Then you go out and see all these girls who're hotter than her. And you kinda think "oh boy I could probably get with her, have sex".



Goddamnit, does anyone have any advice for me? I'm in something resembling a relationship with a girl that's really funny, nice and cool. We just click perfectly and it's all good.

Thing is though, she's my first ever gf, and while I for a certain part feel that I could be with her forever, there's also a part that says I have to try other things.

Don't I wanna experiment and shit? Score girls at clubs? I'm a handsome 20 year old guy who has a world of options...

I guess I don't have to go into further details, I'm sure some of you get the message.

Do you guys have any experience with this? Anyone who decided to break something good off, in pursuit of this kinda shit? How'd it work out? What's your advice?

It sounds like you don't know what you want. You'll have to figure that out before you make any decisions... we can't really help you with that.

Ever been unemployed at a mall, man? You walk around, and each time you go into a store you kinda daydream about what it would be like to work there. You think about how the job would be, what the perks would be, how cool your co-workers would be, whatever?

Thats kinda how it is. You see a pretty girl and your mind starts whirling. You think about how it would be to date her, or how good she would be in bed, what your friends would think if you got with her, etc.

Thats all normal. But would you quit your job for the possibility of getting a better one? You wouldn't really know how it would be unless you scoped it out real good. I guess what I'm saying man, is a bird in hand is worth two in the bush, and, in the immortal words of A Tribe Called Quest, good girls are hard to find.

Goddamnit. That's shoddy advice I reckon, but it's probably the truth.

Only problem is, I'll never know what I want. I'm like a girl... Guess happiness ultimately isn't an option for me.

booo. come on aim.

quote:Originally posted by just a name:

Ever been unemployed at a mall, man? You walk around, and each time you go into a store you kinda daydream about what it would be like to work there. You think about how the job would be, what the perks would be, how cool your co-workers would be, whatever?

Thats kinda how it is. You see a pretty girl and your mind starts whirling. You think about how it would be to date her, or how good she would be in bed, what your friends would think if you got with her, etc.

Thats all normal. But would you quit your job for the possibility of getting a better one? You wouldn't really know how it would be unless you scoped it out real good. I guess what I'm saying man, is a bird in hand is worth two in the bush, and, in the immortal words of A Tribe Called Quest, good girls are hard to find.



Hmm that's way better... Just kidding firekitty, your input was appreciated!

But yeah that does sound smart... It's just hard to like realize it, when you've only heen with the one girl :/

if this is how you view the situation, i suggest you do her a favor and break up with her.

quote:Originally posted by lauren7249:

booo. come on aim.

Lauren, I'm having the most uncomfortable msn conversation ever. Come on msn! I don't have aim here and I don't remember my userid or password or anything, so downloading ain't really an option :/

quote:Originally posted by B-Phaze:

Goddamnit. That's shoddy advice I reckon, but it's probably the truth.

Only problem is, I'll never know what I want. I'm like a girl... Guess happiness ultimately isn't an option for me.



But, if you weren't happy at your job, would you quit? Would you try your hand at different thingsx and see what you like? Do what you want, but if you are happy with your girl, and the only thing that would excite you is the prospect of "sowing your wild oats", then take a hard look at your situation before you leave a good girl for singleness.

edit: Didn't realize you weren't talking to me.



Edit again: You've only been with one girl. I might have to take that back. Maybe you should go fool around a bit.



[This message has been edited by just a name (edited 10-13-2006).]