her birthday is tomorrow, and I planned on giving her a green ipod nano. She's allways wanted one... Well anyways I didn't pay anything for it(she doesn't know that :P) so its kind of a five finger discount but anyways I told my friend what I was gona give her and he said im nuts. I don't know if I should give her it, but I don't really have a choice I have till 5:30PM tomorrow and its 1:30AM
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Old 2006-10-13, 05:33
Hsueh Hsueh is offline
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

are you like friend with her? or do you have a crush on her? and she doesnt notice
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Old 2006-10-13, 05:35
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

quote:Originally posted by Hsueh:

are you like friend with her? or do you have a crush on her? and she doesnt notice

She's my GF.
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Old 2006-10-13, 05:44
frank the tank frank the tank is offline
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

i know exactly what your friend is thinking..."give a girl that kind of a gift?...homeboy must be stoopud!"

its probably because he things that you shouldnt give such a item as a gift but keep for yourself or give to one of your friends
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Old 2006-10-13, 06:08
Hsueh Hsueh is offline
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

welll then go ahead lol
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Old 2006-10-13, 06:13
Nikkuh Nikkuh is offline
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

How long have you kids been going out?

Anyways thats an awesome gift.

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Old 2006-10-13, 06:15
Mindless Xyzzyean Mindless Xyzzyean is offline
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

Didn't you like screw up with her the other night? Or was that someone else? But sure, go for it.
 #8 
Old 2006-10-13, 06:18
AquaX AquaX is offline
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

quote:Originally posted by Mindless Xyzzyean:

Didn't you like screw up with her the other night? Or was that someone else? But sure, go for it.

Yea I fucked up but its all good now.
 #9 
Old 2006-10-13, 06:21
XHippie HunterX XHippie HunterX is offline
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

Well since you royally fucked up the other day, it might be a good idea to give it to her, maybe with something like flowers (don't be cheap you didnt fucking buy the damn thing).

I feel the need to say this, since you were obviously dumb enought to get caught lying to her about drugs i figure you might need to hear it:

First wipe everything off of it, so it doesnt look so obvious that it has been used before (impling the whole stealing thing), AND ABSOLUTELY UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCED SHOULD YOU TELL HER HOW YOU CAME TO BE IN POSESSION OF THE GODDAMN THING.

Btw if you had stolen mine, i would have broken you goddamn face.
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Old 2006-10-13, 06:29
AquaX AquaX is offline
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

quote:Originally posted by XHippie HunterX:

Well since you royally fucked up the other day, it might be a good idea to give it to her, maybe with something like flowers (don't be cheap you didnt fucking buy the damn thing).

I feel the need to say this, since you were obviously dumb enought to get caught lying to her about drugs i figure you might need to hear it:

First wipe everything off of it, so it doesnt look so obvious that it has been used before (impling the whole stealing thing), AND ABSOLUTELY UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCED SHOULD YOU TELL HER HOW YOU CAME TO BE IN POSESSION OF THE GODDAMN THING.

Btw if you had stolen mine, i would have broken you goddamn face.

LOL its brand new but thanks for the advice I have a bunch.

I would never steal from an individual I only rip off major corporations like walmart. They can suck my balls it doesn't even affect them.
 #11 
Old 2006-10-13, 15:21
Running Free Running Free is offline
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

Wanna send me one?
 #12 
Old 2006-10-13, 15:27
doct0r_4rmo doct0r_4rmo is offline
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

No. Give her to much and she will take you for granted. Next she's fucking your mate who said don't give it her.
 #13 
Old 2006-10-13, 15:38
Ouster Ouster is offline
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You bloody cheap whore.
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Old 2006-10-13, 16:16
Source Source is offline
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

Well if you've got a bunch of them, then give her one, and an ipod too.
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Old 2006-10-13, 17:11
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

quote:Originally posted by doct0r_4rmo:

No. Give her to much and she will take you for granted. Next she's fucking your mate who said don't give it her.
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Old 2006-10-13, 18:14
Ojise Ojise is offline
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

Do it

She'll probably get you something for about the same price on your birthday
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Old 2006-10-13, 18:26
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

No, theres definitely a sound argument for not giving it to her that goes beyond being selfish and keeping it for himself.

High-ticket gifts are a little risky to be giving too early in a relationship. It can seem a little overbearing, it can set a high standard for her to come to expect, and it can seem like you're trying to buy her affection. (It doesnt really matter that you didnt pay for it)

If you've only been going out for a month, I'd suggest something smaller and more romantic. But if you're in a serious relationship, maybe a year or more, then it can be a really sweet gift.
 #18 
Old 2006-10-13, 18:35
doct0r_4rmo doct0r_4rmo is offline
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I advise buying her a present that you can share with her. If she likes music dont get an iPod get tickets for a gig. Or you could just take her out for something to eat like normal men? :S

-Mk 29

[This message has been edited by doct0r_4rmo (edited 10-13-2006).]
 #19 
Old 2006-10-13, 19:23
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Beh.. just give it to her.

It's not so pricey kind of gift she's going to think you're trying to buy her forgiveness.

And if she's wanted one for ages, it'll prove that you listen to her and want to try to make her happy blablabla..



Yeah, DO NOT tell her you got it free.
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Old 2006-10-13, 20:25
NiGhT PrOwLeR NiGhT PrOwLeR is offline
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

Get it ingraved with something sweet
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Old 2006-10-13, 20:31
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

Give it to her in pieces, at every holiday throughout the year.
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Old 2006-10-13, 20:34
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

It depends on her personality. I would hope she thinks that it's too much, for your sake.
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Old 2006-10-13, 21:12
gam3r_with_revenge gam3r_with_revenge is offline
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

Give it to her
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Old 2006-10-13, 22:22
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

i was gonna say "yes, it's too much!" just from reading the title.

but it's your girl, once you're not spending that kinda money monthly it's cool.
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Old 2006-10-13, 22:24
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Default Re: Is this to much to give her as a birthday present?

quote:Originally posted by AquaX:

She's my GF.

saying that, you shouldn't have to think all that hard about it. just refrain from saying it was stolen. i doubt that would go down well.
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Old 2006-10-13, 22:26
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You get away with it because it looks like an 'Im Sorry' present, for your misdeeds. In future, you can get away with buying her cheap shit, because you're not sorry for anything.

Buuuuuut I bet you will be anyway...

I think it's a cool gift. She will love you for it.
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Old 2006-10-13, 22:30
Zoe Zoe is offline
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You're going to hell.

But yeah, give her the ipod.
 
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