Recently a really hot girl has been coming onto me alot,we met at a party, i was drunk as hell and throwing up half the time, but for some reason she took a liking to me. We usualy talk like once a day or so (usualy on msn), and i havent really been hitting on her that much, but the intros have gone from hey, to the old hey hey, to hey hun, and now its hey love.

Now, my problem starts here, i do want this girl, but strictly sexualy, i dont really want to get into a relationship with her since i just got out of a very shitty one recently and im not feeling up to it at the m oment(i know i could if i wanted to though). Is there a nice way to have sex with a girl youve been talking to for a while and just be like "well thats that" afterwards? My friend told me that i should give her a chance anyways even if im not really feeling to up to it but im not sure

quote:Originally posted by FCAdam:



Now, my problem starts here, i do want this girl, but strictly sexualy, i dont really want to get into a relationship with her since i just got out of a very shitty one recently and im not feeling up to it at the m oment(i know i could if i wanted to though). Is there a nice way to have sex with a girl youve been talking to for a while and just be like "well thats that" afterwards? My friend told me that i should give her a chance anyways even if im not really feeling to up to it but im not sure

if you know you could if you wanted then you know you could fuck her if you wanted.

Ask her what she's looking for right now, or just flat out state you aren't looking for anything serious right now because you just came out of a longterm relationship that ended badly. If she has half a brain to back up those looks she'll understand and want to fuck, or not want to because she wanted a relationship.

Either way you should be honest and forthright.

quote:Originally posted by Byss:

Ask her what she's looking for right now, or just flat out state you aren't looking for anything serious right now because you just came out of a longterm relationship that ended badly. If she has half a brain to back up those looks she'll understand and want to fuck, or not want to because she wanted a relationship.

Either way you should be honest and forthright.

Or you could take the other approach. Meet up with her, do your thing, but don't say a word about relationships. Not a peep. If she ends up sleeping with you, that's her decision, and if she expects a relationship afterward, well, that's tough.

Remember, she might not want anything serious either.

Spot on.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

Or you could take the other approach. Meet up with her, do your thing, but don't say a word about relationships. Not a peep. If she ends up sleeping with you, that's her decision, and if she expects a relationship afterward, well, that's tough.

Remember, she might not want anything serious either.

That approach would be magnificent if the world didn't contain reactions. Nothing goes without consequence.

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

That approach would be magnificent if the world didn't contain reactions. Nothing goes without consequence.

You're right, in hindsight it's not exactly a comprehensive approach.