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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2006-10-10, 11:56
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How can I stop myself falling in love
Do you guys know of any way to stop yourself falling in love?
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#2
 2006-10-10, 11:59
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
A better question would be to ask "Why would you want to not fall in love?"
At any rate, castration will take care of that problem.
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#3
 2006-10-10, 12:06
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naive_wisdom 
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
Or a bullet to the head.
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#4
 2006-10-10, 12:08
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Australia, Victoria.
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:
A better question would be to ask "Why would you want to not fall in love?"
Nooooooo!! You fell into his fiendish trap. Now we'll have to listen to him talk for the next 20 minutes.
*Kicks Argon under the table*
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#5
 2006-10-10, 12:16
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
quote:Originally posted by Forgotten:
Nooooooo!! You fell into his fiendish trap. Now we'll have to listen to him talk for the next 20 minutes.
*Kicks Argon under the table*
Knowing my track record of talking people out of suicide, it should only take me one post of assholishness to do the trick.
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#6
 2006-10-10, 12:25
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
stop associating with the object of your affection. no talking, no sex....
wait, no....doesn't work....will still be on your mind all the time....i assume you're still in your teens....so, ya...there's no way to avoid what you call love and I call infatuation.
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#7
 2006-10-10, 12:49
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
Choose not to.
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#8
 2006-10-10, 13:45
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Duck In Fog 
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
If you regularly 'fall in love' it's probably not real love.
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#9
 2006-10-10, 13:53
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
quote:Originally posted by chickenpoop:
stop associating with the object of your affection. no talking, no sex....
wait, no....doesn't work....will still be on your mind all the time....i assume you're still in your teens....so, ya...there's no way to avoid what you call love and I call infatuation.
I am 34 years old. I don't want to fall in love because of the time commitments, fidelity and possibility (likelihood) of pain.
[This message has been edited by spinnersean (edited 10-10-2006).]
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#10
 2006-10-10, 14:21
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
Can't be done, if it's proper love.
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#11
 2006-10-10, 14:35
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
quote:Originally posted by spinnersean:
I am 34 years old. I don't want to fall in love because of the time commitments, fidelity and possibility (likelihood) of pain.
Avoid the person like the plague.
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#12
 2006-10-10, 15:02
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Duck In Fog 
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
quote:Originally posted by spinnersean:
I am 34 years old. I don't want to fall in love because of the time commitments, fidelity and possibility (likelihood) of pain.
If you avoided something just because it can sometimes cause pain, you'd have one incredibly sad life.
Also, it can cause pain when you're not with anyone/in love because you feel like a failure/unloved/unwanted etc
No-win situation.
Take a chance.
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#13
 2006-10-10, 15:36
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RevolutionNov7th 
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
You can only avoid it if you're an inherently cold, disturbed and emotionless person. And even then it's difficult.
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#14
 2006-10-10, 15:40
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
what are you dome kinda pussy faggot? man up
"oh boo hoo how can i stop myself from falling in love?" if ur fucking 13 you are no more in "love" then a dog that humps furniture. and if your a adult who the fuck cares? use some self control/
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#15
 2006-10-11, 07:34
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Mindless Xyzzyean 
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
Do you think love is something really deep? (that goes out to everyone)....
I dont tell my girlfriend that I love her, because well... truth is we dont 'love' eachother, because we both find love to be such a huge deal.
Do you think it is? (once again to everyone), or do you think that we have actually come to disagree with the terminology and force of it and become scared of saying it? Is this the mature/immature outlook, etc.... I just want to know what you lot think.
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#16
 2006-10-12, 03:12
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COBHC 
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
quote:Originally posted by Mindless Xyzzyean:
Do you think love is something really deep? (that goes out to everyone)....
I dont tell my girlfriend that I love her, because well... truth is we dont 'love' eachother, because we both find love to be such a huge deal.
Do you think it is? (once again to everyone), or do you think that we have actually come to disagree with the terminology and force of it and become scared of saying it? Is this the mature/immature outlook, etc.... I just want to know what you lot think.
i think it's something really deep, and in my opinion if it's real love you'd tell her you love her. thats only my opinion though, dont take it too seriously, everyone has their way of doing stuff.
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#17
 2006-10-12, 03:15
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fullcircle 
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
In my experience no force on earth can stop it.
Other than castration perhaps.
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#18
 2006-10-12, 04:26
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truorion 
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
Sure, remind yourself it'll probably end with her ripping your heart out, and stomping it into the ground.
That'll do the trick.
On a side note, it may work out beautifully and you'll spend your life with this person.
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#19
 2006-10-12, 05:07
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Re: How can I stop myself falling in love
i would imagine you would have to not get to know anyone too closely, or share any personal info about yourself. it would be a lonely existence.
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