Ok so ive been with my gf for about 3 months and we are going well,i guess,and ive become a friend of one of her sisters mates and she is really hot,and suprisingly enough she likes me,and so heres the problem,we have goten to know each other better and we are cool with each other but everytime we meet she gives me that look you know the "i want you right now look",and shes smart funny nice and shes hot,and she wants to go to the beach just me and her,this doesnt nesscesarily mean anything will happen because we are just mates,but theres a chance it could happen,should i go?,i still want to be close friends with her and i havent cheated on anyone but should i go along with it and see how it goes or just completely blow her off?

Break it off with your girl. If you'd actually consider cheating on her, then you're not ready for a relationship. Theres nothing wrong with that, mind you. I actually think it's better to go out and live your own life while you're young, and not jump into a serious relationship that can limit your experiences. But the right thing to do is to let your girl know ahead of time. Any decent human being deserves that much.

I agree with the person above

*wanders away*

SilentMind got it on the nail-head.

Not necessarily. You can still hang out with this other chick, just make sure your girl knows.

And of all things, don't fuck around on her. It'll come back to bite you in the ass.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

Break it off with your girl. If you'd actually consider cheating on her, then you're not ready for a relationship. Theres nothing wrong with that, mind you. I actually think it's better to go out and live your own life while you're young, and not jump into a serious relationship that can limit your experiences. But the right thing to do is to let your girl know ahead of time. Any decent human being deserves that much.

This is exactly what you need to do, OP. This advice is perfect. Don't limit yourself, and don't cheat. Keep in mind that this thing with the other girl may not last, and you may end up totally single. However, it's better to be single than to be a cheating asshole.

SilentMind, as usual, pulls no punches and tells it like it is.

I once started going out with a girl right before my band played a show. Right after the show, a random girl came up to me and asked if I wanted a blowjob. I wished I didn't have a girlfriend so I could do it. Needless to say, the relationship only lasted a week.

Moral of the story? Even thinking of cheating on your girlfriend does not serve a relationship well.