Personally I'm Not Obese. On a body test I found that i'm slightly overweight and i'm 6'3 so it's not like i'm short and fat. See i'm very self conscience About my weight and it's affecting my ability to even talk to girls. So Totse girls what is your opinion on Weight.

Appearance is everything. Do the best with what you can. The better you look, the better your chances. If you're concerned about your weight, start an exercise program.

And I'm sure superdyke and some of you others will be all over me for this one, but it's the truth. First impressions are 90% appearance. And that includes body language. After you meet the girl, you'll need more to keep a relationship going, but appearance is still number one at the beggining.

I have 5% body fat. Do you feel more insecure about your weight now?

I am composed entirely of fat, carbohydrates , alcohol and THC ,

But do i let it bother me ? ...

My boyfriend is too skinny

he's skinnier than me

and I'm not even fat

it pisses me off

a bit of flab can be a bit special

as long as it's not too much

quote:Originally posted by PieGirl:

My boyfriend is too skinny

he's skinnier than me

and I'm not even fat

it pisses me off

a bit of flab can be a bit special

as long as it's not too much

Hey, PieGirl, your name wouldn't have to do with a certain RPG, would it?

quote:Originally posted by ajardoor:

Hey, PieGirl, your name wouldn't have to do with a certain RPG, would it?

ZOMG YOU PLAY PIEQUEST TOO???

If you're a little chunky, it can be attractive. Most guys can pull off being a little overweight. But if you jiggle all the time, I wouldn't take an interest in you.

Lol, buddy don't buy into these dumb shallow bitches.

There are TONS and I mean TONS of guys that get girls who are overweight. It isn't about how you look, these are just some cunts.

Women are auditory, and that is what turns them on. How you talk to them, not necessarily how you look. This is proven by the fact that there are some ugly fucking pimps, but they still have tons of good looking girls hoing for them.

You just need to find your comfort zone and focus in on that.

Just for the record... Chub Chub is fat.

Whatever happened to that fat-ass anyways?

And for the record I'm not a fatass that spends the day Sitting on the couch I play Basketball ALOT i'm on two teams I also Walk a long way home and eat Healthily However I'm Just chubby I guess.

Oh and at My school I have gym for 3 hours a day every second day. (My scehdule got messed up)

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I'm under 5ft, got tiny boobies, a big butt and a squishy tummy, and the rest of me is all muscle.

I dont like the tummy. Infact I hate the tummy, despise, loathe, want to kill it.

But I'm okay with the rest of me. I guess. Except for the height thing.

Reason I never got far in ballet, just far too fucking short.

I'll admit, looks are really important at the begining. BEcause to start to notice someone they're going to have to catch your eye first.

I like attractive men. It's just that ther people I find attractive are very different to another persons oppinion of attractive. I dont know if that makes sense. :S

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Lol, buddy don't buy into these dumb shallow bitches.

There are TONS and I mean TONS of guys that get girls who are overweight. It isn't about how you look, these are just some cunts.

Women are auditory, and that is what turns them on. How you talk to them, not necessarily how you look. This is proven by the fact that there are some ugly fucking pimps, but they still have tons of good looking girls hoing for them.

You just need to find your comfort zone and focus in on that.





For once I actually agree with you.

I never thought I could be with anyone fat/chubby. I got into really skinny guys and thought there was NO WAY I could be attracted to chub, but my current boyfriend is on the chubby side and I'm more attracted to him than I've ever been with anyone. Every time I'm with him I just want to drag him down a dark alley and .... yeah.

AND on the plus side, he's the BEST to cuddle (The first time we hugged, I just didn't want to let go) and he can lift me up, which none of those skinny guys I went for ever could.

So, y'know... as long as you don't work up a sweat walking from the couch to the fridge and bathe often (Is it just me, or do obese people smell weird?) I think you'll be okay.

Just don't aim for the plastic type girls. Everyone knows they only want guys with abs, a nice car and money.

If you're not already, perhaps look into joining a gym.

It'll help you with your weight (every kilo of muscle burns 60ish calories a day as a base rate ) plus you'll feel better for getting out there and being proactive about it.

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This sounds really cliche but it depends on the guy. Example, most guys at, say, 200+ I would chat with but not automatically think "Yeah I wanna do him!!"

But I do have one friend who is only recently down below 200lb, used to be at about 250. And I wanted to sex him like mad because he was such an amazing guy. (he was gay..)

Just take as good of care of yourself as you can. Don't think "well my weight already screws me over" shower and dress nicely.. I have seen a lot of "slightly overweight" guys who took care of themselves and wore nice clothes and looked really, really good! I would definately date one of those guys. But if you wear extremely baggy tshirts.. probably not.

Any guy can pull chicks. I stress this. If I were shorter, I might be considered fat, but I'm 6'7", so my weightkind of works for me. Im trying to lose some weight, but I wouldn't really ever want to be small. Im 278 lbs as of yesterday.

Of course you can't be a complete fat slob and still get women. Project yourself. Dress nice. Wear clothes that detract from your flabbativity. Be confident. Be funny. If chicks are bitches- treat them like a bitch. Don't get pushed around and treated shitty because you feel like you're not worth it.

But seriously, if you don't take pride in yourself, or even make an attempt at it, no one in their right mind will be with you. Man up...

CaspeR

You're comfortable with yourself without being a complete slob?That's a start.Above all else in a man I want to see confidence that they're happy with themselves while still being happy.I've been with both the pillsburry doughboy & mr.macho man & I can tell you this;if someone stresses over themselves so terribly over something that is not life threatening,then they're not worth your time.There's a difference between caring for yourself & obsessing with oneself.

Appearance IS everything. As silentmind had stated before, do your best to look good. It matters (to MOST women). Now its fine to have some chub on ya, and trust me i would know. (I used to be overweight, though i dropped alot over the summer). I do still have alittle weight on me, but women love it.....and my penis

[Kaz]

quote:Originally posted by 4skins:

I have 5% body fat. Do you feel more insecure about your weight now?

Umm... youd die if you had below 6% you fucktard

I don't mind if a guy is a little chubby. In fact, I think skinny guys are less attractive than guys with meat on their bones. Most important to me, though is personality. Brad Pitt could come onto me, but if his personality sucks, I'm not gonna go for him.

I'm sick and fucking tired of miserable tall skinny pale guys with so many issues and so many mental problems. I've had my lifes fill of them.



I find kinda big guys attractive, it's just that they dont find me attractive. Damnit.

The trick to getting girls is knowing that you have to take risks. Most good looking guys that complain about girls nevere wanting to date them are lonely because they just want girls to come after them. They will not take a subtle hint. You will win some and you will lose some but at least you showed up for the game.

This is my problem I think. I just am too afriad of being rejected I will most likely never go after a girl.

I really think that is almost all there is to getting a girlfriend. Just taking opputunites instead of sitting back and watching.

P.S. I'm a tall semi chubby dude... come and get me ladies!

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*rugby tackles Violent Monotreme*

quote:Originally posted by Kimness:

I never thought I could be with anyone fat/chubby. I got into really skinny guys and thought there was NO WAY I could be attracted to chub, but my current boyfriend is on the chubby side and I'm more attracted to him than I've ever been with anyone. Every time I'm with him I just want to drag him down a dark alley and .... yeah.

AND on the plus side, he's the BEST to cuddle (The first time we hugged, I just didn't want to let go) and he can lift me up, which none of those skinny guys I went for ever could.

So, y'know... as long as you don't work up a sweat walking from the couch to the fridge and bathe often (Is it just me, or do obese people smell weird?) I think you'll be okay.

Just don't aim for the plastic type girls. Everyone knows they only want guys with abs, a nice car and money.

The world definatly needs more women like yourself.

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This is me. iam 6'3 215 lbs.



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quote:Originally posted by FCAdam:

Umm... youd die if you had below 6% you fucktard

Uh...lots of Bodybuilders under 6% BF and they aren't dead, I am sure that there are lots of people in Africa below 6% and they aren't dead.

Also to the dumbass' associating apperance with weight need to shut up. You can be overweight and look extremely clean and dressed very sharp.

You can be skinny and look like a slovenly pig. It all depends on how you present yourself, not what you look like naked.

Unless the bitch is superficial.

ima fat boy and i get chicks .... its all how you present yaself. Girls can tell if a man is confident in HIMSELF. if your overweight and are confident in yourself it makes a woman feel at ease

remember theres a difference between confident and conseeded

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quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

*rugby tackles Violent Monotreme*

HAWT

join a gym and get jacked up

worked for me

Well I'm Surprised Noone has asked for pics but here they are... http://i87.photobucket.com/albums/k144/TopherBrown24/DSCN2344.jpg http://i87.photobucket.com/albums/k144/TopherBrown24/DSCN2343.jpg

For the record i'm 16.

^Lol, you are the goofy kid, I know you. Yes you should probably start lifting weights, because at your height, you don't have much to speak of and it will make you look fatter than you actually are. That is not having any muscle.

Secondly, the goofy kid really doesn't do all that great with girls, not until you hit college, and that is a ways away for you.

So I suggest hitting the gym until college, keep the same personality, and then just hit on girls there :P

That's my advice. 16 year old girls are horrible lays anyways, unless you find a whore, and would you really want to fuck a whore?

quote:Originally posted by FCAdam:

Umm... youd die if you had below 6% you fucktard

Then I must be a ghost, fucktard

quote:Originally posted by Grail:

This sounds really cliche but it depends on the guy. Example, most guys at, say, 200+ I would chat with but not automatically think "Yeah I wanna do him!!"

But I do have one friend who is only recently down below 200lb, used to be at about 250. And I wanted to sex him like mad because he was such an amazing guy. (he was gay..)

Just take as good of care of yourself as you can. Don't think "well my weight already screws me over" shower and dress nicely.. I have seen a lot of "slightly overweight" guys who took care of themselves and wore nice clothes and looked really, really good! I would definately date one of those guys. But if you wear extremely baggy tshirts.. probably not.

You dumbass. It borders on mental retardation to judge off weight alone.

200-205 is my IDEAL weight. I'm 6'3.

200 would be obese on someone who is 5 10 or something.