seems like people in real life are anxious to avoid me. often it is okay, but when it is someone i have interest in it becomes not so lucky.

sevreal posters in the game101 thread claim getting people at ease round you is equal to success. explain please.

You come off as sort of a pretentious asshole on here. Maybe you're like that in real life.

Try taking the stick out of your ass and not asserting your opinion when it's not welcome. And don't tell people they're wrong if you disagree with them.

you could stop trolling, that might be a start?

quote:Originally posted by Myron Mujadi:

seems like people in real life are anxious to avoid me. often it is okay, but when it is someone i have interest in it becomes not so lucky.

sevreal posters in the game101 thread claim getting people at ease round you is equal to success. explain please.

I know what the problem is..

By calling people "fools" that highlights focally whats wrong. I used to be like you, until I realized if you don't appreciate people, sincerely, compliment them (not flatter) and appreciate their good points they won't warm to you. There's a quote, this isn't exactly it but it's something like, "Every man is in one way my superior." Keep that in mind. Learn from other people. Remember, knowledge is power.

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quote:Originally posted by Trapped In A Box:

I know what the problem is..

By calling people "fools" that highlights focally whats wrong. I used to be like you, until I realized if you don't appreciate people, sincerely, compliment them (not flatter) and appreciate their good points they won't warm to you. There's a quote, this isn't exactly it but it's something like, "Every man is in one way my superior." Keep that in mind. Learn from other people. Remember, knowledge is power.



QFT.

quote:Originally posted by Myron Mujadi:

seems like people in real life are anxious to avoid me. often it is okay,

You don't seem very social either.

Don't let person's bad opinions depress you, but still re-examine yourself, see what you're doing wrong to cause this negative vibe from people.

Not refering to them as "fools" may be a good place to start...

Cheers,

Lost

People also have trouble being comfortable around me. But that’s because I smite them with my HAMMER OF JUSTICE for any quasi-imagined slight.



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You will never have this skill becuase authenticity is something people can pick up on.

quote:Originally posted by Trapped In A Box:

There's a quote, this isn't exactly it but it's something like, "Every man is in one way my superior." Keep that in mind. Learn from other people. Remember, knowledge is power.





Damn, that's a good quote I can really use. thanks.