Ok . Last night my sister and her friends asked me to buy em some Smirnoff Ice. I get em a couple of 6 packs and they get pretty tipsy. Im bored, so naturally im hanging out with them.

My sister threw up in her room so this one chick said shes sleeping in my bed with me.

Well anyways im cuddling with her and I started to get really turned on. Nothing sexual happened i.m.o. But I feel kinda weird about how it went down. Ive never been affectionate with a girl so young.

Btw im 22 and they are 15. What would you have done in this situtation? and girls, was what I did fucked up?

peace

No, cause nothing happend.

As long as she didn't get the wrong idea, there's no issue. Don't make a habit out of it.

Since pedophilia is the attraction to children who are prepubescent, no.

If she's a hot, well developed girl then most guys would have been turned on as well.

But as Euda said, it's not a good idea to make a habit of it.

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:

Since pedophilia is the attraction to children who are prepubescent, no.

If she's a hot, well developed girl then most guys would have been turned on as well.

But as Euda said, it's not a good idea to make a habit of it.



So would you call someone a pedo for fucking a 15 year old who looks say 19?

quote:Originally posted by Satanz Handicaped Helper:



So would you call someone a pedo for fucking a 15 year old who looks say 19?

Personally no, but I have liberal views on the matter (within reason).

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:



But as Euda said, it's not a good idea to make a habit of it.

Yeah thats what im worried about. I look about 15 myself , so naturally these younger girls are attracted to me. Its harder for me to hook up with girls my own age becuase of this.

and last night was the 1st time ive done that ....and it was probobly the MOST turned on I have honestly ever been. but i knew i couldn't take it any further.

eh.....

quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:

and last night was the 1st time ive done that ....and it was probobly the MOST turned on I have honestly ever been. but i knew i couldn't take it any further.



Here's the problem in a nutshell:

a) You couldn't publically have a relationship with a girl that young.

b) A girl that young (generally speaking) isn't mature enough to have a "friends with benefits" relationship.

So more for the girls sake than yours, hooking up isn't a viable decision.

But you seem to have a good perspective on this, so I'm not telling you anything new.

However I also know that the dick is mightier than the brain. Far, far mightier. No unrealistic advice will come out of my mouth.

So my advice is that if something does end up happening, only let it develop if the girl is a bit of a skank.

Whatever you do - DON'T hook up with a girl who you think might develop feelings etc.

Remember the girls when you were 15?

And you're being rather guarded about what, exactly, happened.

I'd say she's telling everybody at school that she has a hot older boyfriend that will kick the ass of young boys who tease her.

What were you doing hanging out with your 15 year old sister's sleepover anyway?

quote:Originally posted by I_Like_Traffic_Lights:



What were you doing hanging out with your 15 year old sister's sleepover anyway?

My sis lives with me and nothing was going on at the time with me, so I decided to "practice" some social skills.

quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:

so I decided to "practice" some social skills.



K that sounded totally pedo. Hello Michael Jackson.

My friend dated a guy who was 22, and he was 15. She's ridiciously mature for her age, she acts like she's at least 19, and can't date dudes her own age because of that. Her friends freaked out, and so did his, so they ended up falling apart, beacause of other people's pressure..

But they were also cousins. So that might have been part of it.

No, this (http://img.gurochan.net/f/src/1157688563659.jpg) is.

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it was wrong to cuddle IMO.

but as for pedoism i don't think you're there yet.

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:



K that sounded totally pedo. Hello Michael Jackson.

Yeah I guess that did sounds kinda weird. But thats not how I ment to come across. Im usually a pretty shy person and I thought hanging out/socializing with my sisters friends would be a good way to "warm" up with ppl. If that makes sense.

Anyways now in retrospect, Im kinda feeling bad/depressed about what I let allow to happen last night.

But I not sure whats in store next time they come over. Im thinking about msg the chick on her myspace thing, but that might even fuel the fire.

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:



b) A girl that young (generally speaking) isn't mature enough to have a "friends with benefits" relationship.



I beg to differ.....then again Im 15 myself so that could mean something, but I have 2 friends with benefits and its simple and fun.

ya but how old are they Ali g? :P

It sounds like you liked it.

Its fine though, my tech design teacher is married to a woman 9 years older than him, imagine that on meet the parents night. And well.. madonna? didnt she date guys like 20 years older? No matter what someone will look down on it, but its your choice if you want to go through with that

quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:

ya but how old are they Ali g? :P

Hah

They are my age so no worries.

at 15 i definitely did way more than that with guys older than 22. 15 year old girls are past puberty. it's not pedophilia just because she's a minor.

This is probobly a dumbass question. But is it possible to have small tits (like b'ish) and not have gone throu puberty?

Or does this all happen at the same time?

quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:

This is probobly a dumbass question. But is it possible to have small tits (like b'ish) and not have gone throu puberty?

Or does this all happen at the same time?

if you've got Bs you've probably gone through puberty. unless you're fat, and the boobs are just ... skin. i think you;d be able to tell if she was pubescent or not.

Well yeah im sure she was, just by her additude.

But her tits were a lil on the small side (shes normal wieght for highth thou)

But like I said, I have no experence dealing with em that young .

I got the impression that you didn't want anything to happen.

thats not pedo behavior, thats homosexual behavior. Shoulda railed her out.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

I got the impression that you didn't want anything to happen.

Well, I probobly would have made out with her to be honest.

But her body language told me she also didn't want to take it further. It was late and she was tired also, so.....

And the fact shes best friends with my sister? Im sure that inhibited us massively.

(vise versa)

Try explaining it without doing anything to make yourself look better/cool.

I think it would paint a more understandable picture.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

Try explaining it without doing anything to make yourself look better/cool.

I think it would paint a more understandable picture.



Im sorry Euda? Maybe I misenterpreted your post. How was I trying to make myself look (better/cool)? Im being 100% honest in this thread.

U high?

Okay, first of all, often the goal of younger girls is to HIT IT AND HIT IT HARD.

This friend of your sister has probably had a crush on you for years. I mean, think about it, she's not 8 anymore... she's 15, by then girls are HORNY, and she used that opportunity to SLEEP IN YOUR BED WITH YOU.

Dude, I think there's about a 1% chance that she didn't want to at least make out that night. But don't feel bad about that. Holding out on her, unless it was uncomfortable, might just make her want you more.

And to be honest? 15 year olds, who are physically mature, are ripe for the taking. I wouldn't worry about being labeled a pedo. Some people will, but those people are close minded.

"Okay, first of all, often the goal of younger girls is to HIT IT AND HIT IT HARD."

"This friend of your sister has probably had a crush on you for years."

Maybe so stab,(2 the 1st comment) but i actually just met her that night.

Im so confused right now. When she woke up i rubbed my leg on hers and it seemed like she pulled away. Then shortly after she got up and went to my sisters room. (and gave me a dirty look)

Hmm? I had to drive em back home today and she was all cool and flirty, but she pretended she didnt know what happend last night.

BUT discussed how she slept in my bed. wtf?

(maybe cuz my sister was in the car with us?) hell, im not sure.

quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:

"Okay, first of all, often the goal of younger girls is to HIT IT AND HIT IT HARD."

"This friend of your sister has probably had a crush on you for years."

Maybe so stab,(2 the 1st comment) but i actually just met her that night.

Im so confused right now. When she woke up i rubbed my leg on hers and it seemed like she pulled away. Then shortly after she got up and went to my sisters room. (and gave me a dirty look)

Hmm? I had to drive em back home today and she was all cool and flirty, but she pretended she didnt know what happend last night.

BUT discussed how she slept in my bed. wtf?

(maybe cuz my sister was in the car with us?) hell, im not sure.



Actually, that is weird. She seems immature.

Well yeah stab, shes only 15 .

But still.....

quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:



Btw im 22 and they are 15. What would you have done in this situtation? and girls, was what I did fucked up?



Pedophile? Maybe not. Still kinda creepy? Yea.

In that situation I would have had nothing to do with a 15 year old girl. I mean.... she's 15. If I were in that situation, well, really I wouldnt buy booze for a 15 year old sister in the first place, if I did I wouldnt spend the night hanging out with my sister's friends, and finally, if a drunken 15 year old came walking in to my room I doubt Id want anything to do with her and would have told her to sleep on the couch or something.

Face the fact that she may just be comfortable with herself. She may in fact have only wanted a place to sleep.

You may be the only person that views this as sexual.

Girls of any age will sleep and not consider it sexual if that's how they feel.

Hmm Euda, I hate to admit it. But that post makes the most sense to me now.

She was reactive in my touch, but did not "respond" to it. It seemed almost impersonal. Like to get warm in a cold inviroment?

I just thought it was "strange" that the girl flirting with me all night just decided it was a good idea to sleep in my bed, with a couch and a guest room to lay.

Whatever, maybe she felt comfy with me...

quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:

"Okay, first of all, often the goal of younger girls is to HIT IT AND HIT IT HARD."

"This friend of your sister has probably had a crush on you for years."

Maybe so stab,(2 the 1st comment) but i actually just met her that night.

Im so confused right now. When she woke up i rubbed my leg on hers and it seemed like she pulled away. Then shortly after she got up and went to my sisters room. (and gave me a dirty look)

Hmm? I had to drive em back home today and she was all cool and flirty, but she pretended she didnt know what happend last night.

BUT discussed how she slept in my bed. wtf?

(maybe cuz my sister was in the car with us?) hell, im not sure.



I think what she was actually doing was just trying to get a response out of you, being a flirt/tease. Girls at 15 know what their doing (somewhat). She probably really didn't want anything to do with you sexually (thats why she pulled away), but she wanted to see if she could get you to hit on her, or try something on her....just to satisfy some fucked up female desire to validate her being attractive.....

and about a previous post you made, about not having any experience with girls this young....

You never fooled around with them when you were that age??

This is pretty sad. You're 7 years older than that girl. Well atleast you didn't do anything... yet.

"You never fooled around with them when you were that age??"

"chickenpoop", When i was 14/15, I was homeschooled at the time.

I didn't have much social interaction then.

So, No. I dont have any experence from that period of my life.

quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:

"You never fooled around with them when you were that age??"

"chickenpoop", When i was 14/15, I was homeschooled at the time.

I didn't have much social interaction then.

So, No. I dont have any experence from that period of my life.



here's your chance to make up for lost time...

Dude, don't worry about it. Just get the fuck over it and move on.

There is nothing pedo about it. I think you should try and sex them.

u shud have fapp'ed on her chin while she slept

not pedo behavior, shes 15, that's 1 or 3 years from legal in most places. 15 year olds are not children, there pretty close to adults compaired to 8 and 9 year olds. it stops being pedophilia at like 13, unless you're 50 and then it goes to like 15

Not pedo. Eupheb. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ephebophilia

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:

Personally no, but I have liberal views on the matter (within reason).

I think everyone should, the only thing IMO that can be said about what defines a true pedo is puberty, if the child hasn't gone through puberty and a person wants to fuck them, they are a pedofile.(sp?)

A 13 year old fucking a 19 year old? Who am I to judge? But a 12 year old fucking a 7 year old, that's a little different. Mainly because I've never heard of anyone going through puberty when they are 7.

You should have fucked her.

quote:Originally posted by AeroDynamic:

You should have fucked her.

Yeah right. Now, actually im worried now she might start telling ppl she "slept with me"

Im getting paranoid thinking about the consequences of my actions.

Im on probation , so if i get a charge im FUCKED.

but i dunno she seemed cool the next moring, althought when i asked her she denied any remberance of what happend.

and she clearly was semi-sober when she went 2 bed with me.

hmmm...

You're a male in bed with a female. Did you expect intellectual conversation?

quote:Originally posted by RogueWarheart:

You're a male in bed with a female. Did you expect intellectual conversation?

Umm, I think you misinterpreted the post bud.

Haha, stupid girls.



Probably avoid shit like that, or else you'll be known as the creepy older brother. Possibly ruin your sisters social life.

15+ is okay, dont go lower

not ok.

but for the sake of joke

if theres grass on the feld play ball

if not play in the mud.

quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:

"Okay, first of all, often the goal of younger girls is to HIT IT AND HIT IT HARD."

"This friend of your sister has probably had a crush on you for years."

Maybe so stab,(2 the 1st comment) but i actually just met her that night.

Im so confused right now. When she woke up i rubbed my leg on hers and it seemed like she pulled away. Then shortly after she got up and went to my sisters room. (and gave me a dirty look)

Hmm? I had to drive em back home today and she was all cool and flirty, but she pretended she didnt know what happend last night.

BUT discussed how she slept in my bed. wtf?

(maybe cuz my sister was in the car with us?) hell, im not sure.



Ever been drunk and horny? wanted to fuck something that when your sober is not all that purdy? thats what happened here and if you acted on it you'd be in prison because her excuse would be "THE BIG SCARY MAN GOT ME DRUNK" and then BAM shes back to immiture

quote:Originally posted by NiGhT PrOwLeR:

Ever been drunk and horny? wanted to fuck something that when your sober is not all that purdy? thats what happened here and if you acted on it you'd be in prison because her excuse would be "THE BIG SCARY MAN GOT ME DRUNK" and then BAM shes back to immiture

Cept I could hardly be seen as a "Big scary man got me drunk" ... lol I look about as old as she.

They have to atleast be legal in my opinion (legal fucking age is 16 in my country)

Yeah man, its 16 here with parents consent.

So it could have been illegal, cept we didnt do anything sexual.

Unless you consider ass grabbing and feeling a chick up sexual.

(everything with clothes on)

Man what the fuck is wrong with you. You are leading to the delinquency of a minor, and your thinking about having intercourse with them. Yes, it pedo behavior. The second you let the girl sleep in your bed, instead of having her sleep on the sofa it became that kind of behavior.

Whatever Hardre, fuck you. Like you would have let the chance pass you by?

Ok man, sure.

just dont touch em

quote:Originally posted by Nikkuh:

Whatever Hardre, fuck you. Like you would have let the chance pass you by?

Ok man, sure.



No I wouldn't have. The only girls that seem to like me are between the ages of 15 to 17. I have to pass up the chance several times a month.

Yes, I would be wary, girls that ae are turning into sluts, I would avoid them drunk, its illegal and they crack down on sick perverts alot. And the defence I didnt know how old they were WILL NOT work, and nor should it, sex with a minor si sick and points to the idea that the man cannot get a girls his own age level. At schoolw e get disgusted when sixth formers go out with younger years (16>14)

You're a guy... And there's a Female lying next to you... Your dicks thinking; "FUCK THIS WHY THE FUCK IS HE NOT HITTING THAT!" so he's on gaurd. As long as you didn't actually fuck her you're fine.

Technically speaking if a guy is lying next to a fully developed girl (notice the choice of words) and cuddling with her, he'd be gay not to get turned on.

No, you were sleeping in the same bed with her and if she was hot of course you got turned on.

http://tinyurl.com/ycand5

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:

Since pedophilia is the attraction to children who are prepubescent, no.

If she's a hot, well developed girl then most guys would have been turned on as well.

But as Euda said, it's not a good idea to make a habit of it.



QFT.

quote:Originally posted by albinoblacksheep:

My friend dated a guy who was 22, and he was 15.

Mhmmm.

Do you know how hard I've been working to get that far with 15 year old girls (granted, I'm 15)? You blew it.

To answer your question, No.

Physically she is a mature women. Mentally probably not. you did the right thing dude!

No, stuff like that happens to everyone. Everyone ahs gotten a boner while being around a female relative,... its perfectly natural/

quote:Originally posted by Too Much Ibuprofen:

http://tinyurl.com/ycand5

L O L.

from what ive seen in this thread it seems like your trying, intentionally or not, to justify eventually hooking up with this girl. my advice is just getting it totally out of your head and moving on. nothing good will come from it.

a good way to stop thinking about it is by thinking about how you would feel about a guy your age hooking up w/ your sister. I sure as hell wouldnt let that happen.

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Yeah thats true frozen. If my sister hooked up with a 22 yearold I would kill him.

I never really wanted to "hook" up with this girl, she is kinda immature. But I was just trying to justify my obvious sexual attraction to her.

eh, I havnt seen her since that night, kinda wish i had....

Im pretty sure the parents found out and the chick is banned from comming over here anymore.

peace,

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

Face the fact that she may just be comfortable with herself. She may in fact have only wanted a place to sleep.

You may be the only person that views this as sexual.

Girls of any age will sleep and not consider it sexual if that's how they feel.

Please remove your head from your fucking ass buddy.

No she wasn't just looking for a place to sleep, because in a house the bed of your friends brother isn't the only place to sleep.

You are so full of shit, and this is why I dislike you.

Yes, girls at 15 look at everything in a sexual manner, Euda doesn't realize this because he has neither a dick nor a vagaina.

Everyone at 15 looks at everything in a sexual manner, do not message her on myspace that is fucking lame.

If they come over again, and she seems interested, try and push the action if you really want to fuck around with her.

Just kiss her on the cheek if she again sleeps in your room, if she doesn't then fuck her. Hit on the other bitches and see what happens.

15 year old girls know exactly what the fuck they're doing when it comes to flirting, maybe not sex, but she knows what she wants, and if you make a move on her she won't turn you down IF she is actually interested.

Otherwise if she does turn you down, tell her to get the fuck out the bed, and call her a bitch.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Yes, girls at 15 look at everything in a sexual manner, Euda doesn't realize this because he has neither a dick nor a vagaina.

Everyone at 15 looks at everything in a sexual manner



roffle

I don't even need to insult you, because you just proved you didn't know many girls when you were 15.

quote:Originally posted by fullcircle:



roffle

I don't even need to insult you, because you just proved you didn't know many girls when you were 15.

Umm what fullcirle? Elaborate then.

He is basicly showing mature knowledge on the subject.

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