ok so tonight i'm going to the movies with a girl who i'm pretty much sure likes me, i took her to homecoming and we danced the whole time. like she never even let go of my hands. and then after that, shes been calling me every day and we talk for about an hour.

tonight we're going to the movies with a group of friends, i'll probly be next to her, and i'm fucking nervous. like she never really starts anything, i do. and i've never kissed her before, nor have i made out with anyone in a movie theater. i heard its a little uncomfortable because the arm rests get in the way.

but yeah, i want to kiss her, but how would i start it off?

Dont make out in the movie theater. Thats just trashy. It's okay once you're in a relationship, because theres a novelty to it, but it really shouldnt be the first kiss. Just take her hand and massage it gently with your thumb while you're watching the movie. You can always kiss her after the movie, when you're hanging out in the courtyard or whatever.

yeah we'll probly go somewhere to eat after the movie. but we'll be with like 7 other people so...

i dunno. if we go to caribou coffee or whatever, they have a nice comfy couch in there.

Yeah, don't "make out" anywhere in public. It's disgusting to other people. Do it in the privacy of your own home. You go to a movie theater to watch a movie.

quote:Originally posted by MomentaryLapseOfReason:

Yeah, don't "make out" anywhere in public. It's disgusting to other people. Do it in the privacy of your own home. You go to a movie theater to watch a movie.

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quote:Originally posted by MomentaryLapseOfReason:

Yeah, don't "make out" anywhere in public. It's disgusting to other people. Do it in the privacy of your own home. You go to a movie theater to watch a movie.

Yeah. I almost punched a guy in the face when he made out with a girl on the bus. And no, I wasn't jealous, I was sitting next to my girl, we both thought it was fucking disgusting.

Its not disgusting...it's perfectly natural. Dont be so fucking prude. What are you, an arab?

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

Its not disgusting...it's perfectly natural. Dont be so fucking prude. What are you, an arab?

It is disgusting when you're in a public place to eat or watch a movie and you don't want to see that shit. There's a reason why we have laws against lewd and lascivious acts in public.

[This message has been edited by MomentaryLapseOfReason (edited 10-09-2006).]

hmm, making out in a bus = not cool

making out in a movie theatre if it's dark and noone can see you = a o k

I guess I'm a slut.. I make out in public...

But i do it as a statement, cause I am out and proud... I should prolly stop doing that though.

quote:Originally posted by albinoblacksheep:

I guess I'm a slut.. I make out in public...

But i do it as a statement, cause I am out and proud... I should prolly stop doing that though.

Why proud of something you didn't choose or cause? That'd be like me being proud to be human, white, straight, American, short-sighted, brown haired, brown eyed...didn't choose a damned one of 'em. They're not accomplishments to be proud of...

quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:

Why proud of something you didn't choose or cause? That'd be like me being proud to be human, white, straight, American, short-sighted, brown haired, brown eyed...didn't choose a damned one of 'em. They're not accomplishments to be proud of...

i'm proud of making out :]]

its not like anyone really cares, except for the ones who are jealous...and even they dont care sometimes.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

Dont be so fucking prude.

"Prude" is a NOUN, not an ADJECTIVE.

quote:Originally posted by Tentative:

but yeah, i want to kiss her, but how would i start it off?



DON'T touch her leg or anything, and DON'T just leap right in for a kiss.

You gotta be schmoove.

Rest your elbow on the arm rest between you for the first 10-15 minutes of the film, don't make any moves before that.

Then at a boring part of the film, reach your hand forward on the arm rest, so it's right next to hers, just barely touching it side by side.

Wait a bit like that, say 4 or 5 minutes.

Then if you have the balls, reach over gently with your hand and start rubbing along her little finger with the tip of your little finger playfully.

See how she reacts.

If she doesn't move her hand, slide yours over hers a bit more and let it just rest on top of hers. Basically you want to try and end up holding hands with her.

Ideally she'll raise her hand at some point, and move it closer to you. That's a clue to start holding hands.

Worst case scenario she brushes your hand away. This = shot down. However you've been shot down without really exposing yourself too bad, so it's not such a big deal.

If she lets you hold hands, just hold hands for a while, then start gently playing with a free finger (probably your thumb) over the back of her hand or whatever you can manage.

If she responds well, after a minute or two turn your head around to look at her. If she turns around too, that's a green light to move in and kiss her.

I hate people who make out in public!

I was going down a stairway at school, and some fucking slut and her bf were macking right there in the damn stairs i felt sick after... making out is only cool when i do it