I went to the homecoming dance a few days ago, I was drunk as shit. This girl, who is in 9th grade, came up to me and said that we needed to slow dance. I did. She began making out with me, so I followed along. Afterwards she basically asked if I wanted to "go out" with her. I said yes.

I am in 11th grade, and am 16 years old. Im pretty sure she is 15. I never spoke with this girl before the dance, and now she is my girlfriend, is this wrong? Generally, highschool relationships dont mean shit anyway, so.. I dont know..

What's your take?

You already seem to be convinced it will be over in a few days anyhow.

If shes mostly mature, you have a thing for her, or just want to have fun go for it.

Morals are defined by you.

Nothing wrong with that. I doubt it will last, but it will be fun. Just go with it and ride it 'till it ends. If you don't want to go out with her tell her, do what you think is right.

quote:Originally posted by Cpt.Winters:

I went to the homecoming dance a few days ago, I was drunk as shit. This girl, who is in 9th grade, came up to me and said that we needed to slow dance. I did. She began making out with me, so I followed along. Afterwards she basically asked if I wanted to "go out" with her. I said yes.

I am in 11th grade, and am 16 years old. Im pretty sure she is 15. I never spoke with this girl before the dance, and now she is my girlfriend, is this wrong? Generally, highschool relationships dont mean shit anyway, so.. I dont know..

What's your take?

Do what feels right. You have instincts, use them.

Sounds good, i'll ride it out.

Thanks gang.

Good luck with things, high school relationships are for the most part fucking crazy. But fun at the same time, so just enjoy yourself.

quote:Originally posted by Cpt.Winters:

Sounds good, i'll ride it out.

Thanks gang.

Just remember though - what goes up must come down, and what goes down must rise up. The peak is a victory, the letdown is painful. The valley is a defeat, and the climb is freeing. Remember though, when you're done living that way, it's not about falling and climbing...it's about helping others out of the valley where they can easily be flooded and being a home for those on the peak where they can easily be frozen.