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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2006-10-12, 04:17
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AquaX 
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I totally fucked up :(
OK so my GF wouldn't let me smoke weed do e or anything... Only drink
Shes really against drugs for some reason.
Well anyway I had some E on me and some weed yesterday. I really wanted to get high... I haven't gotten high since I got together with her. Well anyways, I asked her if she wanted to try some weed, then she got really pissed at me and said do you have weed on you ? I told her what I had on me then she looked like she was gona cry and told me to give it to her. I said NO fuck that that cost me like 80 bucks. Then she says that I have to ditch it and I told her no I'm going to go smoke it and we started arguing I couldn't stand it anymore so I left and smoked up and popped some pills with my friends. A couple hours later rite before the e comedown I went to her house and apologized, and she asked me if I did anything I said no then she started looking into my eyes and she noticed how fucken big my pupils were and started yelling at me and bitching for lien and told me to leave. SO WTF do I do she doesn't want to talk to me 
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#2
 2006-10-12, 04:20
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
ya know ya done fucked up, right?
oh yeah, you done fucked up.
see, you done fucked up.
/menace II society
but seriously, if this chick cant accept you for who you are, and is trying to change you......fuck it.
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#3
 2006-10-12, 04:22
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
dam u really did fuck him dawg. dam fuccin drug addicts. -.-x
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#4
 2006-10-12, 04:23
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
quote:Originally posted by Monox:
but seriously, if this chick cant accept you for who you are, and is trying to change you......fuck it.
I agree.
It wasn't until I started to stick up for myself, and do what I wanted that my girlfriend started opening up to things like smoking weed.
It's almost as if I convinced her through being stubborn.
I always get my way
[This message has been edited by truorion (edited 10-12-2006).]
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#5
 2006-10-12, 04:24
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
I always do things like that. Not to anyone i care about though, so i dont know.
Get something that looks like ecstasy, put it in a baggie, show it to her and flush it down the toilet to proove you wont do it.
If you do find some way to get her to forgive you, and you dont want to lose her...
Don't do it again.
Edit : You fucked up the most for going to her house on E.
[This message has been edited by Wog (edited 10-12-2006).]
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#6
 2006-10-12, 04:25
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
Well shit dude, you did fuck up, but only because you lied to her about the E. You need to have a long-ass talk to her about how she needs to respect your lifestyle choices, e.g: the fact you do drugs.
However, she is probably worried sick that you are addicted, so YOU need to prove to her that you aren't. Stay clean for a few months to prove this, and then have another chat to her if you still want to do them.
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#7
 2006-10-12, 04:25
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
You didn't fuck up.
Only way you fucked up, is by changing who you were to be with this girl.
NOBODY is worth changing for. Ever.
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#8
 2006-10-12, 04:28
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
Spike her drink with an E pill, lets see her hate E an hour and a half later.
She sounds like a stupid immature bitch.
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#9
 2006-10-12, 04:35
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
quote:Originally posted by Monox:
but seriously, if this chick cant accept you for who you are, and is trying to change you......fuck it.
it's more the fact that he lied to her about it. and if he knows she has a problem with it and chooses to do it anyway, and then lie to her about it, he can't expect her not to get upset.
sometimes people don't WANT to be bothered by something or feel stupid about it, but they can't help it. it's an issue to them and they can't change it. being confronted with something that they have an issue with and then being lied to about it isn't going to help them feel better.
let her cool off and then you need to figure some shit out. how long have you been together?
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#10
 2006-10-12, 05:52
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
Fuck her; she doesn't respect your interests.
synopsis: dump the bitch.
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#11
 2006-10-12, 07:33
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
quote:Originally posted by AquaX:
OK so my GF wouldn't let me smoke weed do e or anything... Only drink
Shes really against drugs for some reason.
Well anyway I had some E on me and some weed yesterday. I really wanted to get high... I haven't gotten high since I got together with her. Well anyways, I asked her if she wanted to try some weed, then she got really pissed at me and said do you have weed on you ? I told her what I had on me then she looked like she was gona cry and told me to give it to her. I said NO fuck that that cost me like 80 bucks. Then she says that I have to ditch it and I told her no I'm going to go smoke it and we started arguing I couldn't stand it anymore so I left and smoked up and popped some pills with my friends. A couple hours later rite before the e comedown I went to her house and apologized, and she asked me if I did anything I said no then she started looking into my eyes and she noticed how fucken big my pupils were and started yelling at me and bitching for lien and told me to leave. SO WTF do I do she doesn't want to talk to me
idiot
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#12
 2006-10-12, 08:05
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
You both seem kinda fucked up.
She's getting waaaaay too over dramatic about a little bit of weed and ex, but then, you were a motherfucker and a cunt for lying to her.
If you cant meet common ground, IE, she bitches you out less, you limit your drug useage to times when she's not around and you stop GODDAMN LYING TO HER, you might be able to sort things out.
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#13
 2006-10-12, 08:10
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
For me, it comes down to this,
What do I enjoy more:
A. Her company.
B. Drugs
If I enjoy drugs more, then she has to go.
If I enjoy her company more, well then I can maybe kinda sorta cut down on my usage.
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#14
 2006-10-12, 08:41
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
Wow, you shouldnt have to change for her, but you also shouldnt have lied to her face you sack of shit.
And if you told her you wouldn't do drugs, did them anyway, and then lied to her about it and got caught, then you got what you fucking deserved.
Another reason why drugs are bad.
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#15
 2006-10-12, 08:59
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CatharticWeek 
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
Anti-drug girls are really serious about it.
You might feel lighthearted about the subject but they will fry your balls with extreme pregudice.
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#16
 2006-10-12, 09:28
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Wog 
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
quote:Originally posted by arquin:
For me, it comes down to this,
What do I enjoy more:
A. Her company.
B. Drugs
If I enjoy drugs more, then she has to go.
If I enjoy her company more, well then I can maybe kinda sorta cut down on my usage.
Are you a fucking drug addict? And for all the people saying you shouldn't change for anyone, what do drugs do? They make you act differently.
They CHANGE you.
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#17
 2006-10-12, 09:52
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CatharticWeek 
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
quote:Originally posted by Wog:
Are you a fucking drug addict? And for all the people saying you shouldn't change for anyone, what do drugs do? They make you act differently.
They CHANGE you.
Just like the way eating cake CHANGES YOU.
Spooky.
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#18
 2006-10-12, 09:58
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
quote:Originally posted by Wog:
Are you a fucking drug addict? And for all the people saying you shouldn't change for anyone, what do drugs do? They make you act differently.
They CHANGE you.
Well, no.
But I enjoy my freedoms. Even if I don't want to do drugs, even if I've quit, if a girl MAKES me choose, well, drugs it is.
People should never ask you to change (unless you have a fullblown addiction), you should automatically want to better your self for those that you love.
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#19
 2006-10-12, 14:25
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Local Hero 
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
Die, you dumbshit.
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#20
 2006-10-12, 14:33
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
We're all addicts, and addicts are great actors and morphers of the truth. Just lie to her. But be a Great actor. Act like recovering alcohols (learn about AA) Acting like an AA zombie can be very effective in greater society.
[This message has been edited by Twisted Timmy (edited 10-12-2006).]
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#21
 2006-10-12, 14:51
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
quote:Originally posted by AquaX:
OK so my GF wouldn't let me smoke weed do e or anything... Only drink
Shes really against drugs for some reason.
Well anyway I had some E on me and some weed yesterday. I really wanted to get high... I haven't gotten high since I got together with her. Well anyways, I asked her if she wanted to try some weed, then she got really pissed at me and said do you have weed on you ? I told her what I had on me then she looked like she was gona cry and told me to give it to her. I said NO fuck that that cost me like 80 bucks. Then she says that I have to ditch it and I told her no I'm going to go smoke it and we started arguing I couldn't stand it anymore so I left and smoked up and popped some pills with my friends. A couple hours later rite before the e comedown I went to her house and apologized, and she asked me if I did anything I said no then she started looking into my eyes and she noticed how fucken big my pupils were and started yelling at me and bitching for lien and told me to leave. SO WTF do I do she doesn't want to talk to me
She doesn't want you to be harmed, it's better if she cares for you then if she doesn't.
You have holes punched in your brain already, from even doing the drug once. Well, seriously, man, I don't give a shit about you, but you have to look after your girl and see why she doesn't want you to do it.
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#22
 2006-10-12, 18:29
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
What happened to your other girlfriend? You know.... the one that almost died? Because of drugs? I would have thought that that experience might have helped you make a decision. Apparently not.
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#23
 2006-10-12, 18:35
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
she ahs sense, drugs are for fucking silly cunts, give it up and get some viagra, its clear you have an erectile disfunction.
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#24
 2006-10-12, 20:56
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AquaX 
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
Fuck this I decided to quit drugs. I flushed all my weed down the toilet in front of her with out even hesitating. Through my pipe down a sewer. I even got rid of my lighters. Shes still having doubts she doesn't think I quit. Fuck why does everyone think I'm a chronic? I'm gona make sure not to smoke weed for a long time only on special occasions. And I'm not gona do E ever again.
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#25
 2006-10-12, 21:06
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
..That was kinda drastic. It's cool that you like her that much, but not sticking up for yourself at all..
Well now you've proven you can be pussywhipped, it's not long before she starts buying you stripey jumpers and sandals..
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#26
 2006-10-12, 21:15
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
Yeah I think you should make a choice and stick to it. I think you made the wrong choice, but hey, I hope she was worth it.
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#27
 2006-10-12, 21:16
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Back In New Orleans!
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
quote:Originally posted by AquaX:
I flushed all my weed down the toilet in front of her with out even hesitating.
WHAT THE FUCK?? You could have given it away, so someone get a use out of it....damn. Maybe I was wrong about you, bastard.
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#28
 2006-10-12, 21:20
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AquaX 
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
quote:Originally posted by happy_one_hit:
WHAT THE FUCK?? You could have given it away, so someone get a use out of it....damn. Maybe I was wrong about you, bastard.
OHH SHIT I COULD HAVE  Well I still have a bit left in my car but its in the garage now when I get it back I'll give it to my friends.
I don't like to waste stuff like that but ohh well  it wasn't that much only 3 grams.
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#29
 2006-10-12, 22:19
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:
..That was kinda drastic. It's cool that you like her that much, but not sticking up for yourself at all..
Well now you've proven you can be pussywhipped, it's not long before she starts buying you stripey jumpers and sandals..
For once I agree with you.
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#30
 2006-10-12, 22:27
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
You should have told her to respect your decissions about how you live your life, and if she can't deal with it, you don't know to be with her.
That's what i would tell a chick if she went off on one about drugs...then again i don't think i'd find the kind of person who just rules "teh drugzz" out due to ignorance/misinformation/prejudice attractive anyway...
Send her a later saying:
"I don't do drugs, I AM drugs"
-and so are you, biatch!
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#31
 2006-10-12, 22:27
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
You're an idiot for No. 1: Dating someone who so adamantly disagrees with your lifestyle and No. 2: Going to see her while you're high.
Dumbshit.
Cheers,
Lost
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#32
 2006-10-12, 22:34
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
quote:Originally posted by AntlerBoy:
Fuck her; she doesn't respect your interests.
synopsis: dump the bitch.
Read the thread on ultimatums somewhere. Enjoy being a whipped faggot, faggot.
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#33
 2006-10-12, 23:16
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
You're both morons! You're a moron for changing for someone, getting involved with someone you knew you'd have this problem with, going to her house high, and lying to her. She's a moron having such an irrational hate for "drugs" but accepting alcohol. Alcohol is worse than heroin, teach her that.
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#34
 2006-10-13, 00:33
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
quote:Originally posted by Optionryder420:
You didn't fuck up.
Not exactly... She's clearly doing it because she cares about him, and doesn't want to see him getting fucked up and doing something stupid. Now, it's not her place to "make" him quit, or tell him to, but she can sure as hell suggest it, and her reasons why. as long as she's trying to be civil about it, then she has every right to at least talk to him about it.
Back to my main point - Did the OP do something like promise her he'd quit? Because if he did promise her that, right or wrong, he fucked up. don't make promises you can't keep, or don't agree with.
I suggest talking with her, and trying to reach some sort of compromise about it. If that's not possible, then you might want to think about ending the relationship.
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#35
 2006-10-13, 01:19
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
This is unacceptable in a relationship.
Remind your girlfriend that she is a stupid cunt, and that caffiene, ibuprofen, tylenol, and alcohol are DRUGS.
Also tell her to practice what she preaches. Break her arms so that she needs some kind of surgery, and then when the doctor is about to give her a shot of morphine, say "NO! She's very against drug use. She tells me drugs are the devil all the time"
See how that fucking cunt feels then.
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#36
 2006-10-13, 01:24
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
i had a girlfriend like that once, i still did and now were not together so i can do all the drugs i want, funny think is though that she said pot was worse than drinking.
STUPID BITCHES
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#37
 2006-10-13, 01:25
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
quote:Originally posted by Wog:
Are you a fucking drug addict? And for all the people saying you shouldn't change for anyone, what do drugs do? They make you act differently.
They CHANGE you.
you're wrong.
the problem with her telling him he can't do drugs has NOTHING TO DO WITH THE DRUGS. It's her trying to change him, and where do you draw the line? If you let one piece of ground slip, pretty soon you'll find yourself dancing to her tune completely, and doing whatever she wants.
It's not that she told him not to do drugs, it's that if he wants to do drugs and she loves him, she should fucking accept it.
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#38
 2006-10-13, 02:08
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
i always respected you, still do, good luck aqua X
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#39
 2006-10-13, 02:46
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
Okay, I have a friend. He does drugs, his girlfriend(now his ex) didn't like it, and told her sister's boyfriends. 3 big black niggers jumped my friend and he spent 12 days in the hospital. My point? Tell this chick to shut the fuck up or leave. I was afraid my friend was gonna die, just cause some bitch who he had gone out with for less than a week didn't like him doing drugs. Not even cause she didn't like drugs, but because she was on probation. Bitch.
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#40
 2006-10-13, 04:44
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
quote:Originally posted by Jewbacca:
Read the thread on ultimatums somewhere. Enjoy being a whipped faggot, faggot.
Link me? Or at least a point in the right direction? "somewhere" doesn't mean much, bud.
As for being a whipped faggot: I have a girlfriend, and she's perfectly cool with my drug use. So no, i'm not really whipped, and i don't plan on being so. ever.
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#41
 2006-10-13, 04:47
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AntlerBoy 
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Re: I totally fucked up :(
quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:
Just like the way eating cake CHANGES YOU.
Spooky.
I lawled.
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